The Women In His Life

   chick, i have the same problem with my favorite. I am jealous of the past, which is stupid and immature. Recover, because he can get tired and beat his clown. I'm telling you quite seriously.

   I was like that with my girlfriend, after I took her password on Facebook I started reading them and I literally felt sick. For a whole year, a flaw in the relationship never left my head. I can't say it was jealousy, because I haven't been jealous of the one with her longest relationship at all, I haven't even thought about it. I was angry at someone at a party she slept with, at someone else who, for the second time visiting them, raped her and slept with her and did some things to him, and it just didn't fit my brain for months. For subsequent relationships, I will not look at all with whom she was, what, what, etc. next, because I will ruin my nerves unnecessarily. Such is the life, unfortunately, Facebook, the nudity on TV and the sent texts have made everything so open, people to hear about sports, but the worst thing is when your wife is heard like that, and I would have a hard time accepting it and forgetting it with my girlfriend. Otherwise, she was ok with me and maybe she made a living, she didn't lie to me and so on, but it's a fact that these things are hard to forget and accept. You women think a little more rationally about these things and you want things to be going well at the moment, to pay attention to you and to love you, not to delve into the past, you are a different type, like me, so you can you will not overcome it, I personally failed

   It's just a fear that one day he won't go down that road again. And I think that fear is completely justified. Because according to my observations, there are no former k * ari. Yes, he may be temporarily bored, he may have felt lonely, he may want to love for a while, he may have a serious relationship, but everything is temporary. You have been together for 2 years. After another 2 years he will start to take his longing for a serious relationship and he will start to remember the good old days. Especially if everyday life, everyday life and some care for the family, money, work become a fact, and this is inevitable at some point and like nothing will return to their old habits. This you either have it in you or you don't have it and it is difficult to change from today to tomorrow. Not that there aren't any, but usually the above happens. With suppression it won't happen, only time will tell if I'm right, but just don't let it show that when you gave birth to 2 children and then broke your head alone with the children. So do not suppress anything, just watch and do not rush. But don't get into any complexes, that's not the way. If he has such intentions, sooner or later he will go wrong. Just wait at least a year or two before taking anything serious. And without that you are young and there is no place to hurry yet. After 2 years, you yourself may be in a completely different mind.

   All men are liars. You better not trust him so much and don't think you're the only sweetheart ... in a very short time you'll make sure you're neither the only one nor the irreplaceable.

   I guess, in the first place is your fear that he will not be ONLY with you, after he is used to a lot ... for that, yes, you have the right to worry, men do not change the desire to "weave". several places. This is a matter of personal perception, character, value system, etc. For the rest, how he did not fall in love with the other two, and in you, how he wants to start a family with you, I do not think he would be lying. For what it is for him, with others he has not found what is in you. I believe that once he has had more opportunities, but has settled on you for a family, he appreciates and loves you. For the first one, though ... I don't think I'll be alone with you for long. He will be discreet, he obviously doesn't want to lose you, but ...

   the man has obviously met the woman for him, i.e. you. why is it so hard for you to accept it? in our youth we all did stupid things and things we are not proud of. well, some much more than others, but you do not write that he did something illegal or immoral, therefore I accept that it is within acceptable limits. had connections - had, what worries you? better focus on your relationship with the boy. if that's really what you want, don't look under the ox calf. you can't erase his past, but he doesn't owe you an explanation for it either. F43

   The past does not determine who the person is in the present. It may seem like a cliché, but everyone has made mistakes, your friend has lived in which there is nothing wrong. You can't judge him, this is his life. The most important thing is the current moment!

   well, men don't change, once he's been with a lot, so it will be in the future.

   Hello! I'm not sure how prepared you are for the comments here and I'll explain why. You will probably receive two types of comments - one, to stop bothering about things from the past, because they cannot be changed, and now it is with you and not with the other women and the second type that such men do not change. The bad thing is that you already have one thing on this man's mind. And rightly so. Some time ago I had feelings for one who, like yours in this case, explained to me in love that, despite the many women in his past, he was different with me, different, that he had changed for the better because of me. I decided to give him a chance (mistake, a few chances). Blow yourself in each one. I'll be honest and tell you that there was nothing like a change and almost a 360-degree rollover from one person to another. He's just like that, a womanizer and could not keep her attention for long on only one woman (I'm not talking about love, because I strongly doubt that such people can love). Well, I wasn't ready and I didn't want to accept the role in which he would be with another from time to time, and then come back to me with the words "I was wrong, I'm sorry, I want to be with you again." And yes, we ended our complicated relationship with this man a long time ago. I feel better without him. I found a friend who is the complete opposite of him and I'm fine with him. I'm not worried about his past, I don't know how many relationships, because in my previous relationship with that man, it was eating at me from the inside. So I understand you very well. However, you should already be familiar with this person. You haven't been together since today or yesterday. So you need to know for yourself if he's really honest with you, or these are just empty words. Tip: Don't be fooled by other people's comments, including mine. This was my experience with that man and it's about two completely individual stories - yours and mine. The common denominator is that the two have been, let's face it, women in the past. That man hasn't changed. It may be different for you. You are the one who knows and feels best. I always have one thing in mind for such men and I honestly think that they are not subject to change, because I was convinced with my own eyes. But you know how things are with you. Think well and decide for yourself so that you do not regret it in time. Success! let's put it bluntly, women. That man hasn't changed. It may be different for you. You are the one who knows and feels best. I always have one thing in mind for such men and I honestly think that they are not subject to change, because I was convinced with my own eyes. But you know how things are with you. Think well and decide for yourself so that you do not regret it in time. Success! let's put it bluntly, women. That man hasn't changed. It may be different for you. You are the one who knows and feels best. I always have one thing in mind for such men and I honestly think that they are not subject to change, because I was convinced with my own eyes. But you know how things are with you. Think well and decide for yourself so that you do not regret it in time. Success!

   Well, as a person he has no problems and invents and creates them himself, so you went there with very confident steps. At some point, the boy will get tired of explaining obvious things to you 100 times, and you will continue to disbelieve him, and he will pull your balt!

   Don't get into unnecessary movies. The more you think about it, the more unconsciously you will repel the boy. It doesn't matter how many or what they were like before you. Undoubtedly there have been more beautiful and better in sex, perhaps than you. But since this person is with you, then there is something for. Years ago, I was obsessed with exactly the same thoughts as you. As I imagined who he was with and what they were doing, I was so furious. At one point, he began to give me pleasure that it was me and not someone else who was with this man. To date, we have been together for 7 years and we are looking forward to two cute twins, and the past is long behind us. Look ahead and be happy, because it's up to you.

   I have read quite carefully what you have written and I share your torments to some extent. It struck me that you only comment on his love affairs (two), but nowhere do you mention your relationships, whether you were a virgin when you slept with him, because at that age you are hardly the "Immaculate Virgin". You also don't share how he perceives your adventures (if there were any) and do you wonder if he enjoys it. In the end, I come to the conclusion that the person accepts you as you are, but not you accept him. You are one of the women who no man will like, you are always looking for some excuses for your longings for each subsequent man who is always better than the previous one in the beginning and after you win him you start looking for flaws. This man did not come across the right woman.

   I have a case like n 9, if he is a womanizer, he will remain like n12, how do you know that he will not cheat on you later and you are so calm?

   I have a case like n 9, if he is a womanizer, he will remain like n12, how do you know that he will not cheat on you later and you are so calm?

   He is tired of going out with different people and has decided to be alone with you for variety. Time will pass and this will become boring and will upset the coin.

   FROM THE AUTHOR (for those who are still following the topic): There are people who have misunderstood me or more precisely - not completely. I'm not saying that he was only with two girls, I'm saying that his supposedly serious girlfriends, before me, were two. Otherwise, he was far more than two. And no, I was not a virgin, but I always kept my honor and I was careful and thought about what I was doing. And if I have to be honest, it was more interesting for me to want to sleep with me, and for me to be inaccessible, huh .. :) but these are my teenage years. In general, I always think about what I'm doing and before him I slept with only one boy, which I don't regret, but in general I could think a little more ... and it's a little difficult for me to accept, I, who care so much about it, to such a man falls, and such a woman falls on him. We talked to him about it, I asked him how many girls he slept with, he answered me (in general I don't think he lied to me, he swore to me because I was just wondering how to trust him and I begged him, even if he was a paw, I was just looking for some security), the number he told me was not so much as big as I've thought all along, and I'm a little relieved that it's close to the number of "non-counters", but in general, when we have such problems, I turn a little against it and start to think if I really love it, for to make from an elephant fly (although not for me), time passes when I think all this, do I love it, why do I do it, etc. and I think it will never be the same, but it passes . It's just that when we're arguing about something and our relationship is strained, when I hear it and I cry .. Wow .. how much can I talk about this relationship and my and his feelings, just feelings. Thanks to everyone for your feedback and to those who are still disapproved! All the best! I'll follow..

   Why and how did he decide that his previous two long relationships could in no way be called love? Did you think so, or did he tell you so? Because a person does not stand in a long relationship simple, without feelings. This is in case you think so. And if he told you - think about the following - if he was in two relationships, and it was long, without feelings, or just at the moment he thought there were, but from the standpoint of time, he realized that he was wrong, then what is the guarantee that there is nothing wrong with you, in something that also in no way can then call love. You see, he has experience with such relationships. He may be looking for a modest girlfriend to forgive him while he is a hookah. I don't believe the two girls he was with stayed with him if he wasn't nice to them, if he didn't say kind words to them, if he wasn't a good lover! And won't this happen to you again? And if you didn't have feelings how hypocritical you must have been! Of course, I am writing this only on the basis of your words, and this may not be the case. He may have loved them, but when you questioned him and took his soul out, he told you so just to be calm. You know the situation best, we can only guess. But the soul always knows what needs to be done. That's why you have confusion in her. It is clear to you, as well as to me, that nothing will come out. I am also impressed by the way you describe your friend. You didn't write a single good word about him, except that he slept with many women. And a person, apart from being sexual, has another side in his life, but you are interested and focus only on the sex he has had. Therefore do not worry, but find a friend with whom you will be happy, and your soul will be at peace. Love must not torment.

   Accept it! There is no way a 26-year-old man has not had other women in his life, it is normal. Just leave the past behind and rejoice that he is with you now. In fact, it is even good, because he has experience, you have experienced is youth and knows what he wants from a woman in every way. He has chosen you!

   to the Author, were you the only one with him, was he the only one who caressed and kissed you, but if he started thinking like you, did you think about what would happen next?

   to the Author, were you the only one with him, was he the only one who caressed and kissed you, but if he started thinking like you, did you think about what would happen next?