I am married, with children and a man in prison. I have an extramarital affair with a colleague who is 10 years younger than me. Our relationship has lasted almost a year, and this year we have seen each other intimately at most seven times. In a word, he doesn't show a strong sexual attraction to me, and if it was just that, I would never call him a relationship ... but the rest of the time he treats me like the most in love man on the planet. He looks at me and caresses me with a tenderness with which no one else has done it ... he can't last a day without seeing me, even for a coffee ... And his jealousy knows no bounds. He is jealous of all my colleagues and I almost avoid talking to them to avoid a possible conflict, because he is also hot-tempered and constantly threatens to beat us and me. He is also jealous of my former relationships ... he can't stand having other men before him. You guessed it that since I am willing to put up with all this — I am madly in love with him. I told him a few days ago, I felt him get excited, he didn't stop looking at me with a gentle and amorous look, but nothing, he didn't say a word about feelings and love. And is he really experiencing them or is it time to stop hoping and put an end to it What do you think, have you encountered such people? I will wait for your comments!
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What can I tell you, this is like a dog that neither eats its bone nor gives it to anyone else. There may be another, do not reject this idea. Tell him what is bothering you and ask for an explanation for his behavior. And those who threaten to fight are weak-willed people and you should not be afraid of such a person. And one piece of advice - do not give it very much in love, but hold on to the situation. That's how you let him rule over you.
Hello, I am very pleased with this site and I often go in to read stories. I want to comment on this story of this woman. Some time ago I also had a relationship in which my friend was very jealous of me and did not allow me to talk to anyone, not even my parents. He wouldn't let me leave us by accident so I wouldn't fall in love with someone else. Of course, I couldn't stand the pressure and dropped him, but that didn't fix things, and I got a new boyfriend and he was watching me all the time. I told him to stop following me because there would be a problem with the police and he did not stop naturally until I filed a complaint against him. I want to tell this woman that these are sick people of love and that she should not be with this man for a moment anymore. I'm much younger than her, maybe because I'm 20 years old and I realized in time. Drop this man and look after yourself. He will ruin you!
10 years is a big difference. These are just feelings that will cool down over time. But it's best to have a relationship without committing. When you start living with one person, problems arise. Only for emotion is good!
Your lover seems to be doing a bigger job than your husband. He wants to show that the prisoner's whore is his. I would never go to jail for people like you. She and a friend of mine thought she was falling in love with an ex-prisoner for money. He doesn't let her talk to anyone. Because of her nature, I have not yet crushed the shape of this garbage. If you complain, take action.