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Tinder And What It "offers"?

By lularoe October 29, 2020 22 answers Last updated October 29, 2020

Hello. :) I've been thinking about using Tinder for a while, but I can't make any impressions on my own. I want to ask: what are yours I would like to say that I am looking for something serious, to what extent is it possible to find it there? Is men only looking for sex alone overnight? Do you have any interesting (or strange) events from first meetings organized thanks to this application? What are the risks? I accept any other answers expressing any opinion. I think that in real life something is lame and I come across the wrong people, so ... at least to try something new. I feel like an unmarried woman at 30 and I'm only 19, haha. : D Thanks to everyone who will take the trouble to answer. I appreciate the efforts of everyone who commented. :)

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2lovinghearts answered · October 29, 2020

   I have been using it for some time, my impression is: 1. It is full of fake profiles 2. Most people use it to scratch their ego 3. There is no way a serious relationship can come out of it 4. Part of the female class are companions From my humble experience learned that yes it is possible to get something from the internet. But there is no more successful way than meeting a person at an event or just on the street and no one can disprove me. You are too young to use this type of dating, given that every day you miss a lot of young people you like, another issue is that social networks have changed the way of dating and everything is currently reserved from direct contact. Because it's easier to see a person's entire life on Facebook alone than to get to know them in real life.

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malu_18 answered · October 29, 2020

   I am a man of 25 and have recently started using it. I didn't get to a meeting, but I'm not super active there either. The idea is that if you like someone's photo, if they also like your photo, the program informs you both that you like each other and only then allows you to write. You can choose how far you want this person to be and what age you want. In general, everyone is looking for sex there, but men say so, and women pretend to be crazy and write like you that they are looking for something serious. Yes. Bulgarian women have too much self-confidence to agree to one night even with someone they like. I have noticed that there are a lot of girls around 18-19, even the program bothers me with them, but I have the feeling that I have nothing to say to women your age and I do not write to them. And let's not forget a woman to write first is = never, so ...

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abcbrisbane answered · October 29, 2020

   I'm also 30, a woman, and I use it for sex, but I don't need anything else right now. Go ahead, there are a lot of attractive men there and in general women are lucky. But don't hope for a second date, at least it didn't happen to me.

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Anna_ashley answered · October 29, 2020

   Hi, I'm your age and I have little experience in this type of communication. See in the application a lot of people are looking for sex overnight, but if you stand your ground and do not give up you will find someone suitable for you. I met my friend on Badoo a year and a half ago and we're still together. Everyone will tell you differently, some have terrible stories from such applications, I for example do not, but I will tell you to be careful because in any situation there are all kinds of crazy men (and women). If it doesn't work out and you don't find a man suitable for you - at least you tried, if it works out - well done. Success!

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babybella1995 answered · October 29, 2020

   Serious relationship from Tinder? !! You serious?

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VipRita answered · October 29, 2020

   I used to use it to look for a serious girlfriend, but that's where I didn't succeed. I met her at another similar online dating site, but something is wrong between us. We don't seem to be for each other and we may break up soon. I'm thinking of using a similar application again, but I'll change my approach. To start with the thought of something serious didn't seem to work well for me, so I think it's better to start with the idea just for sex, and if it happens and we eventually like it, the other will be fine.

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maddistar211 answered · October 29, 2020

   My experience with Tinder as a man is quite disappointing. Not only personally, but also as a social influence. I've been "using" it for a year and a half somewhere (I use it in quotes because it just stays installed on the phone and I open it from time to time). So, at first I had ordinary photos in which I looked normal. I had almost no likes. Then at a sea I took a cool selfie with cool sunglasses, a tank top, bracelets and I don't know what you are and hop ... the likes started coming. Except I haven't changed. It's still me. In the old photos it was me, and in the new ones - it's me again. That is, Tinder is an extremely nasty bastard who makes people even more superficial than they are. So, if you're not a "top" man who is ready to be liked only on the basis of appearance, or a super sex-hungry woman who does not want a serious relationship, like number 3, not worth it. I would like to say that most men like 90% of the women proposed to them, and women - about 10% of the proposed men. That is, the choice is entirely in the hands of women. That's why Tinder is very convenient for women looking for just sex, and it can be said that it stimulates this culture to some extent, which is quite disappointing for me, because women with a large number of sexual partners are usually not decent and do not become serious about relationships. And even though I had likes (even super likes) ... we hardly wrote to each other. My very idea is dull, empty, heartless ... I haven't dated a girl from Tinder, that it somewhat stimulates this culture, which is quite disappointing to me, because women with a large number of sexual partners are usually not decent and do not become serious about relationships. And even though I had likes (even super likes) ... we hardly wrote to each other. My very idea is dull, empty, heartless ... I haven't dated a girl from Tinder, that it stimulates this culture to some extent, which is quite disappointing for me, because women with a large number of sexual partners are usually not decent and do not become serious about relationships. And even though I had likes (even super likes) ... we hardly wrote to each other. My very idea is dull, empty, heartless ... I haven't dated a girl from Tinder,

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asian_sweettchelse answered · October 29, 2020

   I've been to a number of meetings with men from Tinder. There are also decent men who are looking for a serious relationship, but are massively divided into 1) unassuming men who are only looking for sex, but can not find through real communication and use Tinder for this 2) cool men looking for sex who want to gets through real communication, but after sex they will not look for you 3) normal men (not bad appearance, profession, blah blah), who, however, are emotionally broken for some reason and can not form any normal relationship At least I I have come across such. There were also decent ones that didn't work, just because we didn't like each other. It depends on what you are looking for. If it's just sex, with absolutely no expectations after that, you can easily find men 10 out of 10 with whom to pump up your self-confidence and have a good time. It's also for dating, a boy and I met from there, we didn't like each other as a man-woman, but we became friends and saw each other from time to time. For a serious relationship, however ... it is not impossible, but rather a matter of luck and strong nerves. If you put in enough effort and you don't get bored after the first month, it can happen. My girlfriend has been with a boy from Tinder for two years now, they even live together. Another few meetings he hit a rock, gave up and returned to the former. One caveat: as everywhere on the Internet, people are lying on Tinder. Somehow, through smartphones, we have become less cautious than before and we trust each other more easily, we meet the person faster ... Keep in mind that the person you meet can tell you everything, but often there is no way to check if it is true because you have no common acquaintances. I had met an amazing man, really very handsome, smart and in his words - successful. He took me to two rather expensive places, which confirmed his words. I was fascinated by his demeanor, not only by the money, but we like him intellectually. He had told me a lot about himself, and at one point, quite by accident, he shone the fact that he was a swindler and wanted by the police. What he had told me was not true. He didn't understand that I understood, I blocked him everywhere and I didn't look for him anymore. Maybe I'm naive too, but beware, because there are all kinds. He didn't understand that I understood, I blocked him everywhere and I didn't look for him anymore. Maybe I'm naive too, but beware, because there are all kinds. He didn't understand that I understood, I blocked him everywhere and I didn't look for him anymore. Maybe I'm naive too, but beware, because there are all kinds.

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timmi_wants_c2c answered · October 29, 2020

   The mass of girls from there, with whom I communicated, filled their time. Or I come across psychopaths. Once and to a 38-year-old prostitute ... With each entry I hope to coincide with a girl who is not there for the adventure, but alas ...

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eltoromarplatense answered · October 29, 2020

   What serious relationship was there in Tinder? There are no normal sex in Tinder, let alone a serious relationship. Believe me, I have profiles on most dating pages and so far I only know a fairly normal one. Tinder is to have fun and waste your time. Just see and have sex if you see a normal man. Don't expect anything else.

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mushfiqurofficial answered · October 29, 2020

   I met my fiancée there, but honestly it's a bit rare to find a serious person there.

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aleksa_feeels answered · October 29, 2020

   Almost everyone there is only looking for sex, so it's not a good place to look for a serious relationship. Otherwise, I guess you will like the application itself. Being a young girl will literally be flooded with likes and you will have a very large selection.

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sam_n_emilly answered · October 29, 2020

   Abe has all kinds of people out there, not just for one-time relationships. I also had the app, and I wasn't going to cheat on my wife, but out of curiosity. And yes, there are certainly decent men, but if you come across one, you're in luck.

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bothsex4u answered · October 29, 2020

   27 years old, a man from Sofia. Tinder is very successful for women. All men in Tinder are there for real meetings, whether just for sex or for a serious relationship. No man is there to kill his time or for new friendships. For men it is not much on offer. There are very few women there, and a large percentage of them kill their time and do not look for real meetings. Very few are there for relationship or sex. It is no different from dating sites. To tie something from there you have to invest time and money. I got to meetings, but I wasn't fascinated by girls and I didn't look for them anymore. There is also the fact that then my ex-boyfriend called me to see me for sex. If she hadn't done so, I would have continued to go out with them just for sex, because after the meetings in question, my opinion of them dropped a lot. But given that I already had sex at the table, continuing the relationship with them seemed pointless to me because none of them was for a serious relationship. For women, everyone will find whatever they are looking for in Tinder, for men, 1 in 10.

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doxie answered · October 30, 2020

   I've been using it for about a month and I had a brief relationship with a boy, but things didn't work out. I personally follow one basic rule - I give a match almost entirely only to boys with a description, whether any information about their interests. If it's just a photo, very rarely, because for me appearance is not so important. Sometimes I write 1st, if I have shown interest in the boy and the behavior, etc., you can see what he is looking for.

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barelybea answered · October 30, 2020

   Many people use it, myself included. Download it, try it and if you don't like it just delete it. There are also cool people there, and those who are looking for sex can be seen for miles with their nude photos and rude behavior. Success!

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_iqra_mirza_0 answered · October 30, 2020

   I found a serious relationship there, no matter how unbelievable. But before that I went out on more than ten dates for sure. He who seeks finds with me. Success!

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joepatrick90 answered · October 30, 2020

   If you look pretty decent, be prepared to get "likes" per pound every day. Tinder is kind to women and harsh to men, unless he looks like Brad Pitt, a man would be disappointed with the app. I have a troll profile there, with a dumb picture and a witty description, I guess I don't need to say that so far I've had a single match of the nearly 100 "likes" I've posted. I know men with normal photos who have liked hundreds of profiles and haven't had a match so far.

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princesstohim answered · October 30, 2020

   The general opinion is that she is a young and very beautiful woman who will not go out with anyone from Tinder, let alone looking for sex, but I am an example and I am not the only one listening to the feedback of my colleagues in the offices of the company where I work. I am a girl of 25, I am currently graduating in medicine. In the application I found the dream lover with an athletic figure, beautiful, potent and very gifted, there is nothing to lie about, all women watch porn and are distorted as ideas about size and try to pursue this standard. As soon as I received a match with him and from his profile I knew that we would reach a meeting. Mass women meet the same men, so the rest of the men unfortunately have no chance and the choice is entirely in the hands of women. I wasn't looking for other sex partners on Tinder, because with this one I got everything at once, otherwise I have other contacts and guys with whom we write, we have common interests and something more serious can happen. I also told my friend very nice about my sexual exploits from Tinder and who I met and we got confused, when we realized that we were both with the same, which is difficult to achieve for Sofia, but it proves my above statement, that women are hellishly selective and get more or less the same.

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pauldcmdvi answered · October 30, 2020

   We have been together for a year and a half, we have been living together for 3 months. Last year I was at the wedding of a couple from Tinder. The colleague buys an engagement ring for the Tinder girl. I recommend! : д

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pramukagantengcantik answered · October 31, 2020

   As for "Tinder", few people probably know that this platform is actually supported by a group of divorced or unsuccessful love feminists, whose goal is to instill strong inequalities in dating between men and women using the program of the same name. It is no coincidence that former employees of this company subsequently created two competing programs, where such deliberate crap is missing. Overall assessments of the benefits of Tinder as a successful dating broker have plummeted in the last two years, precisely because of the aforementioned feminism. I have read several articles about the scandals in this company and it has always been fun to read how foreigners (men) from all over the world tell their stories under the articles. I advise you to watch this video, which illustrates where the problem is in "Tinder"

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adamuuus answered · October 31, 2020

   I use tinder for fun or sex, or both. I am a woman a little over 25. When I am in Bulgaria I am liked mainly by the locals and Romanians, most of them with nicknames like Joro Lyubimetsa, and for this reason I close my account. I activate it abroad, far from the Zhorovs with their own businesses, which inflate my head in various cafes. Somehow, meeting versatile men, different from the experience with previous ones, gives me more pleasure. Not everything in this application has the idea of ​​coffee and sex.