Hello. I am an 18-year-old girl and I have been tormented for some time by the fact that I have absolutely never in my life experienced the thrill of shared love, even for a while. In appearance (if anyone cares) I look decent, I'm not one of the modern girls with thousands of photos, constant tags, active social life and I'm generally disgusted by all this posing, but I deviate from the topic, so I'm a normal girl. Even though I'm only 18 and I know my whole life is ahead of me, I'm tormented by the fact that I'm experiencing the same pain of unrequited love in all phases of my growth, or in other words ... not that I don't like boys, on the contrary ... just in the rare cases when I like someone he is not or not interested enough ... (he still has this) and I suffer, I really suffer and it hurts, I feel sorry because I am one of the people,
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Unrequited love, I know. No matter how many times I fall in love, I always fall in love with people who do not even suspect what I have felt for them. I will give you one piece of advice - don't despair - life is ahead of you and you will still meet new contacts with boys. One of them might be your boy? Success M.23
I feel 1: 1 like you, even our set is the same. My Facebook wall is full of old birthday cards from aunts and grandmothers. The only difference is that I'm a boy. I don't know what else to say but good luck, author, and know that there are many people in your situation between the two (three?) Genders. We will both eventually find our halves, and until then ... Sorrow and escape from reality.
Well, you probably like guys who aren't for you and who like exactly the kind of girls you criticize in your post.
Hello, author :) I'm the same, except that I'm a man and I'm almost 40. It doesn't go away with age, we're just like that. Obviously we need to learn our lessons without hardening our hearts and souls. For example, I haven't left a basket full of new relationships with someone for a long time. I have no expectations when someone does something nice for me. However, I do not stop giving myself completely to others, even to those who use me. I keep thinking that in this way I set a positive example and mostly stay in harmony with myself. It's not easy, because, as you say, it hurts, it hurts the soul, it hurts the ego, but that's how I can look people in the eye, and that's rare these days.
You are depressed in vain, as you yourself say life is in front of you, you are only 18, it is good that you are not an inflator, according to what you wrote, you seem modest to me. You have no problem! It's just that you have a strange need to grieve yourself, even if there is no particular reason. Have fun, go out with friends somewhere, relax and everything will sort itself out, you will find someone to appreciate you.
I'm the same :) f16