Hello! I want to share my story even though I know a lot of people will call me obscene bitch names and I don't know what. Yes, I feel exactly like that. It weighs a lot on me, I will burst with grief, and I can't share it with friends. I will try to tell briefly. I met a boy from the internet 4 years ago, I fell madly in love with him even before we met. But I had a relationship that didn't work, and so did he. I decided to quit with my ex-boyfriend because I only thought about him. Expecting him to do the same, as he claimed that he did not love the woman he was with, he told me that she was pregnant by him. He said he didn't want to live with her, but he had to take responsibility for the child, normally. It is normal to wait a while for things to calm down, but 4 years of virtual love and meetings twice a year have passed. Excusing himself, that she was wrong with her nerves, constantly making scandals of him and trying to manipulate him through the child. In addition, the child was born with serious health problems and this complicated things. We are from distant cities and things are getting even harder. In recent months I was angry, I was angry why things could not work out, we are neither the first nor the last of whom one has a child, I decided to give a chance to another person from my city, I started a relationship with him, but I did not gather strength to confess to the distant one because I feel a strong attachment and it is difficult for me to tear my consciousness away from him. He had wanted to see me for months, and I was putting it off because I would be sick of looking him in the eye. I kept putting it off and telling him the truth. Every day I said to myself, I would tell him, I would tell him ... until he showed up at home for my birthday in order to surprise me. I felt like a traitor, he had traveled for three hours to see me ... When we went home, of course he wanted to have sex, not that I didn't want him, but I admitted to him the truth that I had another, I did it out of respect for him . I could sleep with him and no one would understand, but ... I couldn't. Something wouldn't let me. My conscience. He reacted calmly, saying he was expecting it, but was terribly injured. She wanted to leave immediately, I couldn't stop him. He was terribly disappointed. His pain I felt was like needles in my heart. I do not know what to do. I feel overwhelmed by a train. Something wouldn't let me. My conscience. He reacted calmly, saying he was expecting it, but was terribly injured. She wanted to leave immediately, I couldn't stop him. He was terribly disappointed. His pain I felt was like needles in my heart. I do not know what to do. I feel overwhelmed by a train. Something wouldn't let me. My conscience. He reacted calmly, saying he was expecting it, but was terribly injured. She wanted to leave immediately, I couldn't stop him. He was terribly disappointed. His pain I felt was like needles in my heart. I do not know what to do. I feel overwhelmed by a train.
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He used you. He used the whole story with the child as a screen. You acted normally, you have nothing to regret. Personally, I would not say about the other. You were in a purely sexual and frivolous relationship with the first one, not that you had any feelings.
You did the right thing! It will pass, you have to move on.
You did the right thing, why are you called a bitch? This man used you only for sex, twice a year, the rest of the time he looked after his wife and child. Do not believe his rumors that he does not love his wife, that the child has health problems - the scoundrels who cheat so hunt their victims. You did exactly the right thing, it's an honor that you didn't have sex with him. She would be a bitch if she agreed. He hardly felt any pain, don't blame yourself, he was just angry that he traveled to you, and the sex went wrong. It is not normal to see each other twice a year and to have claims on you. I wish you to be happy in your new relationship and don't do any more nonsense to get involved with married and engaged ...
If he was disappointed that he didn't pass you, as he spent 4 years wasting your time with his props, he dumped her
The typical stupid duck. Do you really think this man lives 4 years. to see each other twice a year. Men may be primary, but not as stupid as women. That his wife was suffering from nerves, the child was sick. The man wrote a Brazilian / Turkish TV series to hang you. Because it's the easiest thing in the world, although I don't know why it does it. Probably because he's sorry to tell you that Che and in the end how honest you were and told him you had another! That he has no other !? Let him graze. It doesn't matter why he hung you. Just looking for a real connection. Not to bother you, but I've known such relationships for 20 years and he's still married.
From the author: Just to add that he is not married and does not live with the mother of his child. He even said that he could forgive me if I ended my current relationship and visit him after he finished his repairs.