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This Was Just Sex Between Us, And He's Bothering Me Now ...

By daniphant0m August 08, 2020 8 answers Last updated August 08, 2020

I am a woman of 24 years. I had a long relationship, my first, which ended in a lot of lying, infidelity and intrigue on his part and made me rethink my trust not only in men but in people in general. I've been driving it ever since. I found that I prefer not so serious and binding relationships, but with open cards on the table. I'm young, now is the time to have fun, and I'm not a family guy like other women - I don't dream of seeing myself in a white dress, with a baby in a stroller. I'm a male girl anyway. I have known for a long time a handsome man whom I had caught my eye some time ago. I like to choose men for myself, to be a kind of hunter and finally, when I win it, it's sweeter for me. I don't like people who push me. So, this guy was perfect. Very tall, handsome, dimples, golden brown hair and colorful eyes, tight body. Modest and quiet, which attracted me even more, perhaps because it is my opposite. I started writing to him on social media. We liked each other a lot and practiced for so long before we decided to go on a date. The meeting passed in the most romantic way possible.

Dinner at an Italian restaurant (favorite of both), cinema, we finally agreed to continue watching movies with them (yes, I know how it sounds). True, he made a movie and made popcorn, he had no intention of doing anything else, but I ran into him, I just couldn't help myself. And we had super passionate sex, not some ordinary fucking, but it was really full of emotions. And I intended to continue to have fun in this way (I'm not just talking about sex, but about meetings and so on). However, all the time I watched him look me in the eyes in love, how he was constantly smiling. And so after the first meeting, he started writing to me several times a day, calling me, talking to me about love and relationship. Don't get me wrong, but it came to me a little more after one sex to become so attached and to suffocate me a little. And very jealous! Now you will tell me how women still have no pleasure, but I have already mentioned that I am not like other women waiting for the prince on a white horse. It's that I've never met a more decent man and I like him, but I don't know.

The 100% wants a relationship and said he would even wait for me. But it doesn't give me time to think at all. He is the type of person who, when they fall in love, wants a wedding right away and together forever. And I learned to be realistic. What can I tell you, Cancer man and Aries woman. What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. Don't get me wrong, but it came to me a little more after one sex to become so attached and a little suffocating. And very jealous! Now you will tell me how women still have no pleasure, but I have already mentioned that I am not like other women waiting for the prince on a white horse. It's that I've never met a more decent man and I like him, but I don't know. He 100% wants a relationship and said he would even wait for me. But it doesn't give me time to think at all. He is the type of person who, when they fall in love, wants a wedding right away and together forever. And I learned to be realistic. What can I tell you, Cancer man and Aries woman. What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. Don't get me wrong, but it came to me a little more after one sex to become so attached and to suffocate me a little. And very jealous!

Now you will tell me how women still have no pleasure, but I have already mentioned that I am not like other women waiting for the prince on a white horse. It's that I've never met a more decent man and I like him, but I don't know. The 100% wants a relationship and said he would even wait for me. But it doesn't give me time to think at all. He is the type of person who, when they fall in love, wants a wedding right away and together forever. And I learned to be realistic. What can I tell you, Cancer man and Aries woman? What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. but I have already mentioned that I am not like other women waiting for the prince on a white horse. It's that I've never met a more decent man and I like him, but I don't know. The 100% wants a relationship and said he would even wait for me. But it doesn't give me time to think at all. He is the type of person who, when he falls in love, wants a wedding right away and together forever. And I learned to be realistic. What can I tell you, Cancer man and Aries woman. What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. but I have already mentioned that I am not like other women waiting for the prince on a white horse. It's that I've never met a more decent man and I like him, but I don't know. He 100% wants a relationship and said he would even wait for me. But it doesn't give me time to think at all. He is the type of person who, when he falls in love, wants a wedding right away and together forever. And I learned to be realistic. What can I tell you, Cancer man and Aries woman?

What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused. What would you do in my place? I can't talk about feelings at the moment, they are confused.

Answers 8

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clairesulmers answered · August 08, 2020

   Abe, boy, stop this hatred of women and these pathetic attempts at erotic stories ...

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littledoll_18 answered · August 08, 2020

   That's exactly why people like you, valuable people, suffer. She was different from the others - look at the excuse! Everyone is unique, even if you are twins you will still not be the same! When you go to fine restaurants, romantic dates, watch movies together, don't you know what that means? !! Truly valuable girls and boys lose faith because of individuals like you. Then all the men were rubbish, all the girls were bastards. How will they not be? WHEN YOU WANT NON-COMMITTING SEX JUST TELL IT! IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE OF AN EXPENSIVE DINNER. SAY CLEARLY AND EXACTLY I JUST WANT SEX TO COMB TO MY EGO WITH YOU. Then thank you I'll tell you. A condom, a crowded alley, you don't even need a bed. But you make fun of people, chew and spit them out! Don't worry, karma will follow you. There is no escape. Your heart will become ice and thousands of pieces, it will bleed and hurt.

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mistercase2 answered · August 08, 2020

   I didn't understand what your problem was. Have at least a little courage and do what you say you do - play with open cards. tell the boy you just wanted to bang him and that's it. that you are doing this and only looking for that, because "now is your time". and when you turn 30, and after a double-digit number of numbers and a serious backlash in the backyard, you will talk about home, value system, serious relationships, trust. but don't worry, we "hunters" like you smell them from afar. you won't get anything but one duck.

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uniformesweb answered · August 08, 2020

   You will be sorry, the man is great, it is a pity that such things always happen to people like you ...

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asos answered · August 09, 2020

   You better not miss him, starting a relationship, you will both have sex with him and get to know him as a person. There is nothing wrong with that. Almost every one of my relationships has started with sex, no matter how it sounds. And I think something great can happen between you;)

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valerifadul answered · August 09, 2020

   You remember, in order to form (any) opinion about "men and men" after just one relationship, it doesn't speak well of you at all. You are prejudiced and congested. Like some Bai Ganyo, where he saw a Pole on Kiten and now all Poles are clear to him. Or another who went to a strawberry brigade in England and now the British are his blackest. Nothing else happened except that you became a Lower User, with nothing better than this jerk who fucked you. The poor boy doesn't deserve this, and you know it very well. The bad thing is that he will do the same with someone after you, disappointed with the women ..... and so the wheel turns.

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simon88buc answered · August 10, 2020

   He will struggle a little and it will pass. I've been in his situation and I've realized that falling in love and feeling is very simple, no, it's not simple and it's very nice, but it's not for these latitudes and times. But you are the proof that it is normal nowadays for men to count you, because otherwise you make them roar jokers. I've been through this and I don't give in to emotions at all anymore.

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taureanprince answered · August 10, 2020

   I decided to become boyfriends, so what. I hope I don't hurt him. I didn't tell him these things, I just hinted to him to drive slower. The author