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Tinder Only For Sex.

By amandamanopo September 21, 2020 11 answers Last updated September 21, 2020

Hi, I'm a boy of about 25, good looking, but I'm not interested in serious relationships, I just want sex. Well, I've been using Tinder lately and I've noticed that all Bulgarian women either pretend to be pinched or really don't just look for sex. All over the world tinder is used almost only for sex, and here you are supposed to chat, for serious relationships, etc. My question is if you are a woman do you use tinder only for sex, and if you are men, did you succeed you are to find a woman just for sex in tinder without unnecessary chats, bypassing, etc.

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urtoficial answered · September 21, 2020

   In my opinion, most women know that men in tinder expect sex.

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crystals_luxe_fashions answered · September 21, 2020

   Women never look for "sex only". The consciousness of the modern woman is formed by evolution through natural selection. Men who seek sex with casual partners "just for one night" have left more heirs than those who were strictly monogamous. That's why their male children are looking for casual sex in Tinder. Women who had casual sex risked becoming pregnant and then raising their children on their own because no man wants to raise someone else's child or marry a woman who already has a child. Therefore, these women did not have many heirs, and in future generations the gene that predisposes a woman to have indiscriminate sex "overnight" has not spread. Women choose their partners carefully. They are looking for people who can help them raise their children.

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mays_day answered · September 21, 2020

   I'm a woman - I don't have a tinder, but my friend had it and suffered twice. She was looking for a serious relationship, and both times her husbands promised it. In the end, it was all over in about two months, that is, until they got what they wanted. In the meantime, she was dating others who at least felt that there could be nothing serious. However, these two idiots lied to her cruelly / within 1-2 years, not to decide that immediately /. My friend suffered a lot of humiliation and lies. Now she is afraid to trust a man. Just be honest and candid with the women you date. Tell them you just want sex and let them decide. Just don't take down stars just to have sex and then ruin a man. My friend became deeply depressed after an oligophrenic and has since become extremely negative and unhappy. Just don't do it to someone.

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zonobia_khan answered · September 21, 2020

   I used tinder and it wasn't for sex. :)

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elaanna answered · September 21, 2020

   I'm a woman and I don't understand what it means just for sex, I recently created a profile on a dating site, not in Tinder, but similar and I get different messages, but they seem absurd to me. Either I'm wrong or all these men ...…. I don't know if it's normal for a stranger to write me "hello, what are you looking for here, if you're interested I can give you pleasure" or the clichéd "dinner, cinema, sex" as the first message from a stranger. I once asked someone with this cliché , did anyone get involved and he said that he stabbed a lot of women this way.I don't understand how I could do it with a complete stranger .... it's like we're stray animals instead of people with feelings.I personally hoped to meet someone , with whom to share, to write about meaningful things and if we like to see each other in time, but men are too impatient. I guess most of them have connections and that's why they are not interested in getting to know the person. Personally, I was very disappointed with this type of sites, if I wanted to listen to all these clichéd expressions I get from them I would just go to a restaurant, and I thought that meeting more people is likely to meet different types.

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inese_lee answered · September 21, 2020

   5, no types! The clients of this type of sites are only one, maximum 2 types (complete scumbags or sex maniacs). It has to be someone like you, come in for the first time, and make the connection. But don't you remember the probability of that? It is no coincidence that people meet live, and it is best if they are part of a group, company, team ...

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bajan_canadian answered · September 22, 2020

   From the author: I personally do not use clichéd phrases, but in the interest of truth I see no other way to be better than them. In Tinder, a woman uploaded 2-3 nude photos. The man too. Emmy what a fruitful conversation you expect to happen. When I start an interesting and fruitful conversation, only I write, they always answer me, but if I stop writing and it's over. And they always hint to me that serious men are looking for serious relationships. Except that serious men don't have the nerve or time to get the words out of your mouth with a chingle every day, and you to pretend to be crazy. PP: I don't have a relationship and I don't want one. What's the problem with just having sex. There are protective means, we are a big forest. I often don't know how you have nerves and time for serious relationships in today's hectic daily life. PP2:

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carachatwin answered · September 22, 2020

   Here in Bulgaria the situation is different, on the one hand women are considered "liberated" like those in the west, but on the other hand they still want to be treated in a special way. Liberalism is a very bad thing, but at least in the West there are positive sides - women there are proactive, open and take down men themselves and do not take much. This is not the case here, liberalism has all its shortcomings, but without any positive aspects. Here women are waiting for you again, pretending to be pinched, they do not know and have not heard of sex, they want you to invest time, feelings and emotions in them without them committing to anything. Tinder is known everywhere as a quick dating app, only here it is distorted to look for "serious connections".

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your_cookie_ answered · September 22, 2020

   I'm number 5 again, I received a lot of messages in one day and I didn't want to answer them all, for the reasons already listed, so apparently most of them said to themselves, I now have to take the words out with a hook. My point is that you don't come across women who are only looking for sex and that's why they don't write to you. There may be some, but it's hard to find. It's good that you wrote what you are looking for. Usually with very nude photos they take an hour, but this is an option for you.

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stormen answered · September 23, 2020

   I am a very good looking girl, 19 years old and I registered on Tinder precisely in order to find a man older than me with whom to recreate all my sexual fantasies. I found it only after about a month and a half of searching among hundreds of photos, Sofia is still a big city, but it was worth every second when we met ...

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daisyslut64 answered · September 23, 2020

   I can't understand this Tinder doesn't allow me to send messages .... he wants money .. and there are so many subscribers .. something I don't understand ..