Good day! I will tell you my story. From a very young age I had no friends, I was an outsider. I didn't talk to anyone in kindergarten, I was constantly alone. When I went to school, they were constantly teasing me, killing me and harassing me. The teacher looked me in the eye and walked and watched the others pick on me and harass and praise me. My parents decided to move me in the hope that things would get better, but they didn't get better. A year ago I applied to another school here, people are a little better (at least that's what I thought and hoped I would find friends). Well it didn't work out. I have been constantly crushed since I was born. Life is rotten. I read on the site stories like "I have no friends what to do" and people answer just go out, sign up for martial arts or I will pray for you. Well these tips don't help us, because people are BAD, they like to watch others suffer. I don't have anyone, I'm tired. I don't want advice. I just want to share with someone.
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Hello. I see you want to share this grief of yours with someone. You don't want advice, but I would advise you, or rather guide you to be different. You are different. You stand out. People laugh at those who have different traits. So they kill their complexes. They get angry that you are different, with other traits. Teachers are the same way. Be strong. Your mistake is not to strike back with a blow, but with silence. Show what you can do the most and make the complexes silent, respect you. Personally, I do not like very shy people who do not defend their opinion and position. Do not change under their ridicule. Exactly the opposite. You changed them. Change their opinion of you. Make them regret the wrong done to you. And that with sports and going out ... It doesn't work, but it can make you relax and distract .. A method that works for me ... Play a song that is very uplifting or motivating ... It helps a lot. I don't see the point in harnessing the opinion of others. Enjoy what you are. Because you are more than others. And I guess they're the same without a brain park looking for someone to pick on. Show them that you are not the man. Make them afraid of you ... one piece of advice on how to do it: if you have a quick thought and a sharp tongue this will be very appropriate ... Answer them so that they have nothing to tell you afterwards. Be sharp. Don't be afraid to express yourself. These are my tips, or rather annoying words, with which I hope you will listen to my words and I'm sure it worked. I see no point in harnessing the opinion of others. Enjoy what you are. Because you are more than others. And I guess they're the same without a brain park looking for someone to pick on. Show them that you are not the man. Make them afraid of you ... one piece of advice on how to do it: if you have a quick thought and a sharp tongue this will be very appropriate ... Answer them so that they have nothing to tell you afterwards. Be sharp. Don't be afraid to express yourself. These are my tips, or rather annoying words, with which I hope you will listen to my words and I'm sure it worked. I see no point in harnessing the opinion of others. Enjoy what you are. Because you are more than others. And I guess they're the same without a brain park looking for someone to pick on. Show them that you are not the man. Make them afraid of you ... one piece of advice on how to do it: if you have a quick thought and a sharp tongue this will be very appropriate ... Answer them so that they have nothing to tell you afterwards. Be sharp. Don't be afraid to express yourself. These are my tips, or rather annoying words, with which I hope you will listen to my words and I'm sure it worked. if you have a quick thought and a sharp tongue this will be very appropriate ... Answer them so that they have nothing to tell you afterwards. Be sharp. Don't be afraid to express yourself. These are my tips, or rather annoying words, with which I hope you will listen to my words and I'm sure it worked. if you have a quick thought and a sharp tongue this will be very appropriate ... Answer them so that they have nothing to tell you afterwards. Be sharp. Don't be afraid to express yourself. These are my tips, or rather annoying words, with which I hope you will listen to my words and I am sure it worked.
Do not look at yourself, but do good - small gestures, calls, expressions of concern ... You will receive a lot of ingratitude and insensibility, but also a lot of gratitude and appreciation. This is the only cure. Forget about yourself - do not delve into your own states, but carry light.
Do not look at yourself, but do good - small gestures, calls, expressions of concern ... You will receive a lot of ingratitude and insensibility, but also a lot of gratitude and appreciation. This is the only cure. Forget about yourself - do not delve into your own states, but carry light.
Look at the good side of things: you have time to study, books, movies, art, sports or other hobbies. School is not the only place with people to be your friends - I have no friends at school, only acquaintances. Don't let them crush you, be proudly raised, because you also have your qualities and I believe that you are a wonderful girl. Your parents are probably by your side, and they love you the most - what's more. Try to find friends in a game or start writing with someone from your school if you wish. You may like it. Success! (Girl of 15)
The truth is that the blame is on you. Take it personally and learn to be a better person. You are nothing more than someone else, you must be behaving arrogantly and that's why ...
Have you ever thought that people reflect your mood and your opinion about them? If I meet someone who hates me, everyone around me and the whole world, I will hardly want to be friendly with him. If you are full of hatred, you will get the same. This is a law. Do not blame others, but look at yourself first. It is not easy to grow as a person, to build different qualities in yourself and to re-educate yourself. And it's a long way. But it's the only way to get what you need.
People are bad these days, but you don't have to give in to them. I was not an outsider, but I am more sensitive and people are constantly crushing me. But that's not the case now, because I stop caring what others think of me. I know it's very difficult, but try to overcome it. After all, there are more important things than going out. Don't pay attention to the people who make fun of you. Life is ahead of us and you will meet many more people, you will have many good and many bad moments. Just because you don't have friends doesn't mean you don't have anyone. And in my opinion, there is no real friendship in this world, because sooner or later everyone betrays you. I want to tell you to enjoy the good moments and appreciate the most important things, namely health and family!
Why are people so nasty and mean? I have the feeling that the world is evil. Your story is similar to mine. I was also an outsider at school. Constant insults and ridicule and it earned a nickname ... Some teachers defended me, some did not .. When I moved to high school the same job, because they moved there and the new school turned them against me. I only have one friend from there, but he seems to be fake. When I graduated and got rid of the idiots, a few years later I started working in a factory. I wanted things to be different this time. I wanted to not be an outsider. But alas, the story repeated itself only that it was not as nasty as there was no physical violence in a teacher. But I became an outsider again because I didn't do a good job because no one had explained it to me in the beginning. My old colleagues behind my back kept shouting that nothing was happening to me. They shunned me and didn't communicate much with me. They thought I was an idiot, they treated me like a dog. Other fellow sets mocked me behind my back. In general, I, like you, author, have been crushing me all my life, even my own father, when he gets drunk :(. You don't want advice. Honestly, I don't know what advice to give you .. For one thing, I'm a little sorry I didn't defend myself, that I allowed them to crush me I had to make them for 2 cents I had to spit in their face I would surely feel better Why should we be good and give? I will no longer be a victim with other teachers. But there was a nasty English teacher they didn't dare talk to. Because she could plug them, she could make them for 2 cents. They were afraid of her. Not only was she nasty, she was beautiful. And he had confidence. She was prettier than some of my classmates, and they hated her, but no one dared bite her. One tried to bite her, but my English teacher dumped her so hard and put her in her place that Unaya couldn't say her name and didn't dare grunt. I was very happy then how he drowned her: D: D. Thank God my classmates didn't bother me only in English class. Because they did not dare to drool there, the teacher was very strict. And of the whole class, only I knew the most English. And then my classmates were hypocritically greedy and wanted me to write their homework. And the teacher only praised me. She's kind of an idol to me. An example of how to be a nasty person and defend yourself. I wanted to be like her. Because she had self-confidence and was very, very nasty. Her colleagues did not dare to make her dirty and harass her. One time the director tried to step on her, but she failed, she did it for 2 cents. And I learned such a lesson in this life from her. Be nasty so they don't harass you, don't trust anyone. Unfortunately, I haven't learned to be nasty yet and I have to work on the clogs. I may have gotten a little nasty, but not enough. Still, come to think of it, there may be a negligible percentage of good people left. You can make friends with them, but they are extremely rare. Author, don't be angry with everyone, because that way you can repel good people. Remember that you have to have self-confidence, try to be positive and don't let evil people crush you. As much as we can't believe it, there are good people. I have met such, I admit, but very rarely.
From the author. To numbers 5, 6 and everyone else I'm not a bad person. I'm always smiling. I am always good with people and I always help them no matter what they are. When I was little and I was in kindergarten, I always helped the cleaners to make the beds and I helped them, I can't change, I'm just a good person and whenever I see a person in need, I help him.
So am I. Some in the class can't wait to come and annoy me.