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To Regain My Popularity

By ahbby July 28, 2020 16 answers Last updated July 28, 2020

Hello! The city I live in is not very big, it is small enough for everyone to know. And as all teenagers know, there is a wall between the cool and the congested. This is the case everywhere these days. And I mean, really little girls my age are very few. I mean cool because we're not stars to be popular, so I was one of them until last year. I was very liked by boys, I constantly received invitations for meetings, for connections, but I had told myself to pretend to be inaccessible, not that if a suitable boy appeared I would endure to pretend to be inaccessible, but at least until then he had not appeared . And not long after, the boy I didn't expect and didn't want to show up at all came into my life and turned him over, I was the happiest and most loved girl in the world I think it's already the second year and I think the same way, but there was one drawback that I miss from time to time. After I went with him, the boys stopped looking for me, I stopped getting compliments, until recently I thought I was ugly, but it's obviously because I'm already engaged. I'm used to getting a lot of attention from boys, and a year later I still can't take it. I am no longer friends with many people. Both good and bad, I always felt like a leader. It may sound arrogant, but I love and like myself a lot and I don't think there is anyone as worthy as me. The fact that I consider myself something more than the others and that because of my friend, who gives me the best moments in my life, I regret that I no longer receive the attention I used to receive are my only shortcomings. I'm excellent, I'm competent in every question, I am beautiful and I have a perfect body. I may have received more attention than others, but I'm not a whore, I haven't even had sex, I'm 17, and I'm thinking of getting at least 18 if I'm going to do it. Don't judge me because you don't know me, don't say I'm a muffin because I'm not. I just want you to tell me what to do to maintain the same wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and remind people of my existence. I have the feeling that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :)) I may have received more attention than others, but I'm not a whore, I haven't even had sex, I'm 17, and I'm thinking of getting at least 18 if I'm going to do it. Don't judge me because you don't know me, don't say I'm a muffin because I'm not. I just want you to tell me what to do to maintain the same wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and remind people of my existence. I have the feeling that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :)) I may have received more attention than others, but I'm not a whore, I haven't even had sex, I'm 17, and I'm thinking of getting at least 18 if I'm going to do it. Don't judge me because you don't know me, don't say I'm a muffin because I'm not. I just want you to tell me what to do to maintain the same wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and remind people of my existence. I have the feeling that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :))

Don't judge me because you don't know me, don't say I'm a muffin because I'm not. I just want you to tell me what to do to maintain the same wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and remind people of my existence. I have the feeling that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :)) Don't judge me because you don't know me, don't say I'm a muffin because I'm not. I just want you to tell me what to do to maintain the same wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and remind people of my existence. I have the feeling that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that.

Thanks in advance. :)) that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :)) that being the center of attention and receiving countless compliments is my hobby. As some love dancing, others love painting, I love when I walk down the street everyone to greet me and smile at me, I'm not even mean I forgot to say. I want to realize myself as an editor of a magazine, a model, or something like that. Thanks in advance. :))

Answers 16

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missparadiseandfriend answered · July 28, 2020

   God do a miracle and give some thought to these teenagers !!

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xomsox answered · July 28, 2020

   From very high falls the worst ....

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isabellacartier answered · July 28, 2020

   Maybe these people in question are tired of walking on you and you "cut" them, but the fame is not eternal, try to impress them with something else, act differently so that no one expects, that you will do so. Be interesting! :)

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faidramae answered · July 28, 2020

   Sounds too funny to be written by a 17-year-old girl ... Pyschopatra

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crazy_korean answered · July 28, 2020

   sometimes people don't realize what they have and after a while they look for it, be very careful not to happen and with you so enjoy what you have, you don't need others. men, they will ruin your relationship

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xladynextdoorx answered · July 28, 2020

   The fact that you are 17 and you think you are 11 years old and you believe in things like "popularity" says a lot about you. As much as you want to become a magazine editor, sit on your ass and study instead of wondering how to "regain your popularity".

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cakesandy answered · July 29, 2020

   You're too narcissistic, so people are obviously fed up with you. Just reading this makes me want to sew you two slaps. If you were from my city and I knew you one hundred percent, I would want to beat you. If in front of people and especially your friends, you say that you have a perfect body, that you are beautiful and the like, that is why they are not your friends. It's super annoying for someone to talk about themselves like that and stand out. Also, don't just wait for them to look for you. I suggest you have Facebook, so just write to all these guys and friends, for example, how they are, what they do, something new with them. Show that you are interested in contacting each other. You don't think about a princess and that people will look for you forever.

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hotinplot answered · July 29, 2020

   It's called megalomania, stardom :)) If it's within reasonable limits - why not, it generates great ambition, gives energy, leads to improvement. But the fact that without this attention you feel inferior is already worrying. I hasten to assure you that one day, if you achieve any personal and professional success, you will almost never need someone else's attention, because you will have already proven yourself in front of you and you will feel visible satisfaction. This is the charm of a mature woman, a radiance that young girls do not have.

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emilyca answered · July 30, 2020

   You watch too many Gossip series. Look, people don't like to stand out, to stand for something more than others. It's good to have self-confidence, but you overdo it, don't take offense. Understand that the world does not revolve around you. You are 17 - what have you achieved to deserve the popularity you dream of so much? What have you done more than others? If you want everyone to know you, to smile and greet you (I can't understand that, but drive), do something meaningful, greet them and you, take an interest. And stop standing out as something more than the others ...

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venusmagic answered · July 30, 2020

   Lower your ego a little and start behaving humanely. I'm sorry, this is said directly, I'll sugar it in a little while. You are 17 years old and these are almost one of the last since puberty, it is too late for you to think about popularity. If you want them to greet you and take an interest in you, take an interest and greet them. In general, behave normally with people, ask them how they are, what's going on, how they drive it ... You can't take without giving. Mostly 12-year-olds receive something without giving anything, because they have the fame of something more than the others. Growing up, people realize that we are all equal and stop paying attention to Facebook stars. You have a nice body, a beautiful face, high marks, an ideal friend ... well ... I can't complain about any of the above, even though I would only consider my friend to be perfect, but I'm not moving forward with that. No matter how good something is about you, you can always improve it. There is no perfect body - it can always be a little tighter, a little stronger, a little more trained. There is no beautiful face - there can always be a little more kindness in the eyes, a little more shine, the lips are a little more smiling. There are no perfect grades, no one has only sixes. An ideal boyfriend ... a person becomes ideal when you realize his shortcomings, but you accept them and love them on an equal footing with his good features.

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jakboy17 answered · July 30, 2020

   Do you know how tired I am of things like you? What is this wetness? I just don't have words ... and you're 17? You think like a 12-year-old squirrel. Your self-esteem is so naked, so naked ... but you still have it. And you say you're not bloated .. pff, not at all! I wonder at all how they didn't attack you. And a few strong paints will not be enough for you. Ah, you dear wonder why you don't have so many friends, be infinitely grateful that you are not a disfigured invalid until now! You have to be a genius to guess! I hate creatures like you so much and when I see such a single-celled I run, I run far! She had a perfect body, a face ... who lied to you like that, my dear? !! Who did this evil? !! You know, I'm vomiting from you, my soul is vomiting, I feel sorry for you ... I hope you get off the clouds in which you are hovering and return to the real world!

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sexyshowtime answered · July 31, 2020

   No, I repeat there is NO such division in BG! You watch a lot of American movies! A person is cool when he does and behaves as he pleases, no matter what others think or say about him! This is the simple truth!

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kirlyandharry_oficial answered · August 01, 2020

   you are 17 and you talk more nonsense than me and I am 14. you are often floating in the clouds and in my happy corner, but you have already moved there to live. and what self-esteem just ... let me describe to you I'm tall 149 I weigh 32 pounds for the simple reason that I'm an athlete and I do yoga for advanced. my body is not perfect but i like it! I have a pretty face I look innocent and sweet in a childish way. I'm not perfect as you described: D I have pimples and closed eyebrows but I take care of myself and try to fix them. and I don't think there is a person without pimples or other imperfections (as you described) and I don't try to be perfect! I described myself as I am. a very ordinary girl. if you look at the text in 3rd person you will see why you no longer have so many friends and you will see for yourself that you look terribly funny. Because you are an immature pickle with self-confidence without coverage! my advice is to come down to earth and be firm because you will be left alone in the end.

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sirs_lopez_ answered · August 01, 2020

   Well, since you cut off half the city, what do you want? : D It's like applying for a job, being told "no" and why am I not a parrot 50 times to apply. Good logic, but feminine.

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eightinche43701 answered · August 01, 2020

   As far as I understand your logic, you want men to pay attention to you, but they don't because you're already committed. My suggestion is to break up with your boyfriend and start sleeping with every second person who pays attention to you. Then the whole city will like you. I'm ironic, of course ...

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kylie_more answered · August 02, 2020

   I like the comments on numbers 19, 17, 13, 11 and I really hate haughty muffins with confidence to heaven and back like you! you need a strong fart, but still no one will come out of you