Hello! I wander through the surprises that life presents to me extremely bravely, and here I am again faced with an obstacle, stronger than me, so I ask you for help, who can do what. I have a serious friend ... I had. A few weeks ago, things went downhill and there was an unexpected turn for me. I was brutally upset and humiliated in front of my friends in the center of Sofia in the middle of the night. I will not go into detailed, I will just mention that everything happened because a stranger came to help me while my friend refused to pay attention to my problem. The help was expressed in a simple helping hand, which became the reason for the whole company to become a real Hell in the evening. For my friend, it was infidelity. A few days later he openly insulted my friends, demonstrated a definite lack of morality and respect I felt terribly crushed. Because of this man, I had not seen most of my male friends for months, and some for a year. We had a two-hour conversation in which I made it clear that I could no longer do so. I met my best friend today. I hadn't seen him in months (he and my boyfriend can't stand each other before we're together, which means at least 6 years). He is a real gentleman. We had an amazing afternoon. We even lay like a dez on the grass (I've always been a fan of staring at clouds and talking to him ... since we were little). I felt secure, loved. Without realizing it, we drifted somewhere between the sweet talk and the strange clouds and ... we held hands in the familiar friendly way. He told me a minute later that I was still not indifferent to him. He didn't want me to answer, as always — he didn't need these things. I stood like an electric shock all afternoon, and yet in his arms — no kisses, no explanations. Eventually I wanted to leave and he sent me away ... of course we didn't want to let go. I had to push him. I justified that I have a lot of work to do with my upcoming exhibition and luggage to pack. I'm leaving tomorrow. My friend won't send me — I don't want him there — and I'll handle it myself. I don't know what to do - this person is obsessed with me. We broke up and before - it was tragic - he was standing under my window, watching me ... it was hell. I can't go through it again. You will ask why am I with him again "He managed to fool me into changing." I'm one of those people who doesn't like to end, doesn't like to leave others and yes, I've suffered ... I just can't handle myself. Please give advice on what to do. I'm too confused and I tend to believe my sister that I just don't think soberly to want to give a chance to a man like my so-called SERIOUS FRIEND, who is jealous of me from the air, and even from my sister. To tell you the truth, I don't shine with surprising beauty to say why there is a normal blue-eyed girl, but my friend claims that these eyes are the cause of everything, and my best friend says he would never limit those eyes. because they are trusted. I do not know what to do. Help! All this affects my work, my family ... I'm worried about what will happen while I'm not in Sofia ... I'm worried that the person I'm talking about is sometimes aggressive and vindictive ... and even from my sister. To tell you the truth, I don't shine with astonishing beauty to say why I am a normal blue-eyed girl, but my friend claims that these eyes are the cause of everything, and my best friend says he would never limit those eyes. because they are trusted. I do not know what to do. Help! All this affects my work, my family ... I'm worried about what will happen while I'm not in Sofia ... I'm worried that the person I'm talking about is sometimes aggressive and vindictive ... and even from my sister. To tell you the truth, I don't shine with astonishing beauty to say why there is a normal blue-eyed girl, but my friend claims that these eyes are the cause of everything, and my best friend says he would never limit those eyes. because they are trusted. I do not know what to do. Help! All this affects my work, my family ... I'm worried about what will happen while I'm not in Sofia ... I'm worried that the person I'm talking about is sometimes aggressive and vindictive ...
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Hmm ... aggressive and vindictive with a woman, with a man would you dare? !! I don't believe it! One such former "aggressive and vindictive" turned out to scream like a little girl when a man stood up to him. Author, don't make your life miserable with such pathetic complexes! Cut to the root and forget. Enjoy the clouds in company or alone, the important thing is happy. You've been in an emotional cage so far, fuck dude, even your air is breathing. Away from such sick people. Well, you are in the "tunnel", you see the light, you know where to go, do not pretend to be blind!
Abe, you didn't break up with your boyfriend, you went to hold another's hands. Don't do it now, you must be giving him a reason. When you don't want it, separate, but you understand freedom a little bit as freedom. If he holds another in his hands and she explains to him, will you be jealous or do you think there is nothing to do?
Friendship between a man and a woman is not possible. There is passion, hatred, adoration, love, but not friendship. Oscar Wild
You are narcissistic and you are self-sufficient. It's hard to live with such a woman, you better conquer your boyfriend, that's how you both suffer.
Oscar Wilde was (proven!) A homosexual! Do you think that his opinion on the issue is authoritative! ??
as you describe things, I don't see what's surprising. your friend (so far) is a complete complex and jealous (to be jealous of your sister ???), who uses cheap manipulations and imputation of guilt (for example, your eyes?!?). that it won't change, it's clear that you don't have to keep bothering him - either. I wonder what you liked about this pathetic semblance of a man. break with it, don't pick up the phone and be firm. if he goes to pretend to be a man, ask one of his friends or his father to "advise" him. Success! F43
From the author: to the first three I would only say that they do not know me and this is not the time and place to say why I am not selfish or self-sufficient. I want to thank number 6, I needed something like that. Otherwise ... I left. At the moment I am about 1000 km away from the men in question as well as from my family, I do not pick up the phone to anyone because everyone knows that I need to rest and I think I will stop everything as soon as I return. I'm in pain, but I can't. I'll see what I do about my best friend - I'll probably let him decide what, how and when will happen - at least I have a clue to him that I've known him for as long as I can remember. Thanks! PS to number 5: Sexuality has no effect on Wilde's genius as it does on anyone. Sexuality is a part of us. It doesn't matter who is what :)
Um, author, I didn't understand where I saw that I said that you were selfish and self-sufficient ... On the contrary, I advised you to get rid of this complex soon and if you have problems with this man, well, there are other men who have other men. would end with ... the problem. H1
Just say no, don't be afraid ... I think this person feels some fear in you and uses it to kill his complexes ... don't get attached to him, as the comments say ... cut to the root ... Good luck with the exhibition! :) Ж29