The title says it all :) The question is for men! We are talking about women who have invested a lot of time and effort in their education, speak foreign languages fluently, are well-read, but most of all are successful in their work in traditionally male professions such as business, economics, computers, etc. and makes stable money (maybe more than you). Let's say that such a woman will look decent, but by no means perfect because there is no time for presses and make-up. She will have an opinion, she will defend it, she will argue with you and she will be equal to you (she will even be areas where she is better than you). Is this a plus or a minus for you? Do you want successful and strong women? Or do you prefer more humble, more traditionally feminine, but also more ... stupid ladies?
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Personally, I do not like such women, precisely because my ex decided to choose her own interest and career over love and a stable relationship, we broke up (started working in the police). I am definitely FOR the "more humble" and, if you will, "conservative" women
This is a common case for many women ... From my point of view, I can say that men have a different attitude towards women - they are not so much interested in their social success, but in the woman as a woman. This sometimes irritates women with such success, because they think that by achieving social success, she stands higher in the list of desired women. I guess this comes from the female value system for men - socially successful men are very desirable. Men don't care so much about how women are placed in society - they are mainly interested in a woman's appearance and character, one kind - I compete with other men outside the home, I want harmony at home - and it is difficult to achieve when the one next to you has priority for official duties to the family. I have witnessed such connections falling apart, because the man did not agree to play him against the background of his girlfriend's professional ambitions. This does not mean that such women are not to be respected, simply because they are often driven by an inner sense of insecurity giving their best to prove themselves professionally, which means that resources such as time and energy go to the interest of the profession, not the the person next to you. Sometimes children and families are sacrificed in the name of ambition, not to mention the extremes of very ambitious women - relationships for career advancement. This irritates and offends men, because it denies their role in a relationship - like sleeping with a colleague ... Of course, there will be men without their own ambitions or parasites, for whom this will be convenient, but not many who would they easily accepted the idea that their wife was paying their bills.
I was impressed by the last words of the author. Often a woman emphasizes that she is smart. Then comes the truth - that she is educated, which is very different from being smart. Education gives you the opportunity for a good job or career, but the intellect shows how you cope with life ... Looking at the idiotic decisions that some women make about their lives - and women with education, languages, seen the world, and I say to myself - that they are educated but dumb ...
It's nice to be confident, but it doesn't do you much good. If you rely on beauty, I must disappoint you. A man who is looking for a beautiful woman is looking for her among 20-25 year olds. You are at least 30 with this education and career. Literacy is the last thing that will delight him. Look, your money will attract. There are many men who interest them. Success!
I'm a woman, to some extent I may fit into your description of a "careerist". No. Men like charming, coquettish, emotional women who make them feel alive and strong. If such a woman is successful in her profession, then great. There are many artistic professions in which a woman can be successful. The careerist you described is very emotional, cold, overly rational and thoughtful, most likely working in a large corporation or bank. Independent and does not need a man to pamper or endure it. Men do not want such women to themselves, unless someone is interested or she is very beautiful.
I prefer feminine women. The important thing is the feminine gentle look, nice ass, body and breasts. I like it only when I see her and the desire comes to her ... I prefer the woman to be in the more traditional role subordinate to the man. I like to dominate and take responsibility for the women I am with, and I think they love it too. Whether a woman is a careerist and how much money she earns does not matter, as long as she tends to be a real woman in our relationship. I can't stand powerful, pushy and grumbling women, women who try to be "like men" and beat them in their game. This is unnatural and absolutely unattractive. Education, career, money are absolutely irrelevant to a man's desire for a woman. As the saying goes - a Harvard degree will not make me want it anymore .... nor her official title and position. Women, just as you don't like feminine men, we men don't like "masculine" women. Be feminine!
He lost me to "male" professions ... Brother.
Well, there is no way such a woman can be with Ganyo, for whom the most important thing is to eat, drink and pat his wife or to feel her below him (he has to scratch his ego). Such women are associated with more intelligent men who respect themselves and the man next to them and want him to develop. Otherwise, what he described in his story is the typical example of a relatively well-realized woman, as most modern women try to be. I don't think it would be a problem for a normal man to have a developing partner by his side, unless it creates inferiority complexes and a sense of unrealization, which becomes his problem. It also depends on whether the woman is trying to drive these feelings into her husband's head. Again, they can't be together, not because she's more accomplished, but because she's failed as a person. :)
"... and it will be equal to you" Hey, he lost me here. I imagine my colleague, a man sitting next to me, considering me equal. Hahah bass nonsense. I have two questions, so ... if you can: 1. On what indicator will we be equal just to tell me? Growth, salary, dick, self-confidence, how expensive our cars are ... no, I really don't understand .. It's high time you found out that MEN ARE NOT COMPARED! If you want to live in our world (because, yes - you want to. Money pants, we do not want to wear skirts) you will have to stop it. 2. How did you know how intelligent you are? He got a master's degree, read 7 books about Greta Tumberg and watched 5 videos on YouTube, how do you spell C and think that you are competent and omniscient? You make fun of me honestly. And I will give you a really practical and valuable piece of advice. The path to a man's heart is a woman's sense of humor. Something that is rarely achievable for you, along with wit and rational thinking. But when I say a sense of humor, not to laugh at the jokes of others but to tell them. Try this. Believe me, no one cares about your opinion or how "good" you are writing code. I don't attack women in general. There are those whose hats I take off, but they do not fall into any of the categories of superiority that you have listed.
... will argue with you and be equal to you Please someone explain to me what "equal" means. That we men, if we measured our churks for everything, would not get her anywhere. Just like you women, when you get together you don't get her anywhere. Wow, did you feel my sarcasm? That's right, dear men, we are NOT COMPARING! That's why no one will take you seriously. Everyone will make fun of you and make fun of you. And if you want a Nobel laureate, become a programming language.
... will argue with you and be equal to you Please someone explain to me what "equal" means. That we men, if we measured our churks for everything, would not get her anywhere. Just like you women, when you get together you don't get her anywhere. Wow, did you feel my sarcasm? That's right, dear men, we are NOT COMPARING! That's why no one will take you seriously. Everyone will make fun of you and make fun of you. And if you want a Nobel laureate, become a programming language.
The problem is not that the woman wants to be a careerist, it's cool, it makes you develop, etc. (that there are men who are afraid of such women - there are). I'm not one of them, I'm actually looking for just such a woman, but there's one thing I can't accept and that is when a woman wants to be a man. I don't like the feminism that prevails in society. Man and masculinity today are subjected to unprecedented humiliation. Whatever the woman, she must respect one man, support him and the union between the two must lead to positive change in both. That is, the man must know his place in the family and the woman too. We men need to be leaders, and your job is to make us feel that way. Therefore, the word of the man must be a law for the woman, otherwise the woman must not be with him at all. The nasty and the opposite is, that most women are looking for male puppies, to follow them and do whatever they say, but in this way you ruin the whole self-confidence of a man and everything becomes meaningless. On the other hand, men who are ready to become puppies are to blame. It's all a big mess for me and if you happen to meet the right person, know that you won the lottery jackpot, because nowadays there are very few decent people.
The word "careerist" (or "careerist") has always sounded like a reproach to me. As a description of a person who aspires to rise because of the rise itself - money, social status, etc., and this from the outside seems at least a bit like compensation for complexes (inner insecurity that you are not good enough to be accepted by any si). Or as a quest for power for the sake of power itself and the use of its benefits. For me, the goal is not the goal, but the path you will take to reach it. The things you will learn. The skills you will acquire. The people you will meet. Everything that will enrich such as knowledge, intellect, character, experience, etc. The desire to be better at your job is not careerism. Careerism is the desire to occupy a higher position, although unpaid with the necessary competencies and desire to work. When I was in school and university, I was called a "dwarf." And I did not learn by heart, but with understanding. And not because of the sixes, but because it was interesting to me. And it's still interesting to me (learning doesn't end with graduation). A day when you don't learn something new is a lost day. Now, when I do my job well and try to learn new things, to improve, they call me a "careerist". They still don't understand why I'm doing it. It's a pity, because they all benefit from my job well done. to improve, they call me a "careerist." They still don't understand why I'm doing it. It's a pity, because they all benefit from my job well done. to improve, they call me a "careerist." They still don't understand why I'm doing it. It's a pity, because they all benefit from my job well done.
To like. These are modern ambitious women, not clogged 18th century maids. I'm looking for an equal partner after all, not a slave smelling of pots!
Women who look like men deserve only men who look like women ...
I don't like this type of woman at all, and I guess it's the same with most men. It's just that the career woman sacrifices part of her femininity for things that don't impress us men. I don't care at all what position you are in the company, if you come home late every night, tired and in a bad mood. Not to mention that career women are very combative and will argue with you about even the smallest thing. Living with a career woman is like living with a man you are not friends with and who constantly brags about what he has done.
14, moreover, in most cases this turns out to be in vain, especially if the person is a scoundrel in general ... Then neither money nor social status can solve his problems. Not to mention that the most valuable thing in this world is what money can't buy.
Men don't like it because they feel threatened by them. Will the woman be more educated, with a better profession and with a better salary, but this scares him and makes him feel less like a man. Not everyone is like that, but most of them are very complex and do not want such a woman, because they realize that they are not for her, that they cannot stand out next to such a woman. Therefore, it must be as low as possible for him to feel like a man. Fortunately, there are still men who are not intimidated by a woman's success.
But 14, I really liked what you wrote and I gave you 5 points. Just women like you are few, say 1/1000. The others are uonabits. I had a colleague (in the IT sector) and she, like you, was understanding. Not just intelligent and well-read, but also smart (and beautiful) and modest. However, she gave birth. After 2 years we met and he said that she was just wasting her time until the birth. Even if she returned to work, she would not give 5 money at all for the company and the development in it, she had somewhere more important things to deal with. , like her son. Physiology, hormones and natural biological order. Fact
Do they know what today's men like? If she decides to be more "feminine", as someone said above, and agrees to some extent to dominate her, accusations are made that she is lazy, does not want to prosper, to develop, is a user, etc. If, on the other hand, a woman is intellectually and professionally developed as a person and they are looking for shortcomings, she is not feminine and it is better to look after her household and children. There is still something that men do not like.
Careerists of both sexes are to be avoided. I'm a man and I have a pretty good job and career, but I don't pursue this at any cost. I try not to put the work on my personal life as much as I can. Living for a job and a career is absurd. I have had and still have a lot of contacts with women and men who have believed in each other a lot. Some of them have very good positions, but they are lowered there and actually only receive a salary, and their subordinates take out the whole load for ridiculous money. There are others who really have qualities and intellect, but their careerism makes them think of themselves as much bigger. Honestly, I run away from such people because they just went deep into a movie. To have such a woman by my side is completely absurd.
The careerist in question is well described in the topic, but only with her positives. Most of the ones I know are old or divorced. With pretensions for the future husband, but ready to go to bed and not so successful and sophisticated. I knew one, in the scientific field, a 40-year-old girl who played for a 17-year-old boy, otherwise she was considered very serious and sublime. That's how she was left alone, on top of that she was very tight-lipped and she was looking at how to use her subordinates to serve her outside of work. For me, these are women with more testosterone and aggression. They become the wives of someone's slipper ..
Yes, and when I get home it's like going to work again. To behave like a boss, to argue with me about everything and to tease me how much money you see she takes or how intelligent she is, if she takes less she will reproach you that you don't take care of her, well ... Well ... , for this I will not bother to get married at all, I will deal with nonsense.
From the author: Thanks for the comments so far! They are interesting. About people who cling to specific words like "male professions" or "will argue with you": these are just figures of expression. I didn't want to write a whole politically correct novel in the end :) The topic is because I want to see how people think about this issue, namely: plus or minus is to invest in your development and career, if you are a woman and the most already how it affects personally. My opinion on this issue is divided. On the one hand, for every person, regardless of gender, it is a plus to be educated and achieve success. On the other hand, however, I seem to notice that men view successful and educated women as fewer women. At the same time, when they catch up with more traditionally feminine women (here we are talking about chicks who make up, fix, are cute, do not invest much time in professional development, etc.), some complaints begin that they were muffins, money spent, elementary, etc. This confuses me personally! What do you think?
No, definitely not. And I start. It puts the career before the family - well, when and how we will have children, who will look after these children, they need a mother! They need their mother more than their father! Second - who and how will house? I'm not a cleaner, nor do I want the woman to be 24/7 with an apron and in front of the stove, but should I start cooking, cleaning and housework instead? I don't have time for make-up and presses - well, I don't have time for fitness then, I'll put on a beer belly, become a 120-kilo toupee, fart and burp in front of the TV! I'm not saying you hang out in salons, but a woman MUST, MUST support herself! Third - we are talking about sex ... well, the cold woman described in this way will not have any sex. So how does it turn out? There is no family, no food, no children, no sex and no love. You don't want romance, you don't want to be pampered ... well, do you want to sit alone? Amy, stay alone then. A man wants to be a man in every way - to receive attention, respect, love, to feel like a man.
I am a woman! I have been in such and such a situation! There is no pleasure for men. My husband is a pilot, he wants me to look like a flight attendant and at the same time smell like a stew. Give an idea how to do it ... :(
28, well, just be the flight attendant who cooks. I know one. Its possible.
They don't like it because they want to control women, but that can't happen. :)
"A man wants to be a man in every way - to receive attention, respect, love, to feel like a man." Egati you have the idea of masculinity - to receive only!
No. A woman has a place in the world, as does a man. If this place doesn't want it, I have no problems with it and I'm looking for a normal woman. So we are all happy - she is alone, she has a career, I have mine and my family, everything is correct.
If a woman can combine her development in work and family life, children, love, then this should be more preferable. But if he devotes more energy to his career than to everything else, then we are no longer talking about great personal success. She will be busy in her free time, she will not look after children well or go out with someone often.
28, Fry trout, casserole. It's not complicated.
I wonder how on the site men complain en masse that they have to make money, but do not want a career. This man has no pleasure. Woven of contradictions and living in a black and white world of extremes. Author, I will answer you as a woman. Men love feminine and tender. If you can slightly dull and lost, just perfect. Your confusion comes from the fact that they claim the opposite and insist on insulting, humiliating and devaluing everything feminine. But he's not lying, that's exactly how they like him, because when faced with the opposite, they realize their own inferiority. A woman as described by you may be ambitious, but in time she will crush them mentally and therefore is unwanted for a serious relationship. Whether you are pursuing a career, whether you are super smart, whether you are very educated, the sensible strategy is not to demonstrate it too much. It's sad, I know. And the pleasure of rubbing the nose of a very knowledgeable man with dubious masculine qualities beyond the crotch is irreplaceable. But this is a lonely life and you will suffer a lot of aggression because of it. And the femininity in you is a great force and very nice, no matter what they try to punch you from everywhere. So, take advantage of it, not that you're far from exhausted. And if you are lucky enough to meet a really built man, you will see how much happiness this will bring you. They are rare, but there are some. And if you are lucky enough to meet a really built man, you will see how much happiness this will bring you. They are rare, but there are some. And if you are lucky enough to meet a really built man, you will see how much happiness this will bring you. They are rare, but there are some.
I do not like them. They have too high self-esteem and do not allow the man to lead them, they want them to be the "boss". I run far from such people. A woman should be at least a little interested in her family, whether the children or her husband are feeling well, for example.
I have a question . Philosophically. To career women here: Why are you doing it? What is your motivation to pursue a career? Thanks to all who responded
38, I'm not a woman who dreams of a career, but by coincidence at the moment my focus is right there. I will try to answer you. A career brings to a woman what a man brings - satisfaction from success, opportunity for achievement, recognition, financial independence. In principle, a woman is created to be a mother and draws most of these things from motherhood, so she does not need a career so much. Unlike a man who is not physically fit for such things and seeks satisfaction in another kind of development. But because motherhood and femininity are degraded and devalued, especially by men who can't really experience them, many women have rushed to look for these things in their careers because they think they can only get them there. And they get something, but it can't replace the satisfaction of building a life from scratch.
I was not created to be a mother. Nor a wife. How about a housewife! I was created to be Me. To be a person, a personality, to develop, to learn and to be able to. And I have a short time in this world to be this I - like all people. Of course, that doesn't mean I don't have a relationship, that I wouldn't get married one day and give birth. But here's the difference - I'm looking for a partner with whom to have a relationship "together" and not a relationship "I'm his". Because if I'm anyone at all, I'm ... mine. Also, motherhood is not my number one priority in life. I would love to have a child and I would love it very much, but my life and personality are not limited to my reproductive abilities.
We like careerists, but only for 2-3 months.
I haven't read the comments so as not to be influenced. My answer is "it depends". It depends on what exactly the woman is. If you just work, develop and maintain a balance between personal life and work - yes. However, if her whole life is a job, she comes home at 9 in the evening and everything else is secondary - no. If she constantly teases how successful she is and her behavior says that being successful, it almost compensates for everything else and everyone owes her - definitely not. I have no problem with it being equal to me, I even prefer it that way. "He will have an opinion, he will defend it, he will argue with you" It depends on what you mean. Let him have an opinion, even better. I don't mind arguing, but by arguing I mean discussing, sharing opinions, arguing, and deciding what's best for everyone. If you mean that he will only stick to hers and will not comply with anyone, I can no longer compromise on that. I want a person with whom you can sit, discuss things, understand each other for the good of all. Not compliant, but not one that is necessary at all costs. Career women very often lose their balance, have some unrealistic self-confidence and think that they are above everyone. Rare are the careerists who have kept the balance. An example of such a woman is my boss. She holds almost the highest position in a large company, and yet she is an extremely earthly person, and you can sit down and talk to her in the most normal way. It neither oppresses others, nor has unrealistic self-confidence, nor burdens you with communicating with her. As a cover, there is a very successful marriage and a good family in the spirit of patriarchal values. Even when he comes home, he often does his housework and doesn't overdo it. Of course, and her husband does the housework, don't get me wrong, she's probably a maid at home. In short - the woman has found the perfect balance. My wife is something like that, only she is not in such a high position yet. If she's like her, I'll be happy. But if she's the typical careerist, no. The problem is not in careerism itself, but in the fact that many people become assholes because they cannot cope with it on an emotional and mental level.
His wife is a woman and has 100 diplomas. The only thing in which women are better than men is learning languages. Otherwise, absolutely every profession is dominated by men - doctors, lawyers, engineers, economists, cooks, pilots, drivers, athletes, whatever you can think of. It's just that emancipated women emphasize their careers to be independent, but they are increasingly unhappy. The world's financial elite has managed to convince women that they are equal to men and made them work to increase their wealth. Today, women do not look like women - arrogant, arrogant, arrogant, emitting a cocktail of malice, contempt, lost tenderness, femininity, cheated on themselves. Men are demotivated to do anything precisely because there are no real women to be heroes for. The blurring of the poles is equally harmful to all, but women, as the naive sex, continue to be attached to cheap deception, instead of just being women - mothers, wives. And I have absolutely nothing against women developing, learning and striving for success, but the price many women pay is to lose themselves. And we all lose from that.
As a woman who has invested in languages, education and work, I answer you. Careerist is a very dangerous concept that is used by quite limited people. My aunt called me my mother, who was forced to support me alone, without support, without a husband, without help from relatives. My aunt did not invest much in education, she found a man to support her, her and her two children. But did my mother have a choice? Does that make her a careerist or just a person who wants to support her child? Sam answered your question.
You go to work only for money. The other is nonsense.
Up to 32 That's right. Real men build and / or take.
So how will they like them as most of them are complex. Why are answers being asked, despite the fact that we constantly see malice and unjustified spitting against all sorts of good women who do not want to crawl at the feet of the impossible, so that the impossible feel like a few people. And the comments prove it once again. They just die of anger and horror that they are nothing when they stand next to such a woman. They try to stand out and make something more, but for a split second these women compare them to the ground without constantly spitting and fighting in their chests, like poor complexes impossible.
Thank God, I have always had intelligent men by my side, for whom not only was it not a problem for me to work, but they even rejoiced with me for each of my professional successes and encouraged me to develop and build. My current husband says, "I don't need a cleaner or a cook, I can always call a cleaning company or order food. I need a woman with whom I can have a normal intelligent conversation on any subject!" And I think this is due in part to the success of our relationship. We both want to have common topics of conversation and we both want to develop and together we celebrate the professional successes of each of us. And no, I'm not a crazy feminist, there's nothing better for me to go home to my beloved man in the evening, but I just don't think that not locking myself in the kitchen makes me less of a woman. Yes, I love my job, I want to develop professionally, I am not ashamed of my diplomas and I am proud of my every success, because I know how much work it cost me to get where I am. And I don't think I have to belittle all that just to please someone. Like I said, I'm lucky and I've always had intelligent people by my side. I don't consider myself a careerist, but rather a woman who has been lucky enough to find a balance between work and personal life. I wish it to everyone! rather for a woman who is lucky enough to find a balance between work and personal life. I wish it to everyone! rather for a woman who is lucky enough to find a balance between work and personal life. I wish it to everyone!
Number 46, real men build and make an effort for what they want, not waiting for someone to give it to them, like a small child. It's a pity this thinking that you have - to take, to take, because you are very special of course. Get grow up!
I find it very funny when I read such topics. We are different people and we have different ideals for our lives. For example, I like the fact that, as the author writes, I am successful in my profession, I speak foreign languages and I have a high income. If a man does not like it, it means that he has complexes. It is true that men like it first with their eyes, but why should a woman who has invested in her education not have a good appearance? Well, if you mean with grotesque "modern" eyebrows and silicone juki - it probably won't be, yes. I am glad that there are still men with normal self-esteem who do not suffer from the mass Balkan complexes (and my husband is like that - also successful, but he supports me unreservedly in everything I do - as I do him). For men in Bulgaria, your problem is different - a woman with a career and her own resources cannot be controlled economically or isolated. The Bulgarian man wants to be a macho - for the woman to serve in the kitchen, not to refuse in the bedroom, and for him to bring the food and when he knocks on the table - for her to be humbly silent and to obey. Most comments show it. Rest assured, I don't need such a man, they don't need other normal, emotionally mature and successful women. I live the way I want to, without the need for your evaluation. So do they. The grapes are sour, aren't they? Most comments show it. Rest assured, I don't need such a man, they don't need other normal, emotionally mature and successful women. I live the way I want to, without the need for your evaluation. So do they. The grapes are sour, aren't they? Most comments show it. Rest assured, I don't need such a man, they don't need other normal, emotionally mature and successful women. I live the way I want to, without the need for your evaluation. So do they. The grapes are sour, aren't they?
I don't want to be a careerist at all, but not at all, but life doesn't ask. If it depended on me, I would not move from home, I would cook my husband's soups, translate books, enough to fill my time and so on. But when circumstances change, you must act for the survival of the family. After we lived together, my husband surprised me with the news of a BGN 25,000 loan taken from him and spent by his ex-wife. We have to bring him back. Then he left his job to start a new one and found himself with another BGN 4,000 in debt under a loan taken by the employer. He was practically 1000 leva back every month. And I went to work from 9 to 18 hours like most people. But my salary was 800 leva. And what to do now? Well - I became more active. I took on two more projects, then another. I've been writing all night, in the morning I got up from the computer and staggered to work. We began to stand on our own two feet, not to live richly, but not to deprive ourselves of basic things. We continued to repay the loan, but we could now afford not to worry about household expenses. And suddenly - literally days ago I was fired from my main job. Come back another 800 leva. In three days I took on two more projects and I think I will stabilize the budget for the next year. I will even earn somewhere around BGN 1,200 more than before. Today they called me with a proposal for a third, but I think I just can't fit it in my schedule, I'll just fuck people who rely on deadlines. In the meantime, my husband started making good money in his new job, his position in the hierarchy grew, things are going well and the prospects are not bad. However! What were we going to do, if I had slapped on the couch in front of the Turkish series to whine and accuse him of being the last poor man. I am currently working on a number of projects for different companies. He also breaks off from work. Am I a careerist because I support my husband in difficult times and I think about the future of the family? I say again: if I have the opportunity, I will only roll pies and go around with the rag. But if someone now looks at me from the sidelines of what I do, namely: university work, co-author of a series of books, editor of another book, contributor to a newspaper, external author of a magazine, consultant on film subtitles in Russian ... maybe something to forget, she will say, “Bass the careerist!” So I explained the reason. Otherwise - I have a flower garden at the villa, I want to prune my roses and drink my coffee among the aromas, but no. This does not mean, that my husband left naked and barefoot and that he made a living from sandwiches. But he understands why my job is and supports me in every way - we cook together, we clean together, we do everything together. So the very title of the topic annoyed me: “Do you like careerists?” It’s like asking women “Do you like bald men?” No one wants to go bald, but it happens and if they have qualities, they are judged mostly by them and not by what vegetation is on the head, but by what is UNDER it. Do you like bald men? "Nobody wants to go bald, but it happens and if he has qualities, he is evaluated mainly by them and not by what vegetation he has on his head, but by what he has UNDER it. Do you like bald men? "Nobody wants to go bald, but it happens and if he has qualities, he is evaluated mainly by them and not by what vegetation he has on his head, but by what he has UNDER it.
Hard work intimate life with a careerist. And for periodic sex, it's still naughty. There at most some gigolo to find his vocation. Business is changing the attitude towards everything around. There is no place for emotions in business. It is there, now, immediately, at all costs, without compromise. Can you imagine what an intimate life is supposed to be in such situations. It's the same thing with a man if he doesn't make money. What a humiliation it is. Ah, well, unfortunately they are business ladies.
From this topic it became very clear that men do not like careerists. But then why do they complain that they have to make money and that women were mercantile? If you want a woman whose focus is on the family, and whose work is only for additional support to the budget, you must be able to support the family. And it is normal for a woman who is not pursuing a career to look for a financially stable man. It is good when you have requirements to think about whether they are realistic and compatible. And when you expect something, do what is necessary for you to make it happen.