Hello, as a strong and independent woman, I never complain about my problems and I do not understand why people consider me a person without problems and do not help me. My main problem is with my husband. He drinks, beats me, threatens to kill me, and that irritates me a lot. Can you tell me how to stop being annoyed. I would even say that I am afraid of him, tell me how to make him start to be afraid of me. Apart from that, we also have a child who stutters, urinates and is afraid of other children. Tell me how to make him eat more in a week because he's mean and eats very little. My husband started asking for a divorce, how could I explain to him that divorce is not a solution. I'm even starting to think that he doesn't love me and he really wants to part with me, how to show him that if he breaks up with me it will be very bad for him and if he doesn't love me how to take revenge on him.
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Which of the following made you think he loved you? Divorce him, isn't he the only man on this planet ?!
You have a mental problem. No one is obliged to stay with you, why will you take revenge on him for not wanting to be with you? From what is written, I doubt that he beats you, but you just accuse him to seek attention. But if so, you obviously have to drop it, egati and the stupid question .... Seek help from a psychologist and psychiatrist, if necessary.
These women are just a tribe, hey ... they will beat, humiliate, insult and treat us like rags, but we will still stand by them. The bad thing about you is that you don't even realize you're wrong. You ruin your life and the child's. Male, male ... simple work.
You say that divorce is not a solution. Yes, it is not a solution. This is the best decision you should have made a long time ago. I'm even surprised that your abuser wants a divorce, not you. If you don't respect yourself, at least give him a divorce for your child. Stuttering and urinating are not the result of a healthy family relationship. It smells very much like a fictional story, if it's not, I'm sorry, author, but something in the worldview is very lame. Start reading more spiritual literature (I don't mean religious literature). A consultation with a psychologist / psychotherapist would also be helpful. I saw above that you were recommended a psychiatrist, but the author of the comment does not seem to distinguish between a psychologist, a therapist and a psychiatrist, it would not be bad to be a little literate. Success!
Drink, encroach on you and do not want a divorce? Are you a masochist? Don't die from divorce, believe me!
Fictional theme, if only they had put the commas. "Author," you forgot to ask how to win the lottery jackpot and how to take down Brad Pitt.
n. 11, these things don't happen in real life, do they? Safe from stupidity, comparable to that of the author.
I'm number 2. The psychologist offers consultations, you talk to him to improve your perception of the world and if you have a personality disorder or other non-psychotic condition. The psychiatrist prescribes pills, including to healthy people when needed. Divorce and family problems cause neurosis in every second or at least emotional imbalance. She thinks about it all the time, probably doesn't sleep well and doesn't think sober. With such drugs it will be possible to balance and then the consultation with the psychologist will be more effective. In America, every second person goes to a psychiatrist and without being sick, only we here are congested and think that only the crazy go. I am generally against medication in healthy people, but in this case the problem will deepen, this woman must come to her senses and get out of there, as well as to stop thinking about revenge and live your life. The psychiatrist will help her become a new person, she is currently in a hole, probably depressed.
A strong, indomitable woman? Your husband drinks, beats you and you don't want a divorce? A strong and independent woman will leave immediately. And the child? Do you think about him? It is not good to live in such an environment.