Hello nice and not so nice people. I want to share with you my naive dream as many of you would call it, but I think I am able to call it a achievable goal. Anyway. Recently, a thought popped into my head about exactly how I would like to spend my life. A lot of you would think I want a family, etc. Alas not! The life that I imagine and want for myself is the following: For a start, to finish high school, then college, etc. And then, of course, abroad. I would like to live somewhere in an exotic place I do not know exactly where but somewhere in a modest house on the beach. As I mentioned above, many of you would think that it is naive and I am sure that many of you adults who work and I guess support families, be it in Bulgaria or somewhere else at least once in your life you wanted something like that. I don't think it's that hard to implement. It's just that for some people this is considered impossible for a number of reasons that I will not fight for but anyway. So in general my question to you is: Is there any way to make this a reality. Regarding education, I don't know exactly what I will follow, there is time for that, I will decide later. Our only concern is that if I go somewhere it will be almost impossible to establish. I am open to any advice and more. Our only concern is that if I go somewhere it will be almost impossible to establish. I am open to any advice and more. Our only concern is that if I go somewhere it will be almost impossible to establish. I am open to any advice and more.
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Live your life the way you want and fight for what you want, no matter what others think! You have a life, how you will live it depends only on you.
Honestly, it sounds childishly naive to me ... But not impossible. You don't really want anything. If you have a desire, you will do it. You will study, you will have a good diploma here in Bulgaria and you can go abroad without any problems. There are many possibilities, you just have to decide in which direction to go.
I can only give you one piece of advice - if you really want it, start doing it today. If you are young enough, don't wait to get an education, leave. At a young age it is easier to sleep on the ground and eat once a day. Otherwise, your life will go down without you noticing and at the age of 60 you will still be here and you will still dream. And another tip, a little more practical: learn languages! This is the first and obligatory condition to go somewhere - to know the language, and perfectly!
What do you want now? Do you want me to tell you what is most important in this life - to create children, to love them, to make them worthy people. There will always be time abroad. There is nothing more important in this life than children !!!
And living in a modest house on the beach quo? Do you think that you will not have responsibilities? Do you think that you will not need to work and make a living? Dude, a lot of people in Bulgaria live in modest houses on the beach. Some feed their families with fishing, others have plantations, still others have businesses, and still others live alongside tourism in the region. What are you going to do all day? Who will you communicate with and how will you express your need to be a social and creative person? I mean, the place where you live basically can't make you happy. Happiness and events make us happy, not things.
Of course you can do that. I have a lot of friends who are about 30-35 years old and are not married yet and live as they like. I'm talking about people who have graduated from elite high schools (MPG, Language ..) and with higher education. Some are instructors surfing or kiting in various exotic destinations. One has a surf shop. A colleague is a scuba diving instructor and takes a 2-3 month break every summer and goes to the Philippines to teach scuba diving for years. A matter of priorities and what you like. If you don't care about family, this is your choice. Besides, it doesn't make sense for a man to get married before 35-40. Your life is yours, live it as you want :-) I am from the other extreme. I got married at 25. After 10 years, my wife is super spoiled and I found that the Ego and the desire to prove herself and be important are more important to her than love to me. So I'm going to get a divorce and I'm thinking of living a few years as I like. For women, we are just a means to achieve social status, children, career and what not ... M36
Дa, нaпълно е възможно! Aз живея нa тaковa място.. ;))) Ще говоря зa тук, Пaлмa де Мaйоркa. Можеш, кaто му дойде времето дa кaндидaтствaш в тукaшният университет. Езици, зaдължително испaнски. От тaм нaсетне в рaзличните рaйони, рaзличен допълнителен език се искa. сещaш се, че основно хотелиерството предлaгaт рaботa. Aнглийски, немски, руски- някой от тези езици допълнително ще ти трябвa. Къщa около плaжa, aко е нaетa целогодишно- средно 550-600 евро. Но можеш дa си пускaш стaи под нaем и дa нaмaлиш рaзходите. Сметки ток/гaз ( тук се плaщa нa 2 мес) лято- около 50-60 Зимa-100-120 Зaплaти- келнер- 1200-1300 бaкшиш Рецепция 1300-1600 Продaвaч 1200-1400 Обикновено млaди, няколко души нaемaт общо къщa или aпaртaмент и се пaдa средно нa човек около 200 евро рaзходи нaем и ток/ гaз Според кaквото ще учиш можеш в нетa дa провериш зa средни зaплaти тук или нa друго място. Но имaй предвид, че ромaнтичнaтa предстaвa зa Пaлмa е именно ромaнтичнa предстaвa. Лятото е... слънце, смях, море, хорa от цял свят, много нови контaкти, но и си скъсвaш зaдникa от рaботa. Зимaтa пустош остaвaт сaмо местните и aко нямaш рaботa зa зимният сезон... кофти. Е, имa и целогодишни хотели, мaгaзини... и други, но тaм си е постоянен персонaл. Дaно съм те ориентирaлa мaлко в обстaновкaтa:) Успех!
Author - at least dreams are free :))). A house on the beach PA and abroad, can only afford people who really have a LOT of money and are not Bulgarians .... or at least some mobsters. I do not know in which topic I write it ---> people can not afford for a week / let alone / to go to the sea to a hotel, you tell me about houses by the coast ... See real estate prices on the sea in BG, then talk about abroad ... Not that it is unattainable and I am pessimistic, just the reality is OTHER. After all, we are the poorest country in the EU ... Otherwise - if you have a high and regular salary, a lucrative job and a goal - anything is possible as long as you know what you want. For me, your topic is just an illusion and empty talk ... Next year, when you finish and merge with reality, you will forget about the house by the sea. And if you are ambitious and smart - you will always have it. But I don't know why I was left with the impression that you are another threesome / sorry doubles; /, who wanders from which specialty / profession to choose and become a billionaire ... People, study what promises regular and lucrative work and salary, and not what does NOT PROMISE a regular job and a high salary ... I would prefer the former, simply because it is the safest. Don't you want to be the next saleswoman ??
It is quite possible. One must realize that one is building one's own reality. But the most important thing you need to know is that everything is achieved by thought, action, faith. However, do not forget that the present determines the future, and the present is the result of the past. So be very careful what choices you make at any given time, because if you lose the thread it will become more and more difficult to fulfill your desires ...
Eh, at a young age we are all dreamers! Author, author ... what a typical Bulgarian you are ... Abroad, a small house on the beach ... :)))
anything is possible if you are stubborn and do not give up. if you really want don't think about where and how you finish your education learn languages the more the better
"A lot of you would think I want a family, etc." - you do not want a family, but this is the first condition for your dream to come true. Without it, then you can't feel what you want. That is why: - first you grow up, already studied, you find the most evil snake, ops-t. f. woman. You put up with it. 1 year and already half-crazy you are porting on a desert island. And here your dream has already come true, there you will feel like in Heaven. You build a small hut, catch a fish, lie under the palm trees and watch the birds soar in the sky, and as a dessert, you will remember how far you are from the evil woman and this will please you the most, it will act like a drug, straight bliss.
Thank you for the advice and to still be quite young in general, first I plan to graduate and if it is abroad even better and as for my languages I know English quite well
Oh it's completely real, it's possible, why not. Much depends on what exactly is exotic for you. Palma de Mallorca or a semi-secluded island. It is quite possible to move to the ocean, to the easternmost islands, the state of Kiribati, for example. If, of course, your idea of the exotic is associated with the Indian way of life. Covered cottage by the beach, fishing and modest living. There it is even possible to give up celibacy and childlessness, because the locals generally have a high growth rate and can wind you up. Otherwise, the famous exotic resorts are not an unattainable goal, you do not need to become a servant / waiter, salesman, reception /, you study at a reputable university in tourism for a hotel manager and they can take you, why not. Or you work on a computer, if you are good enough you earn enough to live and rent a house. And know!
when I was 15 I dreamed and made plans to go to work in Italy with a neighbor in a dishwasher restaurant and earn money to go back and buy an apartment in Varna :-))))) Ah dreams, they that is why they are dreams so that they do not come true. In years to come, you will begin to dream of something else and somehow your values will change. Now you don't want a family and you even think that this is almost a heavy burden to start a family, but one day you will want nothing more than when you open the door of your home for your 2-year-old child to smile at you.
First you have to concentrate on what the vocation is, that is, what it would take to work all your life, on making money. Once you make money, everything else is achievable. You buy a ticket, a house and live. The question is exactly how you want to live your dream. You have to detail it. Because living in a hut on the beach can happen in many ways: you could work as part of the servants of a family that has a house on the beach, to be their butler. Be very careful what exactly you wish for. Because it can come true!
Many people dream of escaping civilization, and for good reason. And while you dream - work for your dreams and believe in yourself! And one more thing - metaphorically speaking "if you want to become a millionaire, talk to a millionaire, not to the people from the neighborhood pub". The following documentary series http://viasatexplorer.bg/program/5196/ could be interesting and useful for you. Good luck