Hello! I don't know what's going on with my mother ... They're separated from my father and I live with my father. My mother is very strange. He does not like to contact everyone, easily repulses people. She doesn't want to have a partner, and even if she does, she doesn't get along well with him. But he also treats me badly. For example, we have an appointment with her, she suddenly tells me that she will not come, that she does not want to go anywhere. It closes in my face. She doesn't pick me up when I look for her. I go to them and he doesn't even open the door for me ... It upsets me a lot and hurts me. I feel fear in my communication with her, because there have been cases in which she wrote me messages such as: "I'm sorry, I don't want to live anymore. I love you!" And accordingly I go crazy with anxiety ... I work and study and even though I'm tired I try to take time for her almost every day, but alas, when she's sorry, she takes it away from me. And I am forced to call others to share my grief. She just seems to forget that I am also a daughter and that she can lose me with her behavior. I don't know what to do, advise me ...
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Say exactly what you feel. Tell her - I'm your daughter, I need you. No parent can miss these words. If she doesn't move, forget her - she's not your mother.
Say exactly what you feel. Tell her - I'm your daughter, I need you. No parent can miss these words. If she doesn't move, forget her - she's not your mother.
Your mother is not well and you have to consider her, not she with you. Grow up.
I'm sorry but your mother is terrible I don't know how old you are if you're under 18 don't pay attention to her and if you're over 18 the same but move out
I don't want to be cynical, but I think that's how it will turn out. There is also a certain masculine attribute without which women do not feel well and therefore there is depression and so on.