Hello! I am a 27 year old woman. and I've been dating a man my age for a while, but I just feel like things aren't going well. At first I liked him a lot, despite some of his quirks (he doesn't want to lick me there) I accepted him as he is. But lately I feel like he's trying to push me away. Since I have been unemployed for several months, he promised to help me find a job and all he did was send me to 2 interviews with his acquaintances for some crappy jobs for little money (he himself is a deputy manager of a company and instead to take me to his company finds excuses). Besides, he hasn't bought me any clothes since we left, nothing to show that he loves me. It is true that he pays the bills, but we always go where he says. Even the last time he took me to the movies, he died of boredom. We haven't set foot in the mall without saying a word ... On top of everything, sex hasn't been going well lately - I can't finish every time, because either he will finish first or he just falls and gives up ... he doesn't even want to lick me to at least finish what it started. Besides, he never listens to my advice - now he has decided to buy a new car (because he drives a raucous Opel), but a Mazda 6, and I insist on Audi - a much better and nicer car, but he obviously has no taste. .. I think things are not going well and I will have to dump him soon ...
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Yes, dump it. Do him this favor. He must be too good or too patient and not dare to do it alone.
Well, you obviously have a man with character, but also flaws. In reality, he makes some decisions for himself. A little selfish. I think the car is his choice, but he will take the amount himself. But if he's not interested in the little things you like, I think maybe he's losing interest too. However, you know him better and you can tell if he is like that or if he just doesn't care about you. Put the question this way - either he will show interest in some way or he will tell himself if he doesn't want you. A little rough and direct, but I think it's better. Yes, you do not bring real income, but this is not a reason not to comply with your opinion. After all, you are his half! * Syndrome
You sound like an 18-year-old ... muffin. I don't want to offend you or anything like that, but why doesn't your friend have an opinion on what kind of car to buy with his own money ?? And he doesn't have to hire you at his company? Why do you want to work right there? Do you expect any privileges? Do you think that you will have less work and a higher salary? I don't understand you, but you sound like some spoiled girl, not like a 27-year-old woman. Or do you think that your friend should support you completely because you sleep with him? Put in a little effort and be more serious, I'm sure if he sees a more mature attitude than you, your friend will support you. Remember that you can look for a job yourself, not wait for it.
God ... if this is a real story .... it doesn't fit my head .... can there be such primates as the author!
Please? And where did you come from to evaluate the person next to you and want more and more? Greedy, arrogant and superficial. The best thing you can do is dump it! (This is my comment if the story is true and I really hope it is NOT!)
Hahahaha! Invented, but well written, well done!
He'd better dump you so you can get down on the ground and look around. I don't want to offend you, but you are a pathetic, mercantile ungrateful woman who is waiting for everything. You have neither work nor money, but you are dissatisfied. He will lead you where He wants, because HE drives you with HIS Opel, HE pays the bills and HE decides what and how. I don't care to write to you anymore - people like you don't understand what they are being told.
Oh, I don't know how this man tolerates you. Without taking offense, but if I had been in his place, I would have abandoned you a long time ago and found something modest, but much more valuable and valuable. The princess didn't like that, she didn't like that ... You sound capricious to me, which is definitely not a plus. By "some time" I mean a few months. I don't see how, after such a short time with a person, you allow yourself not only to give him a reason, but also to insist on how to use his money and what to do with it. Are you his wife? As for the interviews, everyone starts from scratch and gradually rises after showing qualities and competence in the field. I don't see how you expect him to find you almost a boss position and you to shake your legs and give orders all day without showing a gram of skills. Be grateful for the little he gives you, because I don't think you deserve that either. The man took her to the movies, but the princess didn't like the movies - they were boring. God, when I listen every day to homeless people dying in this cold on the streets like dogs, I don't even know what happens to me when I meet such a slut who complains about idiotic things .... Please, if you care at least a little about this person, leave find him happy with a woman who will appreciate him and love him, not his car, money and relationships
sorry but it seems to me that you are obsessed with the material !!!
"I just feel like things are not going well .... since we go out he hasn't bought me any clothes, nothing to show that he loves me" unfortunately most women understand love this way, it's the truth and please not to jump against what is written, thanks
I hope this is a work of art, because I want to believe that no woman could think so elementary and be so deluded!
horror, horror, terror - Let it pass from you. But not to go to the MALL together ... horror !!! :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Doesn't it leave you to tell him what salary to set, what clothes to wear on different occasions, who to make friends with, how many times a day to brush your teeth, etc.? He really is a big bastard! How do you tolerate it at all? :) :) :)
The author, with what you have written, shows that your idea of relationship and love is different. Why should he show you his love when he buys you a dress, why do you interfere with what car to buy, will you give the money, and why should you work in his company, you are neither engaged nor married .... and and of course he falls in love while having sex, he is obviously tired of such a pretentious boyfriend like you and he has sex out of obligation, just not to offend you.