The Hard-to-reach Female Orgasm ...

   Indulge in arousal and don't think so necessarily to have an orgasm. I still need a lot of time, but with my current partner I found that I find satisfaction not only with clitoral orgasm. I enjoy sex and I feel great. In addition, we do it several times and constantly change positions and I was surprised in what panty positions I managed to get an orgasm in a short time. The game in the beginning should be longer for you to be very aroused and still do not focus on orgasm but on how good it is and it will happen / at least for me it happens / So it is only in the beginning then it becomes a habit and you do not just think you enjoy sex.

   Your attention is focused only on the orgasm - I, for example, am with different partners in a different way: there have been cases of fast slow or no end at all - mood, excitement, desire, everything is decisive ... Calm down.

   Well, that's normal. My friend is great and he enjoys doing it for 40-50 minutes. Then I reach orgasm, but not every time, it depends. Well, then I'm pretending, but he's not angry. But since we haven't been together for 10 days - for example when we quarrel - horror, I ruthlessly rape him wherever I can and ...

   All the comments are super dumb, the girl doesn't ask you what you do and how cool you are, but if there is a problem! So let's get to the topic, I have the same problem as you, I do not reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation, I don't even think it's possible, I've read a lot on this topic and experts explain that vaginal and clitoral orgasm are two different things, clitoral orgasm is quite easy to achieve, but vaginal is not without clitoral stimulation you can almost not reach orgasm. The best orgasm is when it is experienced from both places, I think you do just that and you have nothing to worry about, just do not really think about it all the time, but in any case do not stop stimulating your clitoris as soon as it gives you pleasure . And many men like it when a woman caresses and touches herself.

   Most women need foreplay and stimulation, make it French and then have the other sex so it will be easier to reach a vaginal orgasm or to massage you with two fingers inside you above - the G-spot is not difficult , do not set a goal for this and do not think about orgasm, he will come to himself when he needs to. And most women are like that, but they do not admit it but simulate orgasms. Buy a vibrator from the store, vaginal balls - whatever you decide - include it in the game so it will be both interesting and varied and will have an effect. Just enjoy the game and sex even if you don't have an orgasm. This is not always the goal.

   Ooo MG and I have the same problem only if I play for a long time while I'm on top I get, and as with you in the order of 20 30 minutes ... I think it's due to the fact that we think too much ... I mean no we relax as much as possible, thinking more about the partner whether he will get bored of the long wait ..... I see that you are a smart woman, and as some studies show, smart women have a hard orgasm or do not get at all ....

   Number 6, why do you speak unprepared, you just become a laughing stock! What connections do you find between intellect and sexuality, girl? Be careful what you read, that you believe him, that you also give advice to people ... Oh, you will make me tired!

   Many women have this problem .. before you have sex you have to be aroused, not to think if something will happen .. indulge your partner and he knows his job. Do as you think will be good for you! And think positive.

   I don't think this is your problem! At least you get an orgasm, even though it's hard - you still reach it. And I'm of the opinion that you focus too much on this "problem" instead of relaxing. Although I am not in a position to express opinions and give advice, because I have a real problem: I can't have an orgasm !!! In the last 5 years I have had two sexual partners, ie. two long connections. Although I loved both my partners very much, I never managed to reach orgasm. I have already despaired and accepted the fact that I will simply never be able to enjoy this ultimate pleasure. I don't understand where the problem is and how I could possibly help myself. If any of you know anything about this or can a site recommend me ............. I would be grateful!

   Hello dear ladies! I still have a big problem .............. I CAN'T REACH ORGASM..I'm already very seriously worried and I don't know what to do, I failed with I don't know what not and with changing partners and it doesn't happen and it doesn't happen! please if you know anything about this problem email me.b thank you in advance

   To numbers 9 and 10. I was just like you, for years I could not reach and I wondered if it was possible at all. Otherwise I was aroused and very much. that I experienced it for the first time. Maybe you, like me, need more intensive stimulation of the clitoris. In my opinion, it is not possible to have a woman who can not experience a clitoral orgasm. Try and you will see that it will happen. every woman should enjoy sex

   I am a man and I apologize for reading and writing in your women's topic, but I am interested. I have a girlfriend with whom we have sexually released, we have no restraints and sharing who wants what in sex and how he wants to get it is the first step to a wild orgasm. Almost always before sex, we watch porn in bed naked, we share what we liked, we try different things from what we saw and then in the real sex, it ended up a dozen times. She is capable in most cases of clitoral orgasm and receives it in certain positions. But this is an advantage, because in other poses he feels pleasure, gets aroused even more and then, only countless orgasms follow. This is the secret of good sex. Do not rush and do not set a goal to finish. Just have fun, invent your own fetish you want to try, get free. Very soon the orgasms will load one after another and you will surprise yourself. Every woman is a time bomb and it depends on your partner whether you will relax, whether he will predispose you to those filth you secretly dreamed of, whether he is able to ignite your hidden fetish and light the fuse of the bomb. It is achieved slowly, with more confidence and by leaving the restraints and goals aside.

   My friend and I had a terribly strong physical attraction + great love. After a stormy sex I was dissatisfied ...... After years of experience I found out about myself .... I asked him to stimulate the G-spot / clitoris /, and I made him French love at the same time. In a word, I clit with his help several times, he was also aroused enough and ... we immediately turned to the "dog pose" for vaginal ejaculation on my part and he and I experience a strong orgasm together, ie we always cum in sync. P.P. For the information of the audience we do it in other poses, but this is our FAVORITE.

   Hello girls! I read all the comments you wrote and I can say that I am alone every time I am alone with a boy. I am small and I know many areas of women. I had a serious friend from a young age and he always cummed on me with his hand and it was all a habit until one day I started with other boys and realized what a real orgasm is without the help of my partner's male hands. Girls, the woman's weakest point is the G-spot, which is next to the clitoris and the other point is the butt, where it is impossible not to feel pleasure, it just depends on the partner. As much as we love him and he loves us, isn't there a fusion in sex? kisses and come inside and how to have an orgasm. If it's like I say, just do it. And it doesn't require intelligence or thinking, but just complete relaxation during the act and it becomes divine ...

   Girls, I'm already desperate, I haven't been able to for three years. At times, I feel like I'm going to explode with pleasure, but I don't cross the line. My friend tries, but I see that he starts to run sometimes. I'm just wondering if I have something ... ???

   well, you have the fact that you are women, and the Lord has invented for women not to be so easy and to end up like us. In fact, your whole life and your whole body is adapted mostly in order to be able to bear and give birth to a child, and this organ is primarily for that, not for orgasm - I'm talking about the vagina - so that you are angry with nature, not of men, but it really sucks, I sympathize with you, because in the end for men can not do without the real part, and you can not finish, but what to do- NATURE

   I will immediately offer a solution to the problem: Kegel exercises to train the vaginal muscle in order to completely improve its tone, which greatly helps to quickly reach full orgasms. Therefore, if you want, first try these contractions and relaxations of the muscle, which is located at the entrance to the vagina and can be felt if it contracts while you put your finger there. The contraction itself is similar to that which occurs when squeezing when we have a small need or stopping the flow during urination. The exercises are in the following series: contraction and retention contraction for about 10 seconds, relaxation, re-contraction for 10 seconds. and relaxation. Thus, a total of 10 times, ie 10x10 sec. Gradually the duration may increase. The good part is, that these exercises can be done anywhere (and done during sex are a very pleasant surprise for the partner). :) It's good to cook at least once or twice a day. Keep in mind that after doing them regularly, you can even reach orgasm without any stimulation - they work so well. Number 17 is absolutely wrong - nature has taken care of both men and women equally with a very small difference in duration. Simply because of our millennial civilization and especially in the last centuries of Puritan traditions, we have escaped a little further from our natural endowments. Here are some of the links that come up with the search engine regarding the above exercises, the comments below the articles are also quite interesting: http: // medical. bg / dictionary / kegel-exercises. html http: // www. parents. info / family / statia / vp2 / http: // svejo. net / 681420-uprajneniq-na-kegel-za-stegnato-vlagalishte http: // kosioganchev. wordpress. com / 2009/09/23 /% D1% 83% D0% BF% D1% 80% D0% B0% D0% B6% D0% BD% D0% B5% D0% BD% D0% B8% D1% 8F-% D0% BD% D0% B0-% D0% BA% D0% B5% D0% B3% D0% B5% D0% BB / http: // vitanova. wordpress. com / 2007/11/17 / kegel / Good luck and all the best!

   P.P. I forgot to mention that these muscles that are trained with Kegel exercises are the ones that contract during orgasm - the more developed they are, the faster orgasm is reached and the stronger it is as an experience. On the contrary - the weaker the muscles, the harder it is to reach orgasm and the weaker it is. Not to mention that over time, especially in women who have given birth, genital rash and even urine leakage when sneezing and coughing can occur. So, girls, train actively and regularly this part of your body for a long and happy sex life and overall tone of your femininity!

   I think I have the opposite problem - I cum at most after 2 minutes and then I'm bored until my husband is done

   Hello, first to number 17, do you know that nature has created woman in such a way that when she orgasms, the uterus contracts and relaxes, as do all the muscles, and this helps the sperm to easily reach their goal - the egg. So don't worry about women having a hard time cumming. Every woman is furious with herself, and faster than with a partner. Let a woman who has solved her problem share how. It is clear that everything is rooted in relaxation, but who achieves it is how to be able to relax with your partner so that there is mutual pleasure. I will read more on the topic and if I find any ready advice I will write :)

   OMG! What is the average age in this topic? I can end up shopping in the store without anyone knowing. It's all a matter of muscle and concentration and every woman can do it. I learned in 7th grade from a lot of admiration in the game I was too lazy to go to the toilet and squeezed. This taught me to control the vagina without realizing what exactly it controls. One day I just finished, I was terribly surprised because I was a child and I didn't really know what it was, but I practiced it and my exercises were very useful after I started my sex life years later. I have never, ever needed clitoral stimulation. For me, orgasm is always vaginal, and if I stimulate it is also clitoral. Only the clitoris did not happen to me. I hope I'm useful :)

   Hello, I read all the comments, but it never happened to me to reach orgasm. I have been having sex since I was 17, and then my long-term relationship began, which lasted 10 years. For these 10 years I have never experienced this pleasure. When I was 13 years old, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and my ex-boyfriend may not have consciously instilled in me that this was the problem and that I could not reach orgasm because of the disease. However, I have the same problem with my current boyfriend. He tries in every way to get me to this good moment, but it doesn't work, maybe I should go to a sexologist or a psychologist. I feel that he sometimes gets sad because he does not satisfy me and I fail to reach orgasm. Please give me advice, help me in some way. Thank you

   Girls, the most important thing is to know your body yourself, ie to know what you like and what gives you pleasure. There is hardly a woman who cannot end up with tongue stimulation. And if you want to cum vaginally, try to lie on your stomach and have sex in this position. I always hope it works for me and it works for you. I wish you good luck. Magicians

   Number 6 is very right, number 7! Orgasm - this is 10 percent of the clitoris and 90 percent in the brain ... My advice to you godparents girls is the following: During sex you should relax as much as possible. I had a girlfriend who could never finish just because she always thought about what she looked like in her boyfriend's eyes. If you don't relax as much as possible, you can't finish. And secondly - during sex you should not think about anything else - about any problems, obligations, unfinished work, etc., because the G-points are connected with nerves that are more easily aroused. And they, in turn, are connected to the central nervous system, which is controlled by the brain ...!

   Number 25 is very straight, everything touches the nervous system. Maybe that's why number 23 has difficulties, multiple sclerosis is a disease of the nervous system and leads to its malfunction. But still keep trying, do not take it for granted, focus on a specific area to achieve a clitoral, vaginal or uterine orgasm.

   Hey people, I'm tired of reading your flat thoughts, one thinks that when a polyorgasmic woman falls on him, he is the great god in bed, another has no idea about sexuality and has intensified for orgasm, pfiiiiu alou. Girls, first become literate, then get your body and feelings, what type of woman you are, what excites you. The first is sexual pleasure, the desire to be strongly attracted to your partner, to work with your partner so that he chokes satisfies according to what kind of woman you are. Those with a clitoral orgasm who do not masturbate and are ashamed are the worst. They definitely need a partner who loves to lick, not only, just loves the taste, smell and texture of women's juice, women's moisture and abundant marrow, plus it has excellent technique with tongue and fingers. To others according to their propensity and love for different types of sex, men and wands of love need other things but not to dilute for now. Christo

   And I thought for years that I was frigid and the problem was in me, but it turned out that there are sexually enlightened men with one of them I had an orgasm 8 times .... From a gynecologist I learned that vaginal orgasm is not a problem for 20 percent of women in whom the reason for this is the location of the G-spot in the vagina. The other 80 percent succeed only with a clitoral orgasm. And those who do not know this or are ashamed to stimulate themselves further or to share this with their partner - will never experience this pleasure. However, to a large extent it depends on the man next to you, and most Bulgarians are not enlightened and do not want to know. Girls, Scandinavians study in school about erogenous zones ... and apply the knowledge in practice. If you are tired of simulating an orgasm with a Bulgarian - find a Scandinavian :)

   6 years, 2 serious relationships and not a single orgasm with a man ... I only finish alone and with a vibrator ... The strange thing is that I like sex more than masturbation, it's better for me than alone, I'm more aroused, but just not I can. It's not about the pose, it's not about the game. Even oral love, which most women end up with, doesn't have that effect on me (I end up deep down and I take all this drooling as a love game). Unfortunately, not all men are used to this and can come to terms with this (in their eyes) shortcoming. And everyone breaks through his prism and does not trust others ...

   Girls, I want to ask the following: "With any kind of stimulation I ejaculate and it is not necessarily related to orgasm, but the amount of my ejaculate is quite ... Someone give me advice on what you do (for those who achieve it at all) ???

   Number 18, you're absolutely right. I 100% agree. I am a girl, 27 years old, and have been married for 3 years. Before I married my current husband, I had a serious friend with whom I had been in a relationship for 4 years. Everything was perfect, except for sex. I had the same feeling - that I would explode, I was really too good, but I never reached orgasm. This made me very often resort to masturbation. I accidentally discovered this during masturbation - I squeezed, and of course, my finger felt it. My vagina, too, became especially pleasant. I started doing it again and again and will you orgasm - the first in my life. During the next intercourse with my boyfriend, I decided to do it again. I did it about 5-6 times, and it just happened ...! It was unique! My first orgasm with a sexual partner .. To all the ladies, who have not yet reached this wonderful moment - try it! Nothing bothers you, I hope there is a result for you too!

   Before sex, pull the joint 2-3 times and you will reach orgasm without any problems. The body and mind are totally relaxed and free from all thoughts and you can only experience unique sensations.

   Drink water before, during and after sex .. Maybe you are dehydrated ..

   Hello girls, I read your question and comments quite carefully and I would like to share my experience with you. It may help some of you. I have been masturbating since I was 13 and I have been having sex since I was 17 and I have always had a hard time reaching orgasm on my own. Over time, I learned to do it with clitoral stimulation, but I never succeeded during sex with a partner. I reached orgasm with him when he stimulated me, but it was the same as masturbation except that he did it, not me. I will spare you the torment of such a relationship, which of course ended in separation, although otherwise we were a perfect couple in almost every way. Luckily for me, my next partner was more experienced and more patient. He directed me to the so-called riding position in which I was on top and almost completely in control. In it, my clitoris rubs at the base of his penis when moving back and forth and my stimulation occurs naturally during intercourse. I control the frequency of movement and the depth of penetration. I can pull back slightly when he is very aroused and his penis rests on the cervix and causes pain, or move slightly forward when I feel good from deep penetration. You slide back and forth at maximum contact and you can't help it. It happened to me the second or third time. The only problem is that your partner resigns himself to a more passive role and does not end before you. But then you can just repeat the exercise. After a while, I succeed in other poses, it is important that your partner is open to experiments. I'm not the fastest again, but I usually manage to reach orgasm in a few minutes. I hope I have been useful to you.