People will go crazy, help me .. The story is this: I've been dealing with a boy for a long time, we were too young when we met .. We cheated on each other many times, most often he, mine was in vain. Recently we live together and every time we go out somewhere we fight because he looks at other girls .. When I say he looks, it's not just to look, but too special a look. Example: we are sitting somewhere with our acquaintances to drink coffee. There are boys without girlfriends at the table with us..there are also boys with girlfriends .. We all talk and everyone looks at their plate and raises their cup .. Only my friend is looking for eye contact with the waitress, they are looking at each other .. This super me I talked to him several times and he told me that maybe he is wrong because he often watches porn and has a problem, he is sorry and says that it will not happen again .. We go out for the second time .. He looks again, looking for eye contact .. I talk to him again and we get to a scandal .. He tells me you are very stupid .. When I look, am I with you, I am with you! What was the problem .. He was just watching, was he like that, should he look at boys, etc. I ask myself the question .. Well, am I too jealous .. I look at the other boys in our company, even those who are without girlfriends they don't do that .. They don't look down, they don't look with their eyes ..... I tell myself I won't talk about it anymore, I won't be annoyed, but no .. After a while the same story again ... We sit down somewhere, some girls dp us, he stared at one and does not stop looking at her .. I do not tell him that this is the problem, but I open old topics and look for reasons to quarrel, kills me to raise a scandal, I can not keep quiet .. And this happens often already .. Every day we started arguing over and over again. We don't even go out together anymore. He has no desire, neither I nor he .. We do not tolerate, but we do not part .. He constantly repeats how much he loves me, but this attraction does not bother him much, because if I'm not with him outside and it happens I'm sure that will start flirting with someone else without a problem ...
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Do you realize how stupid you are? And that your relationship has no future? Separate and do not waste your time.
He's with you just so he won't be alone. Once I take them off in front of you, I don't care what it's like when you're gone, and given that he cheated on you, I don't know what you expect from this man. The only question is how much longer you will endure it.
I'm a man, but I think it's offensive. I also stare, it's normal. But it's one thing to look discreetly, it's another to make such insulting comments, to look for eye contact and to make complexes of your girlfriend. Well, if I'm in your shoes, I won't be humiliated by such a relationship at all.
Sorka, but this man doesn't love you. I say this as a man who has always watched other women, talked to other women while in a relationship. Until the moment I was with such a woman, beyond which I had no eyes, I had no desire ... Women should be loved by their husbands in this way. And not to ruin your nerves ... the problem is that you like to ruin your nerves and feel unwanted, because then you go "crazy" and you will do everything in your power to prove to him, to yourself and to the whole universe, that you do not deserve such treatment and you deserve more. Brother.
Bratancho may be a villager, but in this case he is right and he said it very well.
You are so stupid. Black Sabbath
Dude, you hit the top ten pretty often! Not a small part of your comments are covered by my views. I'm slightly running away from the topic / I've been going to meet you in some xD for a while /, but which set are you?
Wait now, so you mean you cheated on yourself, but you did it in vain? What does many times mean? Does this seem normal to you or am I not an hour? Only this sentence crushed me, and yet I read the whole outpouring. Don't take offense, but just throw it away. Such loves with many infidelities do not seem adequate to me. He and mine are staring, but even if he is looking for contacts, wait, he still can't fit my head. If you think this relationship has a future, I'm sorry, but it doesn't. It's not my job, I rarely comment on topics, let alone interfere in people's relationships, but that's right ... It really doesn't give him the honor to do it, but if you say that he cheated on you, and not once, what do you expect? ? It's rare for a man to cheat and then realize the mistake, I don't even know if he ever meets one. Obviously it's in his blood to do it and he won't stop, as soon as it pierces your eyes, a big bye and everyone on their way. Good luck and smart! F, 20
Brother is cool. We went out together. Black Sabbath
I just want to say that comment 6 is not mine and I am sorry that the author came across such a man. Black Sabbath (real)
And please publish my comments, I would not write such a thing to a woman in such a situation, because tomorrow I may be in her place, I do not even know why such a comment was published. Aren't hate comments posted? Black Sabbath (real)
He doesn't love you. It's simple and clear. Shovel them like that.
Wow, what nonsense you are poisoning your life with! Well, girl, blindfold him, stick a band-aid on his mouth, wrap his legs and arms with a rope and drag him with you like a poodle! He will watch, boy, of course, why not watch? When you grow up, author, you will understand that you have to run like the devil from incense from men who do NOT look at women (but then there will be no topic "Why doesn't he have sex with me?"). A normal, healthy, full and mentally healthy man must look at and court the opposite sex. If he doesn't, then he has something.
I just want to say that I am the real Black Sabbath and I am upset that someone wants to introduce themselves to me and not take my opinion into account. This is not hate. I ask the moderators to approve my comment. The real Black Sabbath
Once you've cheated on yourself more than once, this relationship is for nothing. "I cheated on him," the dumbest thing you can do. I don't know how old you are, nor do I care, know how much you cost, if someone cheats on you, then they are not happy with you, it's time to separate, it's not as if you were going to get married. Separate. Good luck, all the best and just know that infidelity proves what a rag you are, don't step on that level.
Separate. When left alone, he will not be interested in doing so.