Hello dear ladies !!! I want to ask you, why is my love not working ?? I am looking for a lasting relationship, I hate alcohol and cigarettes, I like to give flowers and gifts, but it is strange that such an ideal for a man is no longer respected by women. When I was a student, the girls I went out with ONLY looked for sex and I started asking myself why this happens. Maybe I tolerate female nature too much and I'm conservative because I don't like chalga and black nonsense, and I also hate infidelity and female tricks. My colleagues' boyfriends are pushing me, but I ignore them, and the tie stories from the bars don't give me pleasure. Why does it happen like this ...
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For me, the opposite. I love alcohol, I smoke, I don't give flowers and presents, I cheat and only long relationships. And I started wanting non-committal bed stories. Why does this happen? M32
I think your mistake is that YOU ARE LOOKING for a serious relationship and so without feeling it, you are most likely rushing into it, ie. are you watching now - does he smoke, does he drink, does he listen to my chalga ... etc., which things bother you and can be felt by the woman. My advice is not to think so much about these things and to leave your heart to fall in love, believe me, even if she is not the perfect woman by your criteria, if you fall in love with whether it will matter to you that you listen to different music or in the evening she likes to drink vinza. Relax Eva
You have a lot of requirements, maybe. Try not to look at things so "conservatively" and relax. While looking for the "right" one, why not sleep with the "wrong ones" ?! Maybe excessive romance is no longer appreciated. Don't try to be perfect. Have fun for a start, and those nice and real things come most often from the fun :) Meg *
It must be so ... but nowhere did I say that the ladies I want to go out with should not smoke and drink (it's not good to overdo it), but that I DO NOT LIKE to do it. I do not deny sex AGAINST this is something great and I like it in all its variants, but with the girl next to me, and I do not forbid chalga to anyone (everyone is an individualist), but it is definitely unpleasant to me !!! I hope that at least I can get an understanding, because I am a radiant and smiling October scale.
On the contrary! For me, the ideal for a man is just that.
The ideals are boring. That's why girls like bad boys because it's fun with them. With age, priorities change.
Strange work. I have noticed that there is a hunger for men like you, but I just do not meet them anywhere or very rarely have such happiness happened to me. Maybe you don't look decent or shy and have a hard time making contacts, I know. If you are as great as you describe, blessed is the woman who will be with you. One day you will inevitably meet her. The next time you meet a lady, show her who you are, don't worry. I wish you luck and I envy your future wife nobly.
You need to give a lot more information about yourself and your understandings to catch where the problem is :)
To the author I fully support you for everything ... That's how you share it. ROSIROS 49 G.
Boy, you're just a lot ahead of your peers in terms of value system, awareness and some other things (that doesn't make you turn your nose now, though ..) so it's hard for you to find a partner - just because women not your level, who are also your age, are rare. But believe me - you will meet a suitable woman, you are just not looking for the right place (look around in yoga clubs, intentional groups, chi-gun, reiki, ...) Do not bend under the "pressure of the crowd" at all, as you do in your comment below №4! The fact that a woman (and generally a man) smokes means that she is prone to addictions and her (his) level of awareness is not like yours. It is the same with drinking and chalga, with carnivory, racism, sexism, etc. - too ... Stick to your principles! If you "bend", then you will find "something to fuck", but very soon you will realize (besides fucking) what a mistake and a waste of time this really is. Do not overdo it and do not overdo it with gifts, flowers and gestures - firstly they are not practically justified, secondly - you yourself will get tired of time, and thirdly - they have a much greater effect if they are unexpected, rare but on the spot than you turn them into everyday life and tradition (which if you break, they will take your soul out of dissatisfaction ...). Do not lose hope! You will make a much bigger mistake if now, out of nowhere, you get engaged to a muffin, and after a while you meet the right woman, but you already have (some kind of) family, etc.! Ray flowers and gestures - firstly they are not practically justified, secondly - you will get tired of yourself in time, and thirdly - they have a much greater effect if they are unexpected, rare but on the spot, than to turn them into everyday life and tradition (which if you break, they will take your soul out of dissatisfaction ...). Do not lose hope! You will make a much bigger mistake if now, out of nowhere, you get engaged to a muffin, and after a while you meet the right woman, but you already have (some kind of) family, etc.! Ray flowers and gestures - firstly they are not practically justified, secondly - you will get tired of yourself in time, and thirdly - they have a much greater effect if they are unexpected, rare but on the spot, than to turn them into everyday life and tradition (which if if you break it, they will take your soul out of dissatisfaction ...). Do not lose hope! You will make a much bigger mistake if now, out of nowhere, you get engaged to a muffin, and after a while you meet the right woman, but you already have (some kind of) family, etc.! Ray you get engaged to a muffin, and after a while you meet the right woman, but you already have (some kind of) family, etc.! Ray you get engaged to a muffin, and after a while you meet the right woman, but you already have (some kind of) family, etc.! Ray
Number 6 wrote very accurately "Priorities change with age."
Is this an ad to collect multiple emails? Such an egocentric individual I had never met before. The described image is perfect, but the sympathy and attraction arise from the little things .. You are selfish and I found it after 5 lines written by you. What will I learn if I get to know you well? Good luck in your search!
"Be useful to others with your comment ...", this is the motto of what was written above !!! I'm glad you think so, and I'm not offended by your soul analysis. If I meet you somewhere, I will bore you with "human psychology" or astrological karma, and maybe your eyes will "sting" if you insult my favorite Real or spit on "Queen" or "Europe", for example. That's why it will be difficult to be at the same table with you, because restrictions "alienate" people. If I were a HEAVY ram or a cocky twin, I would ... but I'll shut up. I'm glad if you're doing well. Random !!!
"... Be helpful to others with your comment!" This is written above. I'm glad you think so and I'm not offended by your comment (№12). When you don't know a person, you can swear at him as much as you want, because hypocrisy is everywhere and there are too few nice people. That's why I have a recipe ... I have a FEW, but TRUE friends, and the others are acquaintances !!! 1. Everyone wants to be an angel for everyone, but this is impossible. The important thing is to find a common language with them !!! 2. I have never said that I AM PERFECT. I just set out the facts as they are !!! 3. I am a positive person and even though I am in a difficult period I am sure that I will find what I am looking for EARLY or LATE !!! I will be REALLY happy if at least you are doing well, but I doubt it very much ... and the truth is always in the middle !!!!!
I think I have limited myself to BUILDING criticism and I have not insulted you in any way, at least I have cursed. Read 10 similar comments, I presented my opinion .. if you are not ready to tolerate criticism, do not share in anonymous sites - here it is inevitable, and sometimes it is useful. only a person with a low culture of communication can allow himself to be bored - save the "limited" comments on this issue .. especially when you have no idea what my interests are or what I do. You do not fail to demonstrate your sense of superiority, but Nietzsche's ideas are valid only when this self-confidence is covered :) Good day!
Well, you have a lot of pretensions now
To the author: Hello, I'm a BOY (28), I like your thinking to a great extent, I would be happy to communicate, if you wish, leave a contact email (I'm not gay)! Greetings! :)
that you are perfect for me.
You think you're perfect, but you're not! You take the women around you like rubbish because they lit a cigarette ... I'll tell you a story, I had a great girlfriend, skinny, liked, smart, persistent, she graduated from two universities and she was going to be a big man, but her problem was, that she was too good. One "wonderful" day, find the "love of your life" - a man just like you. He told her there were facial wrinkles around her eyes and she stopped laughing, he told her she was fat and she stopped eating, she got into a lot of trouble and health problems, he beat her that she lit a cigarette and she stopped smoking, he didn't take her anywhere, he didn't walk her, he didn't love her, but he was happy, he had found the woman through whom he killed his own complexes. Now he's happy, and she's in the hospital with a very severe depression weighing 43 kilograms, is that what you're looking for,
Hello №19 !!! You're obviously like a horse with caps !!! ??? I'm sorry to say so, but READ MY COMMENTS under №4, 13 and 14. If I had said that: "You think you are perfect, but you are not! You accept the women around you as rubbish because they lit a cigarette ..." !!! Get her down a little because I DON'T WANT to offend you, but I'm GOOD and I've NEVER hit a lady, and the women I've liked have always loved to take POSITIVES without giving of themselves .... !!! №18 I hope you are not one of those and if you want we can write !!! The sun shines for people who seek, not for those who are always NEGATIVE about everything.
... and I would forget !!! Congratulations to ALL with a great song by: Deep Purple-Love conquers all FRIEND №17 and the beautiful lady №18 I have comments in other topics and if you are persistent you will find my coordinates I do it on purpose because people are annoyed THAT I REMAIN e-mail or My skype After all, this is a FORUM, not a dating site. Love each other ALL ...
As I read most of the comments and I think you answer the question why you are alone - namely because most people do not have moral, ethical and spiritual value, but for them it is moving. Well, I am a woman who shares everything you are. wrote (except for the cigarettes, which I still can't give up), but I have my own principles and conservative thinking and I'm proud of them. Yes, it took me many years to find my soulmate, but I found it Thank God, even thousands of kilometers away from me, but today I am happy - I found myself in the person next to me ... and Yes, very little - not to say that almost no I meet people who share my way of thinking, but I do not feel alone, on the contrary I am happy with myself. And I am sure that I am not the only one, there is someone else somewhere and it is for you ..!
Author, you only forgot to mention one thing - your unprecedented modesty (like in that old joke about Brezhnev). Take her in your arms, because I don't know how nice and good you are with the ladies, but you're a turbo-inflated turkey. Get 100g. self-criticism, stop whining, stop pretending to be a radiant fairytale prince (people get sick to their eyes when they look at you) and just look at things. Grandpa Torbalan
Thank you very much №22 !!! You are a great person and I am GLAD that you HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU. I shake your right hand !!!!! I believe that the sun will warm me too ... !!! I HOPE YOU ARGUE FOREVER. With great respect from Rado
May God grant you the happiness that people like you deserve, Rado- from 22.
You know how I feel and what I think. Why, however, people CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I'M LIKE THAT !!! I am very sunny, and in addition I have WATER ASCENDANT (CANCER) and MOON IN TAURUS, which are additionally sensitive and durable to my partners and balance my October dimples. You can read my comment to "Virgin Club" and MY ATTITUDE TOWARDS WOMEN in general. I just want an ACCURATE AND NICE CHICK ... nothing more !!! Sincerely, rado-raptor
Man, listen. I am also a scale like you, and twice a scale. Anyway. We are so good-natured, but we are also pieces. It is in our nature to be very gentle because we are a more feminine zodiac sign. However, notice that more or less, you value yourself too much, you have some inner self-confidence, that you are very valuable because you can give a lot, but also notice that you want a woman to appreciate you very quickly. It doesn't happen that way ... and you're probably NOT particularly intriguing. You know from zodiac signs, ala-bala, me and what? You are only interested in the beginning or the danger of slipping on the plane of "friends only". I'm also sure that you give away too easily and think it's romantic. NO man, it's not enough. What matters is the way and the occasion in which you gave and / or did something for 1 lady. You have to prove yourself as a MALE to her in certain situations. I do not deny that you have character and principles. I'm not talking about being firm in this regard. And for a holistic approach to things. And I don't know why, but it seems to me that you need to consult more about how they perceive people from the outside, but not to give you a reason to do this or that, that then you become a fool without an opinion. Be a little more ironic with yourself and let the humor guide you. I bet you're an interesting stranger because you're good at wit. You logically knit your thoughts, you are not missing something. Find out exactly who you are and how you affect women. Go to a body gym or exercise, that's important. And arm yourself with patience. DO NOT expect recognition as soon as you do something good. And choose smart women, the elementary ones, they don't understand you and they will never appreciate you, unless you're a "bad boy," bass parody. This is from me! Success! Emo (32 years old)
The most accurate analysis of my personality! I agree with you FRIEND, I am such a person !!! I must add that in the company of the air - (twins Aquarius and Libra, as written in the books) and the fire (Aries lion and Sagittarius I feel comfortable), and my best friends who listen carefully and give me advice about women are the earthly virgins! They are practical, rational and very objectively analyze everything. That's why I like them (3rd house in my natal chart). My best friends (mirror image is cancer first home) and the "little" flirting shooter, the complete opposite. Regarding a case called women, I will tell you that I have already started to give full freedom to everything and everyone and if they like me as I am, it will be okay !!! You need patience, as you say! I like an Aquarius girl and I will not give up while at the same time I have already given freedom. I hope something happens in the end, if it doesn't happen, the world is not over! Brother, I give for your attention and that you are such a "piece". Good luck to you personally and professionally and I wish you the coolest chick to adorn you in bed ... and not only there !!!