Hello! I will briefly tell you what it is about. My best friend told me that he was in love with me and that he wanted us to be more than just friends. He was depressed until recently because of another girl and family problems and now I think he's feeling a lot better lately (apparently after realizing this) and I'm wondering what to do. He told me that even if we broke up, he could still be my friend, as he had tried with his ex, but she did not want to. He told me to think and if I refuse him, everything will be as before, if I accept, I don't know ... I'm very confused because I soon ended a long relationship and I need support, but I haven't forgotten it yet. I feel lonely and I don't know what to do. Please help! Thanks in advance! :) :) :) :) :)
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In my opinion, don't accept ... I don't think it will work ... You are used to behaving like friends, not like lovers ... I tell you from personal experience :), because my best friend and I we tried
Well, you've heard that it's best between friends. I personally am currently dating the boy who has been my best friend for 3 years. We have been together as boyfriends for a year and a half. So if you feel something for him, go for it. This is my advice. Good luck whatever you decide.
Try it and you will hardly regret it! Apparently he loves you very much, at the same time you yourself said that he feels better than he realized Zanchi really loves you, and you feel lonely too! There is nothing to lose! He loves you so much that if it doesn't work out you will keep your friendship! Write about the result if it turns out that I am in the opposite situation - I assumed that I fell in love with my best friend! Good luck!
People, please give me more opinions, because it is very important to me and I am terribly confused. Thank you girls for the comments. But I really don't know which one of you is right. So please help ...
I am a 45-year-old woman with a lot of life experience. How old are you, so I can decide what to advise you? There are different options for the situation and the exact recipe is unlikely to be found. If you are very young 15-18 years. bet on friendship, not intimate relationships. And if there is a thrill between you, know that unconsumed love is the strongest.
It says a man. You have nothing to worry about and wait for.
I did it with a person I cared about, and I felt close. Now I don't know whether to regret what happened. We do not maintain any relationship. I don't even know how it is? I dare not call him. He behaves quite rudely. Almost always when I call he is very busy. It hurt me because I thought he understood me. It turned out that he was like all men. I wanted to stay friends. Before that happened, I told him that our relationship would not be the same. But this man can really hold on to you. Listen to your heart. If it wants it, go for it.
Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it :)
I'm married to my best friend but I don't know if he likes me ... I know he's a boy worth fighting for but I don't know if he likes me. The decision is yours but look at it from such a side .. you soon broke up with a boy you obviously won't have anymore .. if this is your best friend, he's obviously a good boy .. a little decent left me to do it You know ... I don't think you should miss your chance
I advise you not to do it! I have already lost 2 very close friends with whom I have no desire to have any relationship, as well as they with me. And all because of some funny relationship. And I had 2 girls on whom I relied a lot and they supported me for everything. But it didn't work out with both of them, then there were mutual attacks and accusations, who gave what for the relationship and what he took, from which nothing good came out. At most, to lose this person's friendship because of a relationship that I don't see how it will turn out. You had a long relationship, he suffered too. Why don't you just go to bed together, I've heard that it helps with love pain. And don't get into an immediate relationship :) Good luck!
No. You have not overcome the former. It will not happen that way. Especially since you don't have such feelings for this friend of yours ... If there is chemistry between you and feelings ... you can think about it, but carefully. Is it worth endangering your friendship, even though he told you it would be the same - it doesn't always happen.