Hi :) I'm an 18 year old girl, so is my boyfriend. We have been together for about 6 months, before that we were just friends for a long time. He lives in another city and since we met on the Internet, our people are distrustful and want to meet him, but not only because of that, but also because things between us are serious. Well, I want to ask you to give me advice on how to make their acquaintance successful, to convince them that he is a decent boy and they can trust him, so that they let me go to different places, for example to go at sea this summer. Also, it will sound funny, but some recommendations on how not to think that I have some freaks or something for parents lol. Give advice, etc. how everything goes great and they like him a lot, as he likes them :) Please you :)
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Well, I think it would be best to be in neutral territory - for example, to go to a pastry shop and then for a walk in the park. Otherwise, in a guest house, it seems to me that it will be more rigid, uncomfortable and engaging. But it depends on the people, talk to him, with yours and understand each other.
If he is a decent boy you have no problem, introduce him to yours and they will see that he is serious, do not worry. Good luck.
There is nothing special they have to do: D. Just behaving normally and everything will go well is not something who knows what
From the author: Well, there are summer cafes next to us, it's nice there, I thought we would sit there .. I will meet him, we will be a little only 2, then we will sit with ours and then probably for some time we will be only 2, but I haven't met a friend of ours so far, because I haven't had a serious relationship, and I care about him more than anything and I want their meeting to go smoothly, for them to like him (they are very old-fashioned, especially my father, he needs mostly to like him) .. to see that he is decent and they can trust him, to let me go freely with him wherever we want, this summer we want to go to sea together and so on .. :) If do you have any advice or something that can help me, for example what topics to talk about or do I know, write please, I'm worried about this meeting, I want each other to like each other :)
I don't think the idea of being in a cafe or a park is good. You don't have to worry so much. Invite him to your house for lunch or dinner. Don't think that your parents won't be worried about this meeting either. If they are sociable and relaxed, the meeting will go well. You have to be the main navigator so to speak :) Eat at home, talk and then he will leave.