I am a girl of 15 out of 4 months I go with a boy of 19 years. In fact, he is not at all like most at this age. He didn't want me to have sex because he knew I wasn't ready yet and even he hadn't done it himself. In the beginning it was great gifts, roses on occasion and without occasion. We were very gentle, we had fun, we tickled, our friends told us that we were very sweet. After the first month, we started to push somewhere, but only this nothing more. However, lately there are no more surprises, it's the same and we just seem to be pushing. Only I always write to him on Skype and when I do he says "you remembered to write to me". Constantly a Frenchman fished with him, but he did not lag behind when I told him that I did not like him, he replied that it was nothing, that it was with every girl. In the end, he was angry with me for the slightest thing. When we quarreled and I shared with 2-3 friends, he started telling me why the whole town should know, and he always told her, she always knew that we quarreled. 3 days ago we quarreled once again and this time I decided that I would not go and start begging him not to be angry with me and alas he has no news, no bone, only a chat in which he said he was guilty it was not in me, but in him because his character was such that one day he was fine, the next he was irritated by everything and therefore could not be with a girl for long. I asked him what that meant and he said "nothing for now" and we haven't heard or seen each other since. But from this quarrel I realized that this time I don't miss it at all and I still don't care if we will get better and I have the feeling that the thrill from the beginning is gone. I was wondering to tell him to be friends for a while, and if we want to get together in time, we will. I shared this with a friend who introduced us and who I feel like a brother, and he told me that if we broke up we would both get angry. Do you think I will do the right thing with this friendship decision or will you say, like some friends, that I still love it. THANK YOU FOR READING ALL THIS :))
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Obviously not for you. Stay friends even though this is not possible in a sense, love after friendship can, but not friendship after love. Did you understand me ..... Well my advice is: dump it ....
Just don't tell me you would be with him again, just so your friend doesn't get angry !!! These are unforgivable "reductions" in human relations! If you do not respect and love yourself first, you cannot expect something like that from others. In case you didn't understand me, this "relationship" is long over! Don't "give yourself away" to sulo and pullo!
Make sure your relationship was serious. Firstly, you are in a hurry, secondly, you write yourself how quickly everything is exhausted. And don't worry about the one who introduced you. It will take a week and it will pass.
See MILA Now that the thrill is gone, therefore no reason to feel more together: once quarreled .In a relationship MUST BE UNDERSTANDING, TO YOUR OWN CHILDREN'S WORK done, but apparently this guy has absolutely no ATTEMPT TO BOY OF 19 YEARS . ABOUT THE FRIEND WHO SHOULD BE ANGRY TO YOU, TELL HIM THAT IF HE TRULY KEEPS YOU, HE WILL KEEP HIS RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF YOU ARE DIVIDED. KEEP FRIENDLY WITH YOUR BOY AS FAR AS POSSIBLE. GOOD LUCK!:)
Author: Last night we parted by mutual consent and today we went out with friends and then he sent me to us because it was dark and on the way he told me "I didn't want it to happen like that, I just wanted a little rest so I could gather my thoughts, but there is no going back "I also felt bad, because I still seem to have feelings, but I think I also need a break to gather my thoughts and I told him then if he wants not to accept it as a complete separation and after a while if we both want it maybe again Let's get together.