Hello! I have been in a relationship for 1 year and I thought that everything was wonderful between us until we had to be in different parts of the country for the summer. We used to be inseparable, and now he can barely find the time to call me. We used to share everything, but now only from above. He calls me mostly in the evening, he's even up at night before he goes to sleep, we talk a little and he says he's very tired and I'm going to bed. If we don't talk, he doesn't always wish me good night, but he always writes me good morning. I just have the feeling that I am at the bottom of his list of priorities. If I write to him during the day, he answers in an hour or two ... and no, he doesn't work - he's supposed to be with relatives all day, with friends, he doesn't stop touring, which is not bad, but just that he doesn't pay attention to me it kills me. He tells me that he loves me, but with this lack of time for me all day I start to stop believing him. I do not think, that there is another, some other is the problem. Give advice, because I don't want to lose it, and I love it - when we are together we understand each other very much, but now I have the feeling that it will boil over and I will leave it for some nonsense. And I'm busy during the day, and I go out with friends, but when he writes to me I always see on time, why is it so difficult for him? !!
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Hammer - hammer .. who is here? Man bumka .. what do you think? People who love - show. And those who are shown a lot are taken seriously and it is wide around their necks. In reality, he can easily do his own thing. When he doesn't need to pay attention to you - why should he do it? Now you're going to say "But if he loves me" ... and it's going to be bullshit. Men love 102 things, and their freedom is much higher on the list. He feels that he has her and lives. He goes out with friends, they have fun. If he was doomed to boredom, he would somehow spam you non-stop ... But you love him very much, especially after he started not paying attention to you, right? Now you want to do your best not to, don't you? Here's another one on the "I'm not enough, I love it more than life" list. Brother.
Another person is involved. Any other excuses with work, colleagues, friends do not apply. There is another woman.
Welcome to the world of the elderly. Shocking, but besides being your boyfriend, this boy has other hobbies and responsibilities. It is good to understand that the world does not revolve around you. Otherwise, not only this boy will not pay attention to you.