Hello! My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months. Sex is more than great. She is quite perverted, simply put, a slut in the full sense of the word. So to the question - 1-2 months ago we were both very inclined to make a threesome with another man, we found a suitable one who agreed, but 2 days before the agreed day to do it he gave up. After thinking about it, I realized that he had given up for good. The thought of sharing it with another man drives me crazy with jealousy, but at the same time it turns me on, it's very strange. Then we talked and decided not to do it because we love each other too much and this can ruin our relationship, but 2-3 days ago she again raised the issue of a threesome with another man. She said that it was interesting, she wanted to try it with me, etc ... I was very hesitant. She is the love of my life and I am afraid, that if we do then nothing will be the same. What do you think?
Answers 8
Now they will tell you that she does not love you, that these are perverted things, etc. Everyone has the right to an opinion. I'm telling you that if you're not ready, there's no point in doing it because then you're really going to ruin your relationship. My wife and I did it 4 times with another man and we had no problems, but we both wanted it, and we proved ourselves to each other and we have no doubts. It was nice, even amazing, but not everyone is.
Think about the third sentence you wrote. If you have described it as such, then do not expect anything good. Even if you don't want a threesome, she will ask with or without you. Good luck.
It is very difficult to write in such topics. Just because it depends only on who you are and what she is like, and we don't know that. If you think you will be very jealous and nothing will be the same then, don't do it, if you think you will like it, or if she wants it very much and you are ready to do it for her, go ahead. There is no way we can give you advice if we don't know you. You have to judge. USA
I don't find anything who is so exciting in a threesome with another man, even if the girlfriend is his own or not engaged to either of them ... However, for me a threesome with two women is a very cool thing (I share my personal experience of the latter without I offer it to the author of the torment above). Whether you will like something in sex depends a lot on how intelligent you are and what complexes you have (everyone has chips to cut) - most people compensate for some shortcomings through sexual excesses ... Or vice versa - direct forces adhere to conservative models and behavior in sex for fear of themselves. If you think a lot about these offers, then you are not ready for this unheard of endeavor and you are not particularly attracted to it ... Do not think that you will become more modern by agreeing to sexual practice,
I'm curled up.
from the author: I did a threesome with a woman and another man, but I didn't feel anything for the woman. I really love this girl and that's where my worries come from. She claims that if we do it it will be just for the experiment and nothing more, that if we like it we will repeat it anyway. I just don't want to lose her for something like that.
the other day two of them made me happy, the next days are coming again, my boyfriend is very happy, if you are hesitant then you are not up for such things and the chick just wants it ...
Author (6) I am a woman, some time ago I had similar desires, my husband said the same thing - both he was excited by the idea and the thought that someone else would touch me ... his main fear was that our relationship would change. We didn't do it, I didn't raise the issue anymore, and without that I wasn't sure I really wanted it. But with you ... she still wants ... I couldn't make my husband have even a little rougher sex from time to time, at most 5-10 minutes, and he still becomes "my gentle bear" . He says that he used to be rude to others, but he can't be rude to me. And I think you're like him. When you love, you love everywhere - in bed and out of it, you can't "see" her in any other way, to distance yourself from the thought that this is the beloved woman. Therefore, in my opinion, do not, if she continues to insist ... you may have to take the risk, she obviously accepts things in a different way.