Girl, 16, I've been training kickboxing for a few months. The only thing I need is the hall. When I'm nervous, I just put everything on the sack and it passes. Boxing is a thrill to me. I knew it would hurt from the beginning, but I didn't care, I don't care now. The thing is, I came home a week ago with two bruised wrists, a blue ankle and broken elbows. There are bruises, but only I know about them. I've been wearing bandages and painkillers for a week now, because the pain is huge, my hands are blue and swollen, and I don't want our people to understand. Well, they understood and want me to go for a photo! Of course, this is not a problem, but they want to stop my training so that I can stop coming home 'broken'. How can I convince them that this is not a math lesson, that I should come home alive and well? I need that, I argue with them, but they don't support me. I will not stop training,
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What makes you so nervous that you get bruised !? They are your parents - it is normal for them to worry about you. I understand that you like to train and honestly it's commendable (at least you're not like 90% of your peers who just sit at the computer). But really think about the problem. These are injuries that will probably stay with you for a lifetime. You can't go home blue and "worn out" every day (or twice a week) and expect the developing bones and muscles not to "give up". Then you will have problems - your joints, muscles, bones will hurt. I'm not saying stop training. Just give it a little more gentle.
Oops, take it a little slower with the aggression, you're a GIRL, and you're only 16 ....
Well, don't stop training because it's important to you, but be more lenient, because all the bruises and injuries will one day have an impact.
it's great that you're training! I say it quite seriously, but really be careful with injuries, this from experience. your body is only one and you will need it for life. you can see for yourself that overdoing it prevents you from training - painkillers and bandages are obviously serious. explain to them that you will be careful and he really does
I've always thought that people like you are like emots - they rather seek attention and that's why they do it and then seem to brag on the sites.
Author: Until comment №6. I don't see myself as an emo or a depressed teenager smeared with problems. If I were an empty-headed bastard, my friend, I would definitely 'escape from reality' with pills or cut my veins (a typical Emo behavioral reaction). I hope you understand that this way I support myself physically and mentally. I don't think that someone with such a labile psyche would go to train and 'harden their spirit'. I don't think there's anything wrong with sharing, especially considering the function of this site. Have a nice day, Thank you all for being open!
I also trained boxing, but I couldn't understand why you are so bruised, does you do heavy sparring with someone or? take it easy! otherwise if you really have such a strong desire to train, I do not believe that yours will be able to dissuade you;) I know from experience, at least with me they failed ... Otherwise it's great that you play sports, many of the teenagers when I watch them now are great stunted organisms, which is not good for health ..
Exercise and don't give up. Number 5, you're an idiot. Girl, sport is the truth. Sport unites people, teaches discipline and creates habits. Train yourself and don't care what others tell you. And you others, ask yourself the question: if the girl does not go to train, but shakes in the gardens or gets drunk and smokes, is it a better option? !! Well done to the author, keep going. Pr0cK
I have been training judo for 2 years and I had the same problem in the beginning. My parents did not approve of me training because it was not for me and the injuries would remain. They quarreled with me every day, but I kept training. Twice I cracked my collarbone at competitions, they quarreled a bit but stopped because they realized that I would not give up anything because it was a thrill. And they don't tell me anything anymore, even if I came back bruised from the races. If you love what you do really nothing and no one will stop you from moving forward ...! Otherwise, it is good that you have found a place to spend the aggression in the hall!