The question is to the girls - how do you want to be treated? Gently and gallantly? Cold and hard? I ask you because my friends often left me with the argument that I was not behaving properly and so I did not understand what they wanted to tell me ..
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Well, they love bad boys, this does not mean to be everyone you meet, but to be masculine and to be able to defend your opinion and the woman next to you. You will not leave the friendly zone until you stop being too good with them. There is a channel on youtube watch it called SimplePickUp.
Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known as hardness. Besides, you can't put all women under a common denominator, we are different. For example, I am repulsed by a moment of falsehood. And I catch him so fast. With an honest person, even if I don't like something, I will explain to him, we will talk and we will reach a middle position, if we want to be together. With the liar what? !! First I have to waste time, nerves and energy to "expose" him, he will lie to the hole. That's why I haven't even said why there is no sequel, it just doesn't cost such a person even the 2 minutes I will waste to explain to him that he is a fake, hypocritical, a liar. One must be oneself, only in this way will the right person be attracted and remain, and not the relationship turn into a battlefield or a waste of time. Otherwise I would also miss such "cold and hard", let them be cold without me. Gallant and gentle ... it depends, not to be one of those chucks, which leaves you with a taste of cotton candy in your mouth every time you spend time with them, and they also oblige you to behave like a fragile, crystal doll. wiped. I am attracted to fiery, passionate men, ambitious. To feel strength and heat. I prefer that he grabs me thirstily before that he trembles like a leaf and that in a slow motion he travels the distance of 3 cm in 3 minutes. If we decide to watch the sunrise / sunset, let him leave me alone we look tears in our eyes. Instead of buying me banal roses to take me on a picnic among wildflowers, if he has prepared food / sandwiches himself, for me this is the romance. That's it. However, if you weave a wreath of flowers for me, I'm fine. Otherwise she will become my "girlfriend" and we'll start talking about make-up soon. Anyway, I advise you in a very friendly way and without taking offense, you should even be grateful, if you are curled up, to talk to some of these friends of yours and explain. We often do not tell the truth to men, I would even say that only to us. we say the first ones and after that we know not to waste our time and nerves, because you react aggressively. Ask and listen without nerves. I hope one of them agrees to tell you the truth. If you haven't urinated too stubbornly or aggressively, I suppose you will agree. But first explain that the conversation does not mean that you will want to return, otherwise it will cut you off. We often do not tell the truth to men, I would even say that only to us. we say the first ones and after that we know not to waste our time and nerves, because you react aggressively. Ask and listen without nerves. I hope one of them agrees to tell you the truth. If you haven't urinated too stubbornly or aggressively, I suppose you will agree. But first explain that the conversation does not mean that you will want to return, otherwise it will cut you off. We often do not tell the truth to men, I would even say that only to us. we say the first ones and after that we know not to waste our time and nerves, because you react aggressively. Ask and listen without nerves. I hope one of them agrees to tell you the truth. If you haven't urinated too stubbornly or aggressively, I suppose you will agree. But first explain that the conversation does not mean that you will want to return, otherwise it will cut you off.
It is strictly individual, there is no universal model. Before, the cliché "behave like a man" passed, but now with this metrosexuality it turned out that some do not approve of male behavior.
They have to tell you what they wanted.
Neither one nor the other. Rather, successfully maneuver between the two depending on the situation.
You behave firmly, you do not please them on various whims, you show that you do not allow them to get on your head, you lead, you make decisions. You have other priorities in your life besides her. You don't grumble, you don't complain, you don't hate others. This does not prevent you from being romantic, from showing that you want her sexually.
Every woman has a different taste, some want romance and others want passion. It's best to be yourself because in long relationships or living together you like to play roles, you start to be yourself and quite often women say you're not like you used to be different, etc. so there's nothing to play roles for. yourself and the right one will judge you. So I'm tired of romantics, it's disgusting for 10 minutes to look you in the eye pitifully like puppies for a dumb kiss or to watch a romantic movie, which instead of eating popcorn and you just stare at you in love, I would run away and close the door I'm tired of such females. Isn't it a man to catch you feeling that he wants to have passionate and long kisses to grab you, and to want everything with you at the moment is not to my taste. Isn't it a man to show you firmness, after all, we have a female genitalia, why is it a man with such a character. I like to be ankle-deep but I don't always want to see strength in the man next to me firmness, etc. I also love the variety I'm tired of the same. I'm tired of dumb gifts for no reason from various people with whom you will press for over 2 hours and they will just look you in the eye. Well, I will buy a puppy if I want, I don't need a man to obey me as such, after all, where is the power left, where is the interesting thing? Instead of grabbing you, he looks at you like a puppy on a leash is mega dumb. So what kind of man is this when he doesn't have passion, desire, etc. I wouldn't be happy for him to beat me, etc., but not to make fun of me, aren't you supposed to be of the stronger sex if a woman can command you is stupid . However, this does not mean that you behave badly and when you ask for something not to, and you breathe. I want the man I found. In the evening to have a stormy and passionate se * s and in the morning to wake you up with a kiss, coffee, chocolate and breakfast or whatever the woman likes as a flower can be added I also like to go to different cities to be nice but at the same time, and to sees his desire for me. To ask for variety, to slap me here and there on my ass in front of people like that, without a reason, to bring me flowers and to rush from the door with kisses, to carry me in his arms, sometimes to give me presents, and to take me to interesting places. He just doesn't care where we are and with whom he can kiss me, tease me, take me to hotels, but from those with big gardens where there are barbecue animals to be romantic and at the same time fun while we bake something to tease me to be for a moment as children. Also to go to the mountains where he takes me to rub us in the snow and a bunch of other things just on the one hand to be good and fun but also to see that he is a man who wants me and that he is the power. Just feeling wanted to tell me how sexy I look in these tight clothes or how good it suits me, how I drive him crazy and how he wants us to stay alone for a while reminds me, and constantly shows how beautiful I am. When we are at home, he ruffles my hair and then kisses me, even telling me how beautiful I am, to show people how much he loves me and not to stay at home alone. F20 and constantly shows how beautiful I am. When we are at home, he ruffles my hair and then kisses me, even telling me how beautiful I am, to show people how much he loves me and not to stay at home alone. F20 and constantly shows how beautiful I am. When we are at home, he ruffles my hair and then kisses me, even telling me how beautiful I am, to show people how much he loves me and not to stay at home alone. F20
I like guys who are nice to be funny to make me laugh with nonsense to be crazy
The key word is UNCERTAINTY. If he thinks that you are guaranteed, he gets on your head and from there your days are numbered. Avoid looking for advice about women from women, in most cases they will tell you the exact opposite of reality.
What are these stupid comments ... If there is love - everything falls into place, if there is no joke - all this!
It depends, everyone has a certain taste. I would like you to be nice, to be considerate, to respect me, to respect me, to ask me even for less important things, it's nice for a woman to hear that she is beautiful, but not too often, be funny, even sometimes it's nice to irritate but in that sweet way in which a woman will want to talk / communicate with you even more. If you are at the beginning of a relationship, it is good to say something nice to her, but not only in terms of appearance, the most important thing is to think about it. Why they leave you don't know ... maybe you're too straightforward, honest or boring or you're too kind, even sweet ... I can't say. Follow these things throughout the relationship, often men start to ignore things, starting in the beginning and forget if at 17, 20, 30, 40, 50 years .. every woman wants to know that she is wanted, respected and respected. Good luck
I didn't like most of the comments at all :( I'm not looking for a man who looks like an animal, but a man. If he is in a hurry with sex, if he feels that he is in a hurry to put me to bed, he is out. I want hugs, kisses and tenderness. sexy and beautiful woman, everyone wants me, but I'm looking for someone who loves and respects me.
I agree with n. 4. To answer the question why your relationships fail, you should / if you have remained friends and still in a good tone with each other /, ask your ex-girlfriends quite remotely and honestly why they ignored you. In principle, when a relationship begins, both partners have chosen each other. That is, she liked certain qualities in you that you have. Subsequently, these qualities turned out to be unavailable due to her delusion, or due to your inconsistency in behavior. Make a friendly analysis, people's disappointment with each other is common. And your question is "what do women want", you know it has thousands of answers and in general ... If a woman knows what she wants, then this is an exception. Usually one will answer you, then another will turn out, a third will finally tell you that you did not understand it. Analyze the failure of your relationships. Think about what girls are attracted to. Think about what attracted them to you. And then what spoiled the idea. You asked a difficult question, but success in the future.
I support with both hands number 9 - UNCERTAINTY. Don't play the game by their rules, or it's only a matter of time before you lose it! Why? Well, because they are such creatures - they are interested until they know if you are tied in a towel. If you are very kind and responsive, complying with her wishes - something in her bird brain alarms that you are not a man and then she INTUITIVELY and by itself loses respect and gets on your head, unfortunately not the one who needs it. !! And it is true that it is difficult to get adequate advice from women on how to successfully behave with women to create attraction .. Hey number 12 for example - she will not be an animal, but a fairy tale, in fact, if you are kind and good with her, after a while she will say that somehow her "thrill" is lost, do you understand .. She doesn't want an animal for that, but in fact she wants someone to tear her pants ..
It has a golden mean. You can't be a cattle, but you shouldn't be a meowing footman. It's even better to be a cerberus than a mouse. If you just want sex, be naughty, cheeky and brutal. Some compromises still need to be made for the connection.
to help me when I need help, to respect and understand me. whether it would be cold or warm, there are various additional details that he can play as he pleases. I do not take it as an ornament after all, but as an understanding and empathetic partner.