I'm just asking, did you love someone who didn't love you? Even though you knew he didn't care about you, he was just wasting your time. When you have been neglected and rejected. I think love is poison, it only brings pain and disappointment. It turns you into another person, weak-willed and reluctant. What do you think?
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Love is up to time. There is always good and bad, it's up to you which country you prefer. And subconscious psychic trampling is only because you are causing it. I have talked to people in a similar relationship several times and my conclusion has always been one. Lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, usually most accept it lightly and continue.
Love is a great feeling, with it everything is easy, if there is a difficulty it is to help you realize something, but then obviously it will not be your great love. I know what it's like to want someone certain to be special, because this is the last person we've really had strong feelings for. But this is simply not love, unfortunately, the sooner a person realizes it for himself the better. This does not mean to stop thinking, but to understand that it will be until you meet this love in which there will not be so many natural signs because it is transient.
I do not agree with you. What you are describing is not love. He is not loved on merit. Love is when things happen without effort, without conditions, without expectations. Don't hold anyone else responsible for your feelings, which are anything but love. You are small, you have time, success!
Yes, I loved such people. It hurts a lot, but I already know that it all made sense. These people were exactly what I dreamed of as appearance, hobbies, character ... and everything! It turned out, however, that this type of people are not at all compatible with me and my character, and it's really better that they didn't love me back and we didn't start a relationship on a much deeper level.
It happens all the time, experience it ... childish things
no, this is not love. not love in general, but you put yourself in a position to be weak and involuntary. it is ego and self-winding, unwillingness to admit to yourself that you made the wrong choice. accept that this time you did not succeed, we have all made unsuccessful choices, learn from your mistakes and move on.
Love is disappointment only when it is not shared. Do not waste your time and feelings in such love, look for each other and then you will not think it is poison. The bad news is that one has to be very patient until one meets true love. It doesn't just happen that way, unless you're terribly lucky.