Everyone encounters difficulties in life, but not everyone can cope with them !!! I lost a friend who was very dear to me 3 years ago (committed suicide). Since then, nothing is the same, I remember how I found him, what condition he was in, his funeral ... The interesting thing is that over time everything seems to fade, what I remember and will never forget is his face and the pain that was evident on him even dead. From that moment on, not a day goes by without feeling guilty that I didn't help him, that I left him when he needed me. A part of me died that day, as if some of them had torn off half my heart. I will bear this guilt to the end ... I hope that anywhere he will forgive me now ... Don't turn your back on friends in need, sometimes they can be anything ...
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Hello! Your story made me cry. Unlike everything else shared here, it's different, more than pain. I don't know if there is another more appropriate word to describe this human condition. I want to help you. Peace of mind is not easily achieved. But you should not live in guilt. Not all opportunities are sometimes open to us to do what is possible for someone. Forgive yourself! You can't live your whole life in guilt. Today is the so-called Great Asphyxiation. I'm not religious, but somehow I believe that our loved ones who are lost are out there and have forgiven us a long time ago. Light a candle and forgive yourself, forgive them too. No one is to blame, everyone is born alone, he grows spiritually, he goes his own way to meet certain people. He coexists with some, calls others friends or enemies. This is life and everyone carries their karma. You will also find something on the Internet that will calm you down, called the "Three Doors of Wisdom". Dare! You have to go on with your life.
From the author: Thank you for your willingness to help me. The problem is that there are people who blame me for what happened and it breaks my heart. I'm 19 years old, I know you can't bring life back to the heart of a dead person, but that's exactly what kills me, that I can't go back in time. I appeal to everyone who reads my story: Don't delay for tomorrow to tell your friends and relatives how much you love them, how dear they are to you .... tomorrow may be too late ...
; (; (; (I am very sorry for you and for the man you loved so much. If you were not to blame for his death .... try to prove to the person who accuses you that you are innocent. And if the mistake is in you - I will tell you only one thing, no matter how kishy it sounds .... we are human beings and everyone makes mistakes.
I was really touched by your story. M20
From №1. It was his choice. You didn't put an end to it, he wished. Don't let anyone instill guilt in you. Usually people look for the reasons not where they should, because there should always be someone to blame. You just point them to the real reason I guess you know. I don't want to go into details because it will hurt you. You are only 19 and you have already grown up, and you have so much in front of you. You have to fight, sweet girl. You have to ... think about yourself.
Hello. I'm sorry. Touched me. My advice is to see a psychologist. This will help you even gradually. Write if you want me to leave you my email.
Although this man is not alive, he was very lucky because someone loved him so much and continues to love him. You are definitely not to blame for his choice. Everyone is destined to fight with their nature, but not everyone manages to cope. I advise you to forgive yourself first and not care what people think. I wish you success, dear girl. М20 :)