My ex-girlfriend and I were together for a little over 2 years, she is 21 and I am 27. Yesterday we last saw each other. We had a fight and went out to talk. We were in her car and gradually the scandal escalated, we fought for incredible stupidity, but it didn't matter anymore, we talked some stories on both sides that they don't even happen to me again. The last thing I told her was to stop and that, I don't want to see her again. she stopped at a traffic light before the crossroads where I was going to get off. I looked ahead when she punched me in the face I was shocked as I came to my senses I got a second blow. This time I reacted and grabbed her hands. I came to my senses just before I hit her. I also said that she was a stupid girl and that I would beat her, she started shouting I don't know what would happen if I hit her. I told her to stop. I didn't believe this was happening to me before, but I would never hit a woman, I honestly hadn't thought about how to react if a girl started hitting me. She stopped after the scab. while my hands were busy removing the belt I received a third blow to the face. When I got off I kicked the car with all my might and left a mark on the paint (the car was new). she came out and attacked me. She was insane, I easily parried all her attempts to strike and I did not answer. I used a lull and left. I was glad I restrained myself and didn't hit her, when I came home I saw that blood was flowing from my lips and I had a fingernail on my chin. In the evening I talked to our mutual acquaintance who already knew the story from her. We talked seriously and I explained to her that I would not see my ex again. We gradually changed the subject and the girl said something that shocked me. "It's usually men beating their wives, but obviously you have the opposite," laughed. I left, I couldn't believe it was said by a girl. I also talked to a friend later. I received similar insinuations from him. In the evening I thought. I remembered my grandmother and the other gossipers at the entrance scolding their peer who used to beat her husband. The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think
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I think you did the right thing. In such a situation, there are not many correct moves anyway. Big dogs should not bark! If anyone thinks the opposite, it is obviously one of the little ones. Greetings
Don't care at all. If you had beaten her, you would feel worse now, and she would have turned out to be the most innocent, and you would still be spitting. A woman tells you that. Just forget everything about her.
You did the right thing, dude. A woman doesn't hit herself, even if she deserves it. You say you will never see each other. Well, never say never. 2 years is not a short time, she slapped you for that :))) You are certainly not indifferent. He definitely hates you right now, but he may hate you because he loves you. And the next time he attacks you, don't get him out of the wheelchair, she's at least to blame. But
And I think you acted like a man by not beating her up in this situation. If every time we fight we fight .... I have been married for 22 years, how much fight should I have eaten ....
What do you care what I think? Your conscience is clear! The powerless one strikes. He who cannot defend himself with words attacks with his fists.
Kill the fool with silence! You did very well. And to hit her and not all of you will be "crooked" according to the stupid "society" .. And what do you care what your common acquaintance or friend said, if you did the right thing for yourself, then it is CORRECT! ;)) 13
You could sew one behind her neck for purely educational purposes. Next time we will come across someone who takes the idea of equality between men and women seriously and we will read a story like "My friend beat me". Anyway, be glad that you got rid of such a simpleton and next time choose your boyfriends more carefully and remember, you can treat a woman like a lady only if she is a lady. Grandpa Torbalan
You did the right thing, the question is how you will behave from now on, if you show people doubts about your rights, you will continue to hear negative comments. honey
Abe, a woman doesn't fight seriously, otherwise you can slap her to find out where she is!
You did the right thing by not hitting her. Give her the way and don't measure in front of your eyes anymore.
You did the right thing, but if you mention the stupid quarrel ... it will be easier for me to answer you. I completely sympathize with you ... it's full of freaks. Beware! Be careful with women, it's no coincidence that I'm a misogynist ... How many times do I repeat it. Rosiros 49
You know, a woman doesn't hit a flower, only a flowerpot :)
Well done, men! Only a very strong person is able to control himself when his instincts and hormones push him to something else! Ray
I admired you. I'm a woman. And this one just wasted your time.
Well done from me too! There are hysterics and simpletons under the road and over the road - there are few intelligent men.
I will tell you that you did wrong! When they love you - love, when they impose - impose you too! Once women plead for equality and times are different, let them face reality and not just the dividends of being a lady! And let's not forget that the feminine in nature is typically aggressive and primary, contrary to popular belief ....... maybe there is a dose of logic in the imposed patriarchy in the east!