Hi, I want to tell you my story because I really don't know what to do with my life. 5 years ago I met a boy (I was 15 then) and he was my first love, he was from another city, but I did my best to go see him and so until 2 years ago, my parents decided to give me they built a floor for me, but it went without saying that it would be for both of them. At first, my friend didn't even want to hear that he came to live at home and tighten the floor or whatever. But with three hundred torments I managed to have lunch with him, and last year he came to live at home and we started to tighten the floors.
His parents took out a loan to help us and so 2 months ago we moved to our new floor. But life with my friend was not going well, before we separated we lived with ours, but he kept telling me how unhappy he was and how unhappy he was to live with them, but I believed that when we separated he would calm down and things would get better.
We don't go out anywhere because he has no friends here, and when I make him go out with my acquaintances, he tells me they don't like him. His only consolation is to come home to his parents on Saturday and Sunday, and so we have to travel every other week. He is terribly dependent on his mother and he talks to her at least 10 times a day and talks to her more than to me. So I live as a prisoner from work to home and from home to work and all this just suffocates me.
Even 1 year ago I wanted to cancel with him, but my parents did not allow me. 2-3 weeks ago I met a boy who is everything I wanted and I fell in love with him and he also fell in love with me, even though he knows my situation. So I tried to explain to my mother that I was not happy with my current boyfriend and I wanted to part with him, but she also found out about the new boy and did not give me a word to say about giving birth. He told me that after we built a house together and so much money was spent by his parents, I could not abandon him and that it was 5 years and he could not bear this shame. I really don't love him anymore and I don't want to be with him, but my mother is not in good health and several times already while we are fighting and it gets worse and I am very afraid that something will happen to her because of me. I'm terribly confused, the only reason I don't break up with my boyfriend is my mother, and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( but she also found out about the new boy and did not give me a word to say about the birth. He told me that after we built a house together and so much money was spent by his parents, I could not abandon him and that it was 5 years and he could not bear this shame. I really don't love him anymore and I don't want to be with him, but my mother is not in good health and several times already while we are fighting and it gets worse and I am very afraid that something will happen to her because of me. I'm terribly confused, the only reason I don't break up with my boyfriend is my mother, and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him. I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( but she also found out about the new boy and did not give me a word to say about the birth. He told me that after we built a house together and so much money was spent by his parents, I could not abandon him and that it was 5 years and he could not bear this shame.
I really don't love him anymore and I don't want to be with him, but my mother is not in good health and several times already while we are fighting and it gets worse and I am very afraid that something will happen to her because of me. I'm terribly confused, the only reason I don't break up with my boyfriend is my mother, and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him. I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( I can't dump him and it's been 5 years and he can't stand this shame.
I really don't love him anymore and I don't want to be with him, but my mother is not in good health and several times already while we are fighting and it gets worse and I am very afraid that something will happen to her because of me. I'm terribly confused, the only reason I don't break up with my boyfriend is my mother, and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him. I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( I can't dump him and that it's 5 years and he can't stand this shame.
I really don't love him anymore and I don't want to be with him, but my mother is not in good health and several times already while we are fighting and it gets worse and I am very afraid that something will happen to her because of me. I'm terribly confused, the only reason I don't break up with my boyfriend is my mother, and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him. I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: (((( and I want to be with the new boy so much and I really have very strong feelings for him. I don't know what to do, please help me, because I can't take it anymore: ((((
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You should not allow your parents to interfere in your life. I understand that it is difficult to fight this with yourself and to be torn between the desire to start your life again and your mother's desire to be with your friend because of them. years, his parents' money and the opinion of others. Make the decision for yourself, ask yourself what you really want and boldly defend it. will be interested for a while and then will forget, but you will be calm and hopefully happy.Your mother will have to understand you, if not immediately then in time.Bold forward and success.
My dear, your comparison to my loss is nothing. My friend dumped me 5 weeks before the wedding. The guests have been invited, and I still do not receive a satisfactory answer why he dumped me. I have been looking for him for 2 weeks, and he is still hiding. He does not answer messages and calls. My dress is attached to the computer and only when I look at it my tears start
I WILL TELL YOU NOT TO ALLOW YOUR MOTHER TO INTERFERE AND MANIPULATE YOU! I ALLOWED MINE 10 YEARS AGO AND NOW I AM DIVORCING, AND I HAVE A CHILD
Look, honey. I know this is your mother after all, and she's dear to you, but think about it. Don't you think that this is your life after all and only you can make decisions about it? Personally, my opinion is that there is no person, object or act for which you deserve to sacrifice your health, your life, your happiness .. There are no fatal things and time heals .. Everything will be fine sooner or later ..