Hello, I want to share about myself, because I don't want to talk about these things with the people I know ... I'll start from the beginning ... last May I moved out with my friend - we parted meekly, normal and big people. The summer went well, I was at sea with friends, I started dating different people ... and having sex constantly with different men. So I got in touch with a boy, we were fine in the beginning, everything was ok. But he worked a lot and I was constantly alone ... There came a moment when this started to bother me and bother me. One night I went out to a disco and met another cool guy - we exchanged phones and the next day we started talking. we started seeing each other and having sex. But my friend understood ... He beat me up and we broke up ... Ugly scene. I moved out on my own again and now I still live like that ... But I miss a lot of sex. I started going out again and again, again with different men, and having sex, I was having sex with my ex-boyfriend from my serious relationship, he wanted to get together, but I was just happy to have sex and nothing more. . So then I met an acquaintance of my friend's and we started dating him. Everything was normal, he treated me like a princess, constantly sent me presents at work, took me here on trips, he was extremely kind ... But I didn't want to be with him ... I didn't like him in any way, but the sex we had was great. However, it so happened that I got pregnant from him, and we were supposed to be careful. I told him and he offered to keep the baby and get married. However, I did not ask, and I left him. I had an abortion, of which I was very afraid. The abortion went well, I calmed down ... the doctor told me not to have sex for at least a month, but it so happened that I had it the next week ... And then again, and then again ... Today is a month since the abortion. .. I don't know how to go out with a man and not get to bed .. it's very difficult for me .. I don't want you to judge me, just tell me how to dull my desire a little .. I must have a problem ... I don't know who to talk to and I'm ashamed. And the worst thing is that I always come across inappropriate men ... I still think that now with this one something will happen and then nothing. either he is not looking for me or I always find something in him that repays me .. so if I continue I will not find a serious relationship, and I long for it so much .. Thank you for reading my story and really help me! I want her to be happy!
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Other than being sewn up underneath, I see no way to stop you.
Well, maybe you should start thinking sometimes with your head, and not just with your head ...
I don't mean to say that, but you act like a slut literally
I don't know how old you are and what you do, but you definitely don't have to think much about how to make a living. Apparently you have a lot of free time, you are idle and you are not used to having responsibilities. Otherwise, you wouldn't be thinking only about sex.
I'm a woman and I'm telling you, you're big. I am disgusted by such behavior of men and women. What a serious relationship you want, when you're just wondering who to sleep with. You can make money from it, have you thought about it. I don't think you can be with anyone for long, with a distorted mindset like yours. You are a light girl, you can see from afar. If I were a man I would never want you, easy women are very uninteresting.
How do you want men to take you seriously .. so you give yourself to them so easily .. they see nothing in you but one sex .. do you think this is the real relationship? super naive and super irresponsible to myself ...
I support number 8 I don't think you're a bad girl, on the contrary. Tip - grab and buy a vibrator, a few vibrators even set a period of at least 2 weeks, a month before you let some man ... Who knows, you may decide that you do not need more, in the end the vibrators do not speak , they don't smell, they don't want anything but a charged battery! (let's make two)
I asked you not to judge me, but to give me advice ... Number 6, let me tell you, I am 26 years old and I am a MeBD in a branch of a bank ... I am not idle and I have everything else. Thank you for the comments though ...
My God, do you really expect the way you act to have someone look at you seriously or have a desire for more than once? Do you understand that you are like a bite-free promotion in a cheap hypermarket. They eat so much, nothing new, they have no desire for more and pass by. You yourself have put a label cheap, and you expect someone in the morning to see you crushed - and to find some higher value in you.