I have been living abroad for 5 months. Here I met my best friend. She is also Bulgarian, we are both 15 and even our names are similar. But we are very different in character. And the people around us are constantly comparing us to each other. She is more arrogant than me, she dresses more extravagantly and the boys like her more. While I'm a little more modest, I study more, I have better grades, I don't drink or smoke. She is about 1.60 m tall, slightly plump, with a full ass and baby belly. I am over 1.70m, with a clearer face and I have a kind of "Arab" figure. She is blonde and I am brunette. We had no problems until I found out that the boy I liked liked her. Then we were about to quarrel very fiercely, but I just swallowed and moved on. We're in different schools now, but I go to my old school almost every day, to see my old class. And the comparison starts again: -She has a better ass than you .... -She is weaker (and this is not true) -How so she was offered at least 5 boys for the last 2 months, and you 3 ... And so on. However, I have a feeling that she is starting to be proud of that too. She started messing with these comparisons, even though I told her how much it annoyed me. And we and our families are different - ours keep me very short, while theirs allow her almost everything. It annoys me that they compare us, but I don't want to lose her. She is my closest person here, 3000 km from Bulgaria ... * Please publish my story, because I want to get advice. THANKS :) * -She is weaker (and this is not true) - How so she was offered at least 5 boys for the last 2 months, and you 3 ... And so on. However, I have a feeling that she is starting to be proud of that too. She started messing with these comparisons, even though I told her how much it annoyed me. And we and our families are different - ours keep me very short, while theirs allow her almost everything. It annoys me that they compare us, but I don't want to lose her. She is my closest person here, 3000 km from Bulgaria ... * Please publish my story, because I want to get advice. THANKS :) * -She is weaker (and this is not true) - How so she was offered at least 5 boys for the last 2 months, and you 3 ... And so on. However, I have a feeling that she is starting to be proud of that too. She started messing with these comparisons, even though I told her how much it annoyed me. And we and our families are different - ours keep me very short, while theirs allow her almost everything. It annoys me that they compare us, but I don't want to lose her. She is my closest person here, 3000 km from Bulgaria ... * Please publish my story, because I want to get advice. THANKS :) * And we and our families are different - ours keep me very short, while theirs allow her almost everything. It annoys me that they compare us, but I don't want to lose her. She is my closest person here, 3000 km from Bulgaria ... * Please publish my story, because I want to get advice. THANKS :) * And we and our families are different - ours keep me very short, while theirs allow her almost everything. It annoys me that they compare us, but I don't want to lose her. She is my closest person here, 3000 km from Bulgaria ... * Please publish my story, because I want to get advice. THANKS :) *
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I couldn't figure out exactly what you want .. Don't pay attention to others - speaking doesn't hurt if you control yourself
So I can tell from your mind that you are 13, 14? What we can help, I did not understand.
You're not a friend, I'm sorry, but it's true. As long as he insults her for the weight, grow up and accept that she is just better than you. You're jealous and the big beauty turned out to be the ugly Betty.
You should not be influenced by other people's stories. Let them compare you, raise your head high and do not despair! And what of the fact that many boys have been offered to her, don't be greedy for them, things turn to her today, they will offer her and tomorrow to you. Be proud of what you have and don't ask for someone else's. Let them talk and compare you - a man seeing two beautiful women together immediately begins to look at them and one kind to compare them. Rejoice that they look, feel good as you are and do not look at others as they are.
Don't pay attention to them, they love her because of her muffin behavior, you will see how in another year you will be a student and she will be a saleswoman somewhere!
And one more thing, don't try to pretend to be her, if the people around you really respect you, they will accept you as you are, if they don't, then they don't really care about you! Even better, stay away from her so she doesn't lead you astray, you know the language well, I guess you'll find a lot of new friends there!
What should an Arab figure mean? Your classmates are as simple as most teens, I hope they get smarter when they grow up. You are above them, dump them and find smart friends like you ... they obviously envy you and that's why they talk to you like that. Lift her head and keep them aside. Brunettes are prettier!
"How come they offered her at least 5 boys for the last 2 months, and you 3 ..." If you feel like it, you can tell them: "Well, because it's easier, and the easy is always preferred" , but when you finish school and enter real life, you will see how much better you are than her. Many children think that popularity in high school is everything, but when they graduate, it becomes clear that what they thought they "had" does not give them any start in life. No good husband, no money, no good job. The boys like her because she behaves lightly and can easily have her. Such boys do not become men when they grow up. Learn not to care about her life and remember that one day you will forget even what it is like to be a student, and about these "problems" now, you will realize that you really shouldn't have considered them problems at all. F27
Girl 14. Hi, I don't think you have to pay attention to what others say. Be yourself and know that you are not what they think you are. I had similar comparisons with my previous girlfriends because I went out in their group, and they are a kind of "muffins", and I prefer less makeup, longer skirts, dresses and pants, closed necklines, and they liked everything to they have 1 ton of make-up on the outside, etc. In fact, when I was with them, they all made me the biggest "muffin" and k *** a (somewhere). Now I have a friend, he pulled me away from them because they compared me to them and in fact I was always like that. I didn't care before, and now I don't care who talks about me and who compares me to whom. I know I'm myself and I know I'm not who everyone thinks I am. Tip: be yourself, know that you are not the one they have and I don't think it's worth being friends with this girl, because a real friend will never allow you to be compared and ridiculed. I hope I was useful.
FROM THE AUTHOR: Thanks for the comments, criticism and advice. You really helped me. Now I'm just going to keep in touch with her, she's really close to me. And I didn't mean to offend her, quite the opposite. Because while she accepts her defects as effects, I accept them as something shameful and bad. Next week I start in a normal German class and I will meet more people ... I hope to find a friend there, and maybe a friend :) But this time I will not rush: D