? Hi i want an opinion.. I've been dating a boy for two months... Before me he had an affair for 8 years but with FF he divided with the girl a year ago I don't know exactly how many... From his story when he told me he talked to me about her, she hurt him a lot... But if he's a different guy, he talks like that. Otherwise, he told me that he cheated on her because she gave him reason to do it. Izmučvam of these thoughts... Otherwise it's very good for me to shave my attention telling me that I'm the only girl after her that he's been looking at and that he's been out for a long time, or he's had only sex... I don't know, I'm tormented by these thoughts... As we fight, I postono write to him the IASB and tell him you can't to be with me as you were with her and that he still has feelings for her. And when I see him, he doesn't even mention what I wrote him... I don't think he wants to tell me that he still loves her... Please tell me I had a sense to continue with it.. or finish.. He tells me that I'm not indifferent to him and that he was attached to me... And when we fight, he doesn't even look for me if I don't find him. Is it just sex for him:(((
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in the words of several men I know: "If he wants something with me, he will look for me."
It's been eight years - he may make things worse, but when I look at you, you're trying to fuck yourself. Let him sign a declaration that he has no feelings for it and notarize it.
Look, the fact that he still loves her is quite normal, he is still hurt by her, but the feelings nestle somewhere in the soul, ok, but he is very well aware that he has no future with her, that he has to look for his future elsewhere. . Apparently he tried with other women, but they didn't have your qualities, they didn't grab him. You obviously managed to get under his skin and he won't just dump you, but he still has something to heal in himself, you help him with that, be sure. Your presence in his life is a really good thing and he appreciates it, give him a chance to love you unconditionally and only you, he will need a little more time, do not give up. Wedge wedge kills, so his love for you will kill the hopeless love for his ex :)
I'm number 3, I'm telling you all this from personal experience with a 10-year relationship behind me, I just saw a lot in common and that's why I commented :)
Well, you ruin things yourself before they happen. How can it even occur to you to write him such text messages? !! You appear to him as insecure and complex, and that will repel him. Then you will cry here that he dumped you because he loves his ex. He's not with her, and he obviously has a reason. Be a little more proud and confident. And as long as you asked about her!
Look, now he doesn't bother you because he doesn't bother you, so he doesn't care about you, he can even go out with you to make his ex jealous. Sit down and talk and clarify things
Nothing will come out of either this or the next, for the following reasons: 1. You are terribly illiterate, this speaks of your value system, as well as of your immortal attitude towards yourself, respectively towards everything else. 2. You go out with someone for 2 months and you are already shaking and describing things as disastrous. It is a completely different matter that a generally smart person would spend the first 6 months looking to see if he can be compatible with someone, instead of trying to model him from now on. Obviously he still loves her, not to mention the other nonsense he told you. If I were you, I wouldn't even think about this man anymore. I don't know how old you are, but better late than never. Therefore, the most sensible thing for you would be to start respecting yourself, to read, to take literature for the 1st grade and a little less to learn to write in your native language. then who knows, you may remember that in order to like someone, you have to accept them both outwardly and to like their character. From what has been described, I understand that since you have been together, you ask him some stupid questions, and he answers you even more stupidly, which speaks of similar characters in stupidity, but nothing more.
Well done number 7, I would write something like that! In 2 months, don't get into the movie alone, because only you will lose, enjoy the moment, instead of making dramas. Be yourself and stay afloat, don't force things if you want to be together. Men are most repelled by dramas and superfluous films N. 22