Hi, I'm a 13 year old boy. Several of my classmates are harassing me. Intentionally. They have some software (or whatever) installed on the phone that allows you to turn up the volume a lot. And so. They know I hate chalga, but they beat me every day. I can play music too, but they have some special sound program, and I don't. There are about three or four. And this is every day. Even complaining to someone at school has no effect. The chalga is played during breaks, but sometimes during classes. They just do nothing from school and do not take measures, but they can. I am already wondering who to complain to and who will take measures, because we do not have any principals, etc. in the school, unfortunately :( If we had principals, this problem could be solved, but in this western school in Plovdiv we do not have: ((( (((. I came up with an option to bring a radio, which can be heard loudly, except that there is no space in the backpack, and there may be no quality signal. There are no penalties, even for harassment.
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Yes, I have a problem ... No adult will deal with such insignificant nonsense. You do the problem yourself because you pay attention to them. This motivates them further. Get up to play a hook next time and you'll see how quickly they get tired of playing chalga.
Well, put on your headphones and listen to your music. The other way is to pretend to fall for the chalga. When they see that they are not annoying you, they will stop.
Um, the solution is very easy - it's called ignore headphones. Ready
Bulgaria boy! Those who only play music for you should not decide to beat you.
From the author: And why don't they play other music for me? For example dance, pop, classical music, eurodance, retro, music from the 80s and 90s or 00s?
Quite a stupid problem ... Get some headphones and pretend you don't listen to them. I don't like chalga either, but all my friends are chalgars
Pretend you like it. I'm serious. Get a little into the role. Start snapping greasy with your chalga fingers. They will stop caring then.
Excuse me, when will you approve the comments?
When you wrote "harass" I thought it was a fight or something. And it was chalga ... what if it was chalga? Smile at them and ask them to increase and you will see how they will lose interest in harassing you if I had your problems .... God ..
Let someone raise the issue of the parent-teacher meeting. And you can make a subscription, together with other students (and why not teachers) from the school, to change the rules, for example, an hour ago everyone left their phones in a box. At the end of the class, of course, you take them back.
Play them church music.
From the author: To those who write about headphones: I have, but I unwittingly ruined them. And it also says that phones are not allowed during class.
From the author: today at noon during class they played some dead songs again, instead of songs from the 90's or some from Billboard.
Get a small column that has bluetooth, there are some where they are very strong, go to Technopolis. You will rub their noses on the irritants.
Author to 14: Thanks for the advice, I'll think about it. They seem to be doing this and they are using a strong column.
Good boy, you're not like the others. You can't limit anyone to their preferences. This is an individual choice and freedom. You label them as saying that when they listen to chalga, they are stupider than you, and that's why they get annoyed. They want you to be like them, but get up. Just put up with them and don't create any more problems. Listen to your music at home or move to another school if the situation becomes unbearable.
From the author to 16: Not only I can listen to my music at home, but they can play their chalga at school. Anyway, there is no chalga now, but unfortunately it seems to be temporary. Otherwise, they are really stupid. Sometimes I even hear that they insult me, but not in front of me, so as not to say them.
The fact that someone insults you doesn't make him stupid, he doesn't get angry, but these are childish things. I thought you were fighting to listen to your music, and you wanted them to listen to your music, that is, to impose their style. The fact that the chalga is made of half-naked dolls filled with silicone does not make it worse than the music of the 90's, which is made by drug addicts, most of whom are not alive yet.
Number 1 is very right! Don't show that you care, you even pretend to have fun. Otherwise, don't think that school would do anything. Even for a more serious problem, and later in life - no one cares about your problems. As you can see, even everyone abuses them. They find the weak spot and they hit .... so never expect anything from anyone. Or if you expect something, it should be the worst. Rely on and trust only yourself!