Things haven't been going well with my parents lately. They treat me very badly, insult me, threaten me with a fight. Suddenly I became an unnecessary thing in us. I have a boyfriend, but I can't see him often because they don't allow me to go out with many of us. In the summer I even wanted to end my life, I took the knife and put it on my veins, but I just didn't dare cut them out of fear. Tell me what to do !
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Darling, don't do nonsense, it doesn't make sense, try to talk to your parents, if it doesn't work, just ignore them and move on, and if you can already be alone, take your luggage and go somewhere with your friend and more. don't be angry :) good luck :) sissy
Don't expose yourself, it's just about time. Your parents may have problems and blame it on you. Sit down and talk to them or your mother, for example. Tell them you can't take it anymore, and so on. Threaten them and you tell them what you wanted to do. Good luck !!!
Well, girl, don't cut your veins ... not seriously: D You have to be strong! His patience is his mother! One day yours will understand what they have done to you and will repent :) Just be positive ... even if you cry! Believe me, I know what it's like to want to hit one of them with all your might ...: D but even if something like this has never crossed your mind, there is no point in any form of violence;) Redirect your despair and negativity to something nice, like your relationship. Even if you do not see your friend often, make each of your meetings special and unforgettable. You will be amazed at how much it helps;) Good luck!
LIGLA, what can I say, do you know what it is in my "family"? She would have cut her veins, but she would have cut them off !!! Pf, those who want to get away with it and just attract attention cut their veins! I hate such people! My father doesn't call me to wish me a happy birthday, how do you think I feel? She didn't wish me luck, but my high school entrance exams ... but I didn't go to commit suicide, don't be so impressed, they will pass!
To №4 What family did you grow up in? Seriously ... I read a few similar stories, and you really intrigued me. Would you tell me? Even here? "I'm sure if you did, you would set an example to many of the growing children ... SFA."
From number 4 If number 5 holds so much, I will tell you briefly about me. I was in 1st grade when ours started arguing. They were just shouting at each other, and I was always sitting at my grandmother's so I wouldn't listen to their arguments. When it became clear that my father had a mistress, the really difficult thing began. He attacked my mother several times (after the last beating we moved out), and before that it was far from just a call ... I will say only the most memorable moments ... He had to pick me up from school once (that is twice), and forget me there. He forgot that he had to pick me up, I sat in the cold for two hours with my teacher from the classroom waiting for him, but he never came. I didn't have a GSM to call my mother, I made a phone with the tokens at school. Not long after, my grandfather came to pick me up, because when my mother called, he calmly replied "I'm in town, call our people to pick her up." And he behaved disgustingly with his parents, he did not set foot in them for 5 years, because they called his whore "hairy monkey" and advised him to leave her so as not to spoil his family. my grandfather did not die, then he came, but late. And he didn't even bring me chocolate for my birthday, he congratulated me as if he were coming home. He was gone for weeks, I sat waiting for him to come back until two and I kept asking "where is dad" and mom who can tell me that he is with his whore? A few years ago I understood the whole truth, the whole story as it is, but it didn't impress me much, I don't have a daughter's feelings for a father. Now they are separated, he doesn't call me, he gives meager support that doesn't get anywhere. And as I said, don't call me about the exams, or ask me how it went, nor what grades I have! This spills the cup and I hate it already. I am 14 (almost) and I applied for this code, I have the results and I am satisfied. I turn to all children and to the author of this topic, recover and do not break your nerves ... I tell you from experience, it has never occurred to me to show such a weakness as suicide, do not run away from the problem, face it and solve it! I can say this, I hope I was helpful.
From 5 to 6 I suspected something like that ... (I don't know how much this will calm you down, but I also grew up in such an environment). My parents were arguing all the time, too, but unfortunately I had nowhere to go - so I stayed and listened to them every day. The difference between your father and my father is that mine did not have a mistress, he was faithful to my mother, but on the other hand he drank like a pig. As a child, all this stressed me (probably you were also stressed then ...) but over time I became strong ... You are also like that, all these things you went through have built an iron character - it would be difficult to break . The ending of the whole story is similar to us. You realized that you had no daughter's feelings for a father, and I understood that I was an unwanted child. My appearance in the white world made him angry (the feeling that you are a burden to your own father is deadly ... indeed). I hate him too - I've told him more than once. I see that he regrets his behavior at that time, but the fact that he failed as a father cannot be changed ... Congratulations for not showing weaknesses and not doing anything stupid so far. Fight to the end ... :)) ... With you, we have things in common .. Thanks for sharing it. SFA
I thank you for telling me this number 5 is really important to me. And I told my father I hated him. Really thank you for your understanding.
:)) It is also important for me ... And even more important is that there are people who understand me. I'm glad you're telling me all this, and I hope people like the author, for example, understand that running away from problems through suicide is not the way. As you said: One has to face the problem itself and solve it :)) I wish you success ... SFA
don't do nonsense, live your life, then they will realize what they are doing to you :)
kam number 5 sorry for everything sucks in your life kam the author my girl is not and thinks about suicide only nonsense is this there are worse things than that and kam number 10 will not realize whatever we are talking about is so