Hello friends! I am writing this story in a moment of affect, so it may be a little confusing and incomprehensible, but I will ask you for some advice because I see no way out. It's about my eterva, my husband's brother's wife. We all live abroad but she has been there since she was a child, and she is aware of almost everything here. From the first moment I met her, it became very strange to me (understand unpleasantly), even though she was TOO friendly. I later learned that she had mastered the law of reciprocity to perfection. And what exactly is this? Since my husband and I are quite "new" in this country and we are not aware of many things (unlike now) we have touched on it several times. In fact, she herself was quite intrusive in offering help, but as I already understood, only to blackmail us later for some services. And because she did something for us before, we are almost pushed into a corner and we can't refuse. Don't get me wrong - no one was obliged to lend us a hand, but to offer yourself and then remind in order to get something is a bit rude in my opinion. And it's not just that. I have evidence that she is the mistress of the landlord because he is a millionaire. Her relationship with him is so obvious that my husband and I don't understand how her husband can't remember ... but since he's much younger than her, she just turns it around. In the last year she got pregnant (in my opinion to "tie" him so to speak) but the interesting thing is that he said in my presence that he is not in a hurry for children? Since I had health problems, I had to go to the doctor once, but because I didn't understand the language at the time, she accompanied me. After the examination, she told me that I had no cure for my problem. Later, after another examination with my husband at TWO specialists, it became clear that I had a solution to the problem. She also deliberately misled me with information about the transport when I started working and I needed a proper schedule. This is just a small part of her "numbers". My husband's whole family, as well as us and my family, don't like her at all! And now that I've probably bored you to death, HOW can I continue my life with this "woman"? We live in a town ... my husband likes to be around his brother ... but this person is the top! Is there anyone in my situation and how do I deal with it? Thank you for your attention! This is only a small part of her "numbers". My husband's whole family, as well as me and my family, don't like her at all! And now that I've probably bored you to death, HOW can I continue my life with this "woman"? We live in a town ... my husband likes to be around his brother ... but this person is the top! Is there anyone in my situation and how do I deal with it? Thank you for your attention! This is only a small part of her "numbers". My husband's whole family, as well as us and my family, don't like her at all! And now that I've probably bored you to death, HOW can I continue my life with this "woman"? We live in a town ... my husband likes to be around his brother ... but this person is the top! Is there anyone in my situation and how do I deal with it? Thank you for your attention!
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You say in plain text, YOU DON'T LIKE ME, I don't want to have anything to do with you, we were here, fine, end. Rough, not rude, this is the situation, fuck it! It's easy :)
I don't think you can avoid it. But I suggest you share your thoughts with your husband. Just don't let this woman ruin your relationship. She is nothing to him, so let him continue to be around his brother. But you as a couple should be aware that you cannot trust her.
Quench your envy of the millionaire's mistress and everything will be fine! You seem to be in trouble in her life, you understand that she is better and that's why she annoys you. When a person is annoyed by someone, he simply avoids contact with the opposite!
I don't understand why you're grumbling. You're not 5 and you're not the only one who doesn't like her. Can 50 euros - We would be happy to give you, but we do not have the financial means. Can I use your car - with pleasure, but right now I need it Can I sleep with you - with pleasure, but we will have guests and there is no place But I did so many things for you - yes, we are very grateful. A good person like you does good without expecting anything in return. One vision, without sharing, you will always endure. Who she sleeps with is NOT your business. It's ugly to put your nose back in someone else's bed.
I think you're just angry about something, but it's not clear why. Throughout your story, never specify what your wife is doing to you. She has helped you and expects the same from you, how bad is that? You are relatives, of course she will help you and you will help her. It does not occur to me and what evidence do you have that she is someone's mistress, do you have pictures of how she is in bed with the millionaire, or do you just think that she is behaving more freely with him? If you have evidence, have your husband show it to his brother in private, but if you're just guessing, it's not evidence. Spinning your husband, what does it matter to you when both the sorceress and the enchanted are satisfied? Or are you just angry that you don't get along as well with your husband as she does with hers? What is not normal in a young family for a woman to get pregnant, that you make movies, that a woman who "spins her husband" anyway pregnant to tie him up? Of course, if before they hoped for a pregnancy and it did not happen, a man to protect fertility, both for himself and his wife, will say that they are not in a hurry for children to stop the topic of heirs torn apart by relatives. My husband also used this technique for the first 2 years of marriage, what to do, other ways are to accuse himself or his wife of infertility and start giving him a reason which in vitro clinic to visit or give a reason for divorce. This surprises me with the doctor's translation, don't you even assume that exactly that doctor made a mistake or was incompetent, or spoke in medical terms that she didn't understand? And do you expect her, since she lived longer in that city, to know the language perfectly, even in medical terms, and to know by heart the transport in the city? Why do you blame transport, whether one is obliged to know the lines and the schedule of all buses, especially in a big city this is impossible. I have never heard of a family that loves a daughter-in-law who is older than her husband and knows how to "spin it", so your hatred does not surprise me. However, it was never understood what scares you to have family contacts with her in the future? Are you afraid of your husband taking command or not sleeping with him? Are you afraid that your husband will realize that you are not as good as her and that he will not take her as an example? However, it was never understood what scares you to have family contacts with her in the future? Are you afraid of your husband taking command or not sleeping with him? Are you afraid that your husband will see that you are not as good as her and that he will not take her as an example? However, it was never understood what scares you to have family contacts with her in the future? Are you afraid of your husband taking command or not sleeping with him? Are you afraid that your husband will realize that you are not as good as her and that he will not take her as an example?
Number 4 is right, I fully support the opinion. Once you understand what it is, by offering a service - Thank you, but there is no need, we will be fine. When he wanted something, he told you - with great pleasure, but we do not have the opportunity. Point and end, if it doesn't happen sooner or later his brother will understand, don't get confused. And if you don't like her and don't want to be hypocritical, say it in your eyes - you once "helped" you to lie to me, I'm not nice to you, I don't need bear services, which on top of everything you want to come back later. Or number 4 told you, yes, but I can not point, otherwise you will be forever bad and envious :) With a smile, send it and so on. Act like her, be smarter.
You return to Bulgaria with your husband, and you are not sitting in a country whose language you do not know. Alpha, w. 29 years old