Hello everyone, I have a girlfriend for 1 year now. I would say that things are normal between us, of course, we trust each other. We love each other very generally, she shows it to me, I think things are mutual, which is the most important thing. But here I mention that there is a problem that has already become quite unbearable. Somewhere after 5-6 months of our relationship, I noticed that she is trying to impose herself on me, she is domineering, when it doesn't happen to her, a banging and a grumbling starts. My views and points of view, when I share something with her, I have the feeling that a gram does not concern her. She grumbles every time she doesn't say something, but because I'm a meek and calm person, I try not to get used to her, and in most cases I'm silent, because arguing with a girl just doesn't make sense. Several times I have said a little to take into account my views and my opinion, we have had this conversation several times already, but the result is temporary. It's just getting unbearable ... Thanks to the people who will read it! :)
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Break it from sex because things are going badly. You will be dumped, so to speak;) So it hurts so much that you don't regret it later;) Good luck!
do not compromise, especially for nonsense, otherwise he will stop respecting you
Well, brother, 90% of women are like that - wolves in sheepskin. And by the way - the psychological harassment they inflict on men is much more terrible than the physical one, where they complain that from time to time they take a slap, deserved a thousand times ... Get rid of this one, and I'm squeezing your thumbs to find a wife from those 10% that are normal, just like I found. But know that the competition there is very big! Each of the streets - it does not work!
I support number 1. Show her who she's dealing with;) And don't let her bother you like that at all. Respect her opinion, but don't let it affect yours.
What are you doing with her anyway? She's not your girl, as long as she doesn't care what you think. The end is near, but I don't think you're losing anything, on the contrary.
What is normal about things between you when it has begun to impose itself on you and it is domineering. And this has been going on for months. Once it is unbearable, it will become even more unbearable. What are you waiting for? You're right that arguing with a girl just doesn't make sense, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with her for just one sex. You set a day and a month and in a quiet and calm tone you tell her that you are separating and you will not change your decision. Wish her to find a friend who will listen to her about everything and fulfill all her whims. It's a good thing to be meek and calm, but that doesn't mean letting a woman get on your head. Be a real man.