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The Past Haunts Me

By alice_russo69 October 06, 2020 14 answers Last updated October 06, 2020

Hello, I have the following problem: In general, I met the woman I want to be with, and in general this is my first serious relationship. Until recently, there were two older women in my life, 42 and 48 (I'm 29), and both are married and have children. In general, the net between us was on the principle of "discreet sex." When I decided that I wanted to get serious (to end our relationship completely) things got a little out of control, one (42 years old) suddenly decided that you were leaving your husband for me and wanted to live together, and the other (48 years old) said that in general, she is interested in how many more women you are with so much that they are pure and that she has no intention of "leaving her cake without eating". What to do they call constantly, I tell them I don't want to hear them anymore .... we meet "accidentally" I don't know how they understand where I'm going. My friend has already started asking questions and I already have doubts. What to do

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daisydeepthroat0122 answered · October 06, 2020

   GO BACK TO FIRST GRADE TO LEARN YOU WRITE CORRECTLY AND NOT TO REPEAT A WORD SEVERAL TIMES IN A SENTENCE.

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Bustymia answered · October 06, 2020

   Nobody made you deal with married people, this is a lesson for you! Otherwise I can't help you, I have no experience in this field :)

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laura_cornett answered · October 06, 2020

   You found the master, you got involved with people, I just don't envy you. Success! Apart from changing your address and city, I don't see any other possibility.

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amayarix answered · October 06, 2020

   It was cool to have sex with two women at the same time - get well. Tell everything, in an appropriate way, to your girlfriend. Success!

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asian_mikay answered · October 06, 2020

   I'm a woman, but I'd tell you that if you don't seriously cut them, you'll be angry. Apparently you came across quite impudent women. But I also understand them - why should they miss the lamb. I am 46 and you have a relationship with a 28-year-old married man, but I did not cause him problems, on the contrary, he created and was jealous of me. It is true that it is nice to be with a younger man, but everything has its limits when it comes to a problem like yours. So be firm and let them know that they no longer have a job with you. As long as you didn't enchant them except that you had discreet sex, because a woman needs how much.

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daniolmo7 answered · October 06, 2020

   Learn to write!

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mecontrote answered · October 06, 2020

   The fact that you went with two and family, shows that you have not matured enough, and women, once they have caught up with someone like you, are even duller than you .....

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osxar answered · October 06, 2020

   A friend tells me how a business lady threatened him with mutters. The job only got better when she replaced it with another. However, she calls me "I have no money, when I call her, she no longer wants to hear me" I learned to read between the lines here. No one who complains here is telling the whole truth. That is why the comments that are usually given hardly work for the authors.

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iuliaxxtasyy answered · October 06, 2020

   Well, you cut them so that whatever happens will happen. What is this girl next to you guilty of wondering what you are doing to them.

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jamila__putri answered · October 06, 2020

   Ugh darling, once you've decided that you won't be with them, keep cutting them. I also have a relationship with a 13-year-old boy, but I am aware that one day he will have a serious relationship and start a family. As difficult as it is for me, we will have to separate. This is a matter of awareness. If they do the trick, you'll have to tell some or all of the truth to your new girlfriend, and if you want to be with her, fight for it.

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teinyboy answered · October 06, 2020

   Hey dude, you've been doing stupid things, but I have an idea for you: Make an appointment with the two of you at the same time in a cafe, meet them and tell them how you fooled them. There is a danger that you will eat paint from them once, but they will not look for you again.

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Kassanndra answered · October 06, 2020

   Be a man to hell, get them one! You grab a friend by the arm and when she calls you let her raise it in a breathless voice. Don't get into movies, hey, you're wasting your time!

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leslieshewring answered · October 06, 2020

   I am 46 and I guarantee you that if you change your GSM number and some other coordinates, and do not call them to inform them about yourself, they will forget you more painlessly. Relationships with "teachers" are useful, but both sides know they are up to date. It's okay, cut them and drive forward.

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jdce1 answered · October 07, 2020

   I had the same problem, only I'm in the eyes of the girl (your current girlfriend). Because by nature a woman is, to put it mildly, VERY CURIOUS, so I dug up the truth from my friend about 3 MARRIED WOMEN (about 30 years older than himself, not to mention me). The pain I caused myself was unimaginable. So explain to the girl at the top what it is about, and if she wants to learn more and say that what she will understand will hurt her, but IF YOU STILL PRESS YOU TO "SHARE" do not stop repeating that it was before you meet her and regret endlessly (and hopefully so). I was told the exact opposite - "I'm not sorry. I had a good time. Eventually, if we break up, I'll see them again." These words hurt more than the truth about your past ... PS - Don't pay attention to your spelling.