Hello, My story is quite cliché, but I just felt the need to share it with someone and just look to get adequate advice ... We study for doctors, in different cities, but despite the whole drama in the universities there was a pretty good tandem between us and in consequence of a relationship that has lasted for about 2 years :) The hard and unpleasant thing in this case is that there is not so much time to see each other, let alone for sex, especially since we are last year and we are chasing state exams, etc., but as it is said that there is no exact time for these things and in the end things happen in spite of everything (so far). Many people are skeptical about the long-distance relationship, which is temporary, by the way, because we are thinking about specialization in another country (if everything goes according to plan, then we will return here). I'm just a little paranoid on the one hand, because everyone around me is very much against continuing, although there are no other problems - we trust each other, I know what she does at any moment, as she knows about me, we helped each other as much as we can and see you at the first opportunity, but it's just that everyone is telling me that it didn't make sense that everything would end at some point, just because you're not next to each other, not because you're not for each other ...
What do you think you would do? Would you sacrifice a person who is your friend in the first place, you help and support each other, share common interests and there is no other obstacle than distance, because of prejudices that to some extent take over your mind and make you think nonsense? Please help and thank you in advance for the adequate advice you will give! :)) I know what she's doing at any given moment, as she knows about me, we helped each other as much as we could and we see each other at the first opportunity, but everyone just teases me that it didn't make sense that everything would end at any moment, just because you're not to another, not that not for each other ... What do you think you would do? Would you sacrifice a person who is your friend in the first place, you help and support each other, share common interests and there is no other obstacle than distance, because of prejudices that to some extent take over your mind and make you think nonsense? Please help and thank you in advance for the adequate advice you will give! :)) I know what she's doing at any given moment, as she knows about me, we helped each other as much as we could and we see each other at the first opportunity, but everyone just teases me that it didn't make sense that everything would end at any moment, just because you're not to another, not that not for each other ... What do you think you would do? Would you sacrifice a person who is your friend in the first place, you help and support each other, share common interests and there is no other obstacle than distance, because of prejudices that to some extent take over your mind and make you think nonsense? Please help and thank you in advance for the adequate advice you will give! :)) simply because you are not next to each other, not because you are not for each other ... What do you think you would do? Would you sacrifice a person who is your friend in the first place, you help and support each other, share common interests and there is no other obstacle than distance, because of prejudices that to some extent take over your mind and make you think nonsense? Please help and thank you in advance for the adequate advice you will give! :)) simply because you are not next to each other, not because you are not for each other ... What do you think you would do? Would you sacrifice a person who is your friend in the first place, you help and support each other, share common interests and there is no other obstacle than distance, because of prejudices that to some extent take over your mind and make you think nonsense? Please help and thank you in advance for the adequate advice you will give! :)) which you will give! :)) which you will give! :))
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My husband and I have been living at a distance for 5 years. We studied in different cities and saw each other 1-2 times a month. Emmy, nothing terrible happened. If you are a serious person and you know what you want, this is not a problem. Not to mention that you have so little left until the end ...
Whatever you write here, you already know the answer for yourself. :) People talk, it's completely natural. I think that absolutely everyone here has encountered human tales in one way or another. Well, it is inevitable! I haven't informed the "benefactors" at all since I turned 19. It took me 19 years to realize that by sharing something personal, I would hear opinions that would discourage, affect, or confuse me. And this is my life, and you live your own. Others live their lives. Everyone has a head on their shoulders and is fully capable of deciding for themselves what is good for them and what is not. You have found a woman with whom you get along well. You trust each other, you share, you manage to see each other and all this despite the distance. What do people tell you which you no longer realized and felt yourself? That it is difficult? Who knows better than you how difficult it is for you? I liked how you used the word "sacrifice." Leaving her is a kind of sacrifice for you. That's enough for me to know that you really don't want to end your relationship with this woman, no matter what the circumstances. Let them, the others, talk to each other.
Colleague, the fact that you study Medicine and want to specialize somewhere should not stop you from being with your man. Before my friend and I met under one roof, we lived in different countries for 3 years. However, this has never stopped us from loving each other, even a long-distance relationship will prove to you whether you love each other very much or you are just friends. We heard each other every day, even for less than 5 minutes - just to tell ourselves how our day went, what we did and to say that we love each other. You know that when you study medicine you have no time for yourself, and what is left for another person. However, this obstacle did not stop us from being together. We've always trusted each other, we've shared everything, and I'm sure he hasn't cheated on me in that time, just as I haven't even thought about cheating. So, act! If you are meant to be together, you will be even miles apart. And good luck to the state, colleague!
Keep what you have, you know - the bird once landed on your shoulder. Many people fail to find a suitable person for them, and you have found the right person, your workload does not stop, you are together, you love each other. What doubts? Ask how many people regret not keeping the right person next to them at a young age, with the idea that something better is waiting for them or it is very difficult and it doesn't make sense. Waiting for them, but another time. Okay. Hypothetically, let's say you split up. And what, will you be better? One must appreciate what one has and keep it. People, if you feel that these are your partners in life, do not give up! Then there are NO other chances so good. It grabs your life, you grow old, you become cynical, the choice narrows, and so on.