If you want to skip my "background", go straight to the 3rd paragraph. With this story, I want to share my "experience" and at least make those who act without thinking about what it would cost others. I am a girl, 17 years old. I did well in school, but my communication with classmates, teachers and other people in general has always been terrible. I don't have friends, I don't talk to people unless we have to say something to each other. At first glance, it seems that it is not something serious - people do not like me and what of it, I will not try to like them by force. But over time, that started to affect me very badly. After they started behaving obviously negatively towards me, for example, as I stood across from some girls to start looking at me, whispering something and laughing; or the boy which passes by friends and shouts at them "Look at her, what is ugly." You can take as an example the girl who says that I had great self-confidence and where it came from, and I am neither mocking anyone nor anything. Because of their taunts, I started looking for the reasons and every time I found a problem in myself - that I was ugly, stupid, that I shouldn't be human, that I was a complete failure when everyone made friends, and I was always neglected - the school outsider. When someone needed to boost their self-esteem, they always attacked me. I didn't know why that made me even angrier. I didn't want to go to school. When they made fun of me, when I came home I looked in the mirror for hours, thinking what was wrong with me. At one point I decided to go on a self-study, but then I started to feel like the teachers didn't like me and I wanted to drop out of education altogether. I got up in the morning, I didn't feel like doing anything, I just thought about what a failure I was, I thought about all the 'flaws' I had and how, even if I wanted to, I couldn't change them. It was the same before I went to bed. It has happened to everyone to fall in love. That feeling was awful to me. If I liked someone in the second second, I already knew that I had no chance with this person, I didn't find any sense in being in love. I didn't want him to make fun of me either. I started avoiding people just so I wouldn't force my ugly face on them and spoil their mood. Somehow I lost the meaning to do what I loved to do. As a "hobby" I only listen to music, and before I painted, I liked to watch different movies, dance, play sports. I was suffering from depression maybe, I haven't mentioned it to anyone. I got up in the morning, went to school, came back, had dinner, went to bed - the other days the same. I ate only once a day. I lost weight, I threatened even more. A few days when I ate I vomited after 5 minutes, then I gave up eating. But that didn't help either, it felt like I was going to vomit, but I couldn't help but leave me. It was hard for me to get out of bed, I wanted to fall asleep and not feel sick, but I couldn't. I went to the doctor, got better and already started living a healthier lifestyle. But the feeling that I was rejected by everyone did not leave me and now every time I see people I avoid them and I want the conversation to end as soon as possible, if there is one. If the moderators approve of this post and read my story, I hope you understand how one person feels when rejected by others. How does it feel like, when everyone makes fun of you without you pushing them with anything. And there are more severe cases of ridicule than mine. No one can know how a person will react to such events and what pressure he is under from others. So before you make fun of someone, think about the consequences. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that, for example, by calling someone fat, you are encouraging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. And there are more severe cases of ridicule than mine. No one can know how a person will react to such events and what pressure he is under from others. So before you make fun of someone, think about the consequences. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that, for example, by calling someone fat, you are urging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. And there are more severe cases of ridicule than mine. No one can know how a person will react to such events and what pressure he is under from others. So before you make fun of someone, think about the consequences. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that, for example, by calling someone fat, you are urging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. No one can know how a person will react to such events and what pressure he is under from others. So before you make fun of someone, think about the consequences. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that, for example, by calling someone fat, you are encouraging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. No one can know how a person will react to such events and what pressure he is under from others. So before you make fun of someone, think about the consequences. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that by calling someone fat, for example, you are urging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that by calling someone fat, for example, you are urging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. The person you are making fun of may look strong, but don't be fooled by his appearance. There is no way to know that, for example, by calling someone fat, you are urging them to start a diet that can bring them a problem. But this ignorance of yours does not change the result. Would you accept that you are the reason for this? Probably not. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days. So don't make fun of anyone. I have experienced it on my back and I tell you it is awful, this feeling is awful. It can leave deep scars and is not something that goes away in a few hours or days.
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I know what it is! I go this way, although in my case I have real girlfriends and the taunts are lighter! But no one can fuck with your character and appearance! After all, it's you and everyone deserves happiness! It's their mother!
That's right. Throughout my life I haven't stopped doing good, to be resourceful, to sympathize with people, to help with what I can, to respond when there is a problem, to give my best ... NOO ... people start to accept this not as a gift, but as a gift and start to fuck, to make fun of you behind your back, to laugh at you, to think that you will always be by their side ... at the same time they start to think that you are a fool ... but NO! People are perverted and look to live day by day, to have cigarettes, coffee, beer and something to fuck. I am not a flower to smell and I have made many mistakes, I have harmed people, but I have certainly helped many times over. And I'm tired of that, and when you talk differently, they tell you "as long as you pretend to be smart", "are you pretending to be a professor" ... and things like that ... and when they start to tease you and take you for an appetizer and you tell them something, be it bullshit or insult (in response to their stupidity) and they get angry with you :). And when you start to be silent, there are the jokes "but are you angry with me", "did I offend you with something", "if you need something, say something", etc. People became pathetic. There are units of decent people. There are, but they are few, alone at home, rejected by society. When you think about it, you always have someone to go out with and drink a beer or a coffee, to go for a walk, but it sucks when the people around you or your friends betray you and start taking you for granted, and don't give you importance. And to laugh at your every misfortune. Let's face it ... people have become rubbish! So ... if we want to exist we have to be like them or at least create another "I" for society, so we can be among him. And here I'm not just talking about the friendly environment and the company we go out with, but I mean in an educational environment, work, business, etc :). In short, if I give you advice, it will be such that you are like people and respond in the way they treat you! Regards, Uzunov
Well, that's right. But they don't understand until they experience it for themselves. Let them gain experience from so many "friends". : D Then they will learn a lesson. I'm glad for you that you've improved, don't create complexes because of these 5-year-olds. Success! ; 3 Gwen
Yes, it's exactly the same for me and I'm 17. I say every day that it will be different and I won't care, but alas, it doesn't happen that way. It's ugly to make fun of you and know nothing about you. And if you are one who is easily affected, even worse for you ... about friends, better without them, if they will be hypocrites. Even a boy can be your best friend, but it depends on him, he may just want to use ... but nowadays you obviously have to take care of yourself and rely on yourself, there is no one to help and everyone is watching to humiliate and mock you. I have already resigned myself, not that I have seen anything from the life of 17, but I'm tired of ridicule and ruin my self-esteem, it will not be there anyway: D It is best not to care and do what we like. I know what is wrong with you, because it continues to happen to me and I am convinced that it is the same in the future, not for you, but for me.
I personally am not interested in such drummers. Years ago I was a target of some idiots, if I see them again (I was abroad for over a year) they will be very sorry. These people only want to feed their self-esteem through other people's misfortune, no matter how stupid it may be. I doubt that most bullied people are ugly or have some very bad qualities. The problem with me was that I put up with them too much, I had thousands of opportunities, but ... then I didn't have enough courage - now I'm not like that and I will seek my rights in any way. Envious people are angry that you have succeeded and are trying to bring you to the bottom. My advice to others who are victims of these idiots: Don't let them crush you, seek your rights legally or physically. Silence and standing will not solve the problem, it will only slow it down. Groups of 4-5 boys were organized to beat me, after the "preparation" someone left with bruises on their eyes. They begged for help from my uncle and "kaka" that they had broken their big mouth. Such liglevtsi should not be tolerated, they should be pressed in some way.
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Uzunov thank you brother, just your post is exactly this or something like that I would write, I'm glad that there are people in my position and I'm like you and I feel the same way among "friends" from the teacher and sometimes I have no desire to communicate with them and in general a lot of naughty work. It's a pity I don't know people like you and not hypocritical and stupid people who use you when they see that you are kind and they take it for granted. Whenever I say something, no one takes me seriously or everyone is silent and pretends I haven't said anything. The society has become very naughty, I have tried to be and I, like the others, do not succeed, I am just like that by birth and there is no way to change.
And they hate me wherever I am. In time, I came to the conclusion that people who are ridiculed inwardly have turned green with envy. Don't care about the opinion of others.
Number 7, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. I'm really glad we think alike. Even if a person like you hears me, my writing of the comment and the outpouring of thoughts is not in vain. The things I wrote to you are 100 percent true and I have been wondering for a long time why this is so ... I always ask myself the question "WHY" did this happen ... But I can't answer. Well, if I could answer, things probably wouldn't have gone that way, but that's the way it is. When I started to have fun and stopped calling the people in question, they broke my phone from ringing, constantly asking me if I was angry and constantly wanting to see me ... I can't understand them. People do NOT understand well. This is ... Too bad, really. Regards, Uzunov
From comment number 7 to comment number 9. This is how humanity is lost in people, everyone looks at an object on you when they see that you listen to them or that you agree with them just so they don't take offense and then they think that your quota is always they say you will do whatever movie they want you to watch and you have to watch it without objection, that's why I hate anymore and I don't want to be friends with such people because they have a subject almost. They don't respect your opinion and when they complain to me, I listen to them, give them advice and see what I can do to help, and then if I need something, guess what they are not interested in, nothing related to me, whether you have a problem or something else. It's just that for me this is not a friendship but a user friendship. As they say, make a good meal l .... And what's going on, everyone has to become a heartless and insensitive egoist and hypocrite in order to have friends and behave badly with them in order to be respected ?? It is no coincidence that the most disgusting people I know have the most friends .... but what can I tell you Uzunov we must behave and that's it. Greetings _ (ThE L W0lF) _
Don't worry :) I used to be quite open. My character was disgusting. I loved to fuck with others, to insult and trample them, and it seemed to give me pleasure. Every insult filled a void in myself. No one dared to oppose me. They flattered me, they wanted to be my friends, but they were just afraid of me. They never insulted me. Not just because they were worried about the consequences. I was quite beautiful, thin, tall, beautiful hair, beautiful eyes. But as you know, everything comes back sooner or later. For a short period of time I was left alone .. I thought, a lot about myself. And I tried to change. It was good that he was my appearance, that otherwise I wouldn't have found a friend. At the moment I am happy, with an amazing boy next to me. I have not lost a drop of my self-confidence. I made loyal friends. I graduated with honors. Sooner or later you have to realize. If I hadn't done it, I would have failed. People like open people dear. I wish you success and do not give up! Everyone has been through difficult times, life is ahead of you! I really want to meet, but unfortunately I no longer live in Bulgaria. :)
Thank you very much for what you wrote. This has been happening to me right now ... actually for years! I will be in ninth grade this year and I hope things get better!