How important are whistles in a relationship? Is there a man who can do without them? And is this feeling really good for a man? I have a friend recently. He is my first and everything intimately is new to me, I feel uncomfortable, inexperienced to say so. I'm starting to like sex, compared to the beginning (it hurt a lot) We tried both anal and vaginal. But I don't know why this oral love bothers me so much. I'm very shy, maybe that's the problem. I'm not disgusted, I feel ready, and as the moment approaches, I crash. He doesn't force me, he hinted to me once, but when he saw that I wasn't ready and we didn't open the topic anymore. He says he's fine with me just by touching him and getting aroused, but someday I'll have to dare about the rest. I've always associated the whistle with something mean, dirty, with a light woman. Maybe I will need more time to get used to the fact that this is not something wrong. I am 21 years old, but my friend is much older ... of course with more experience. But staying with me when I told him I was a virgin must have been clear, not expecting miracles from me in bed, right? Haha
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It is normal to worry and be afraid. You have no experience, you are afraid of being exposed, but there is no reason. No one was born a scientist for anything. And there is nothing mean or light in the whistles. They are part of the game, something very nice. I love doing to my husband. Relax, forget all fears, learn to enjoy sex. Believe me, there comes a time when it will become very important for you. At first I didn't know how to enjoy, but now I adore it and it's one of the most important things for me. Go boldly, make your man happy
"Is there a man who can do without them?" Yes me. Just so Torbalan doesn't hear that he will explain how non-male I am, I don't have a "libido", evolution has missed me and nature will dump my genes.
I personally don't like them at all. And ... Surprise - there are women who are offended when you tell them that you don't like whistles. If we talk about sexual practices in the upper part of the body, I am far more aroused by the idea of sex between the breasts ... However, many women refuse it (the same, they want you to put it in their mouths - go find them out). men we are crazy about "whistles", but most are. The ideal partner for me would like between the breasts, anal, and on top (vaginal sex implies). But - different people, different ideals.
Try it if you can at all. I started at 20 with a boy as big as me and I couldn't open my mouth very big and sometimes I clenched my teeth. Then I tried to eat a banana and a cucumber several times (I hadn't done that before) and I started to get used to it. It was only the first time I took a whistle that I was ashamed and disgusted.
I want to penetrate with my tongue, but my partner does not give, is the problem similar?
Very few women are masters of whistling and they do it with desire and passion. !!
And I stick to those who do not like whistles. Look, I bring a woman to orgasm with her tongue - yes, but a blowjob is not the most important thing for me. And have you tried to excite you a lot and not penetrate you? Instead of getting dressed, swallow it to the bottom and get it on his cock. Great excitement works wonders. Grandpa Tosho
You never have to blow whistles or anything else you don't want. Remember this!
So the blowjob is dirty and not in the anus! ??
Number nine, of course. Get in her position: would you stab me with bacon if he had massaged your fart so far? The answer is yes, but you don't have to.
Up to 9 Both are dirty, but I'd rather have anal sex than blowjob. It's too whore, humiliating, unpleasant, etc. F, 21
Up to 9 Both are dirty and I don't approve of them, but if I have to choose between blowjob and anal, I will definitely prefer the latter. Blowjob is the most whore, humiliating and unpleasant sexual act between a man and a woman. My personal opinion, which is shared by many others. I'm not trying to offend anyone, I'm just sharing.
Don't do anything you don't like. And if you are interested, there should be women who take pleasure in the thought of giving pleasure to the man they love. That's the type of woman I am. And there are men who do not like blowjobs, rarely, but there are some. There are also men who do not like anal sex. And generally non-sexual. If you are not happy with this one, do not force yourself.
12 and 13, and why do you share it twice? And I asked the author, not you! # 9
H6, no one was born a scientist. Why don't you give the beginners guidance? Alpha, w. 30 years
So, giving your ass and having anal sex is ok, and giving a blowjob is not ok? Go and hide: D
It is very important for me to give you pleasure, to make a blowjob not by force. Even when you make it, it should feel like not just to blow, every paw but not everyone makes a good blowjob. If you feel it's not yours, don't do it by force. I get aroused when I do it, and I put emotion in both him and me.
I didn't want anal, but that's what happened, he turned me around .. At first I really felt bad, but I know that men like it (I've heard that) .. I hope I dare the other one soon .. Even when he opens the topic of sex I'm uncomfortable, maybe I'm not ready yet .. (this shame ....) The author
I've been in a long relationship for the last few years. I accept that sex is important for the relationship, but not exactly the actions in it. I think it's important for both of you to be sexually satisfied and to feel good about your practices / ways / preferences. Human opinion is irrelevant as long as you feel good with each other in bed. I believe that it is good to try different things, even if you don't like them, and then not to practice them. Believe me, at the beginning of my relationship I had not blown anyone's whistle. I was worried I would expose myself. It seemed humiliating to get on your knees. I was 17-18 years old then and I was at the beginning of my sex life. I had no idea what to do. Well, I was scared. My friend didn't rape me, it was never vital for him to make oral love, but he wanted to and I knew it. He has more experience than me, then he already knew what he liked and what he did not, and I was just learning these things about myself. From the very beginning, I told him that if he pushed my head and tried to control my actions, we would not understand each other at all. I explained to him what was bothering me, what would repel me, and where my limits were entirely at the level of my conscious understanding. It doesn't stop me from holding my hair, it doesn't stop me from directing it lightly, but in no way do I want to blow his whistle and feel like inferior blood. That's the way it is, if that's what makes me crazy in someone's eyes. Yes, we have tried the other. We had rough sex. Over the years, I have experienced all my limits and I already know them. Especially for the whistles, I really can't accept that someone will push it just by pushing my head or something with their hand. Otherwise, the whistle itself, when you have complete control and freedom, is something that is not unpleasant or humiliating at all. Try it, there's nothing to expose yourself to. Keep it out of your teeth and everything will be fine. If something in particular worries you, tell your friend and come up with an optimal option in which you are both happy. I see that you want to satisfy him and I consider it completely normal. Oral sex is something very pleasant, this feeling is different from everything else. There are men who don't want blowjobs at all, as well as those who can't do without them. Most of them are very good, but a normal man who really cares about you will not oblige you to do something that you cannot accept as normal and makes you feel very bad. Try and judge how much you like it, and then you will decide how often to do it and whether you will do it at all.
Noner 12 and 13. You prefer anal sex instead of giving him a blowjob. And when you are ready for anal sex, do two or three enemas in advance so as not to stain it and make the whole room smelly. Even your vaginas are dirty many times because you do not know how to maintain intimate hygiene. When we have brought her to have sex so far, I first examine her vagina and if I notice something white coming out of her vagina, I just give up such dirty sex. A man's penis is always clean, and the vagina is dirty if the woman does not know, or out of laziness, how to maintain intimate hygiene.
Well done at 21! Here he hit them on the eyelids. It turns out that mass adolescents and not only have zero sexual culture. If you ask most what they know about Chlamydia trachomatis, they will look like calves on a railroad. Otherwise, everyone is very open in these posts. Blowjobs, anal, 3s, 4s, 7s, etc. Here young girls of 20, 21, 22 perform such miracles that prostitutes with 10 years of experience have to learn from them.
21, did you happen to hear that women, when we are aroused, secrete secretions that serve as a lubricant? Alpha, w. 30 years old, using a women's shower regularly
N. 23 you say you're 30, but you don't know how old I am. I know what secretion (not secretions) you're talking about, which serves as a lubricant, but this normal secretion is colorless, not white as milk or yellowish snot and smelling like rotten fish. And if you don't have any dubious secretions other than the normal colorless one, why do you use a ladies' shower regularly? I have a lot of experience and I know what I'm talking about. You women think that we men are very ignorant about your intimate anatomy. Yes, there are such men, but I am not one of them. You don't know how many women I've been with and what "vaginal pictures" I've seen. Stop thinking that only you understand your reproductive system.
Of course, you can do without them, this is a perverted fashion in modern times. Bulgarians suffering from the syndrome of misunderstood civilization. Bulgarians are the simplest people in Europe and copy from the West like monkeys!
Okay, 23, sorry. I don't know about the rotten fish. I have come across terribly stupid statements from men who think that there should be a perfect drought and have overheard the lubricant being declared a "white current". The ladies' shower should be applied prophylactically, of course, not too often, so as not to disturb the microflora. I'm sorry you came across a mess. Alpha, w. 30 years
I feel bad reading the comments. Dirty ridge, whore ridge ... Do you live in the Middle Ages? It seems that a part of the Bulgarians there is anchored and will not progress. How can you live with such prejudices in the 21st century? Author, if sex is not dirty, it is not sex. Yes, it can be full of love and romance and at the same time be very dirty. One does not interfere with the other. There is nothing wrong with that. If you both have fun, everything is ok. In my opinion, a woman should be a whore in bed and a lady in front of others. Get rid of stupid prejudices and enjoy. No normal man would think, "Wow, if my paw is a big whore, I'd better dump her and find someone who doesn't do these dirty things." You will probably feel flattered and give him incredible pleasure. And if someone thinks such a thing, you can be sure that such a person will not be a good husband. He will most likely expect his wife to be like a tree in bed, to be "pure" and "moral," and at the same time to ask prostitutes for what he does not get at home. There is nothing forbidden in sex, it is only necessary for both of them to have fun. You can't know if you'll like whistling if you don't try. I advise you to try when you're ready and then if you like, great. And if you don't like it, talk to your friend and tell him you don't like it. Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different. and at the same time he will look for prostitutes what he does not get at home. There is nothing forbidden in sex, it is only necessary for both of them to have fun. You can't know if you'll like whistling if you don't try. I advise you to try when you're ready and then if you like, great. And if you don't like it, talk to your friend and tell him you don't like it. Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different. and at the same time he will look for prostitutes what he does not get at home. There is nothing forbidden in sex, it is only necessary for both of them to have fun. You can't know if you'll like whistling if you don't try. I advise you to try when you're ready and then if you like, great. And if you don't like it, talk to your friend and tell him you don't like it. Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different. Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different. Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different.
Men like whistles, there is hardly a man who does not like them. If a woman didn't want to, it would offend him, in my opinion, and he would look for someone who would want to do it to him. You should always try, and if you don't like it then. And not to refuse directly, and to pretend to be a virgin. Will a man be pleased to know that you have ruled your previous partners and you do not want him? Or to you, if he doesn't want to make you oral, and he did to others? If you love the person, you really want to do everything to make him happy. Otherwise you are looking for excuses, and he will be sexually dissatisfied, and he will blame, because another may not be so modest and cut him. Virginity is not an excuse, but the lack of desire is. You let it to your back entrance, but not the other. You are not disgusted there.
I tried it .. honestly it's not that bad, but somehow I'm ashamed .. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, wrong .. and I don't know how to say it. He wants it and really virginity is no excuse, but I will need more time to relax.
The truth is that men want a woman to be a housewife, a lady in society and a slut in bed. There is nothing whore and mean in the whistles, in my opinion it is much lower to pretend to be a saint and a virgin, sooner or later his husband gets bored and seeks diversity elsewhere. Sex is a mutual pleasure, I don't see what a whore there is in doing oral sex to your partner, the whore manifests itself in many other ways, in my opinion. Ж32г.
"If you love a person, you really want to do everything to make him happy." And if you are happy with something that is unpleasant to the other and you still want it, do YOU love him very much? I only gave a blowjob to my husband, I don't like it, I don't hate it, but I don't like it either. And he no longer insists. I also don't want things I know he doesn't like.
Serious discussion. I don't see why you do things you don't like. So far, I've learned that some find anal sex more acceptable, others oral. I've never pushed for either, if the woman next to me doesn't like it. I've also had cases where it was even mandatory for both.
To 27 And I felt sick when I read your comment, and a lot of it, believe me. Are you at least 15 years old ??? Apparently you grew up on the disgusting porn and idiotic Facebook statuses like "what a real woman should be ..." and "what a real man should be ..." That's where your idea of gender relations got confused. And not just yours, at least 90% of you are. This porn ruined you, ruined the women around you, alas. "Do you live in the Middle Ages? It seems that some Bulgarians are anchored there and will not progress. How can you live in the 21st century with such prejudices?" You seem to be anchored in porn and do not want to go out. Being perverted and behaving like a complete almond, regardless of gender, does not make you "progressive". The other thing you obviously don't know is that a woman's refusal to have anal sex or blowjobs or both, does not mean that he has "prejudices", but means that he respects himself and his body. It also means that it is pure and moral, as you put it. "Sex if it's not dirty is not sex." Who lied to you? And, sorry, it's on Facebook statuses. This "mantra" is also quite common among prostitutes. You also smell like a whore, and being a male is just as embarrassing as being a female, so don't be proud. I, on the other hand, am of the opinion that if it is dirty, it is not sex, but a disgusting, horrifying, disgusting porn imitation and has nothing to do with the word "sex". You, if you tend to deal with prostitutes, your problem, and a huge one. Just don't stigmatize all men for having whore thinking and looking for the above. "Yes, it can be full of love and romance and at the same time be very dirty. "There's no way this can happen, the two are mutually exclusive. Maybe you're a virgin ???" I think a woman should be a whore in bed and a lady in front of others. "There is no such film, there never has been, there never will be. A woman is either a whore or not. There is no middle ground." Those who say it was dirty are full of traffic jams. And I understand men who don't like them. It's weird, but people are different. You're a congested person, and one of the biggest on this site, since you're a follower of porn and a lewd lifestyle. Only primates like you have that "thinking," if you can call it that. You're terribly bad, really. Besides, you use too many clichés and you're illiterate. Sad ... And men you don't like, you'll never understand them. You're light years from the word "man." sharing your opinion made me an almost asexual male hater. I am very, very close to that definition. You are always looking for a whore, obviously because it is in larger doses with you, but women are not. Not all. We, the normal ones, do not want to be made into rags, nor to pretend to be ourselves. Stop with your whore and selfishness, you will not get to anything good, don't you understand? Don't you see where things are going? You make women either asexual or absolute bitches, then you roar ... Well, roar, you do it yourself. Stop with your whore and selfishness, you will not get to anything good, don't you understand? Don't you see where things are going? You make women either asexual or absolute bitches, then you roar ... Well, roar, you do it yourself. Stop with your whore and selfishness, you will not get to anything good, don't you understand? Don't you see where things are going? You make women either asexual or absolute bitches, then you roar ... Well, roar, you do it yourself.
Number 34, you're right about everything. Calmly, as she said herself, only male whores "think" that way.
Alpha 30 I am № 6 To clarify; When something doesn't come to you from the inside, when you do it without pleasure or out of obligation, then no lessons help, but will simply harm the woman. Would you share with you how it is, when you started doing it and how you define yourself, or maybe if you had feedback from your partners, tell yourself !? Thank you in advance!
Hello lovely girl! Try to drink some alcohol, get a little drunk, just enough to relax and become more relaxed. I'm sure that will give you courage. In general, I really like to blow whistles, but while I'm drinking it seems to me the best thing in the world. I feel it unique and I do it with even more pleasure.