Hello, I need very good advice. I don't know what to do with my life. I have been in a relationship with a man for 3 years. My ex to call him K. he loves me very much, I really love him, we broke up because of his sister, who created problems between us. I love him very much, we met secretly several times before he left for Germany. The boy I live with now, let's call him G., we will get married next year, and my heart doesn't want him. I started moving away from G. because I don't love him, I never am. I went with him because I listened to my mother who always wanted to be with G. because he had money, he was rich. I don't want his money or anything from him. I only want K. My wedding to G. is April next year, K. knows about it and offered me to run away with him to Germany, I want to run away from here. Tell me please
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Run, it's awful to be with someone you don't love if you want to have millions.
Well, run away, do you want that much intelligence ...
Nonsense, you're going to run ... First, make sure you don't have the same problems with your ex as you had before. Second, stop dramatizing unnecessarily, you are not part of a play or a movie, but a participant in real life. If you think it's super romantic to run away with the "love of your life", you're sorely mistaken. This only leads to problems. If you don't love your fiancé, just tell him you can't marry him and break up. You will be neither the first nor the last to give up your wedding. Separate normally and as adults and then start a relationship with your ex, keeping it a secret for a while. At the moment, by the way, you are idolizing the image of your ex, and this can lead to many problems in the future. Think carefully about whether you will be better off with your ex, because if you break up with your current partner,
Whether to run away or not is a matter of personal judgment, but there will be consequences in both cases and more importantly be prepared for them. It's best to sit down and write on a piece of paper the pros and cons of both and so decide and don't give in to your butterflies in your stomach because they always fly away
Run. Love is most important
listen to your heart
Hello! I'm only seventeen, and maybe my opinion will sound childish, but if I were you, I would run away with the person I love. You are YOU, and no one, not even your mother, has the right to interfere in your love life. Even if you marry G., will you be happy? The answer is certainly no. No matter how rich he is, if you don't love him, you won't be able to get divorced in time. If you go to Germany with K., it will be difficult at first, but at least you will be free to live as you see fit. Listen to yourself, your heart. After all, you, not your mother, will live your life. Still, I wish you success!
Why do you have to run? To keep your conscience clear, talk to your fiancé that things will not work out and that it is better to tell him from now on. You may be scared, but you have to do it. And for himself and for him. And if you want to be with your ex, go with him. Do nothing against your will!
Run. Run, run - that's it.
Stop listening to mothers and sisters! Everyone creates their own life, with a heart! Make the choice that makes you happy in the moment, where you have an impulse and a spark, what you imagine and smile when you imagine yourself. In this way you will recognize yourself among the opinions and expectations of others and you will begin to live your own life.
Here, most, if not all, seem to understand the main problem, and that is that the former K is a total path. A man who was influenced by him, so even so, and even worse is that this is not about brainwashing, but that he is afraid. Because if he's brainwashed, he'll believe that this chick isn't for him, but if they've seen each other secretly, then he wants her, but he's just furious that his sister won't catch him. What men, what men are these. When I was moving with someone, I told our people not to hear from them. They did not dare to say a word, let alone take action to separate us, etc. And if they are so powerful and things are intolerable, you just tell them fuck your m .. kata and go to live with your beloved. However, the author is the same product ... not to offend me. Her mother will tell her who to go to, who to marry, and so on. It is one thing to express one's opinion, whether one or the other likes or dislikes it, and it is quite another to match you. Love is not forced and then a person is unhappy all his life in many cases. However, I have one caveat in saying a lot, not all, because I have witnessed pragmatic marriages, and now the woman decades later says that such a man would never replace him. BECAUSE: love anyway, or the one that is in the beginning, slowly disappears. If there is nothing else to connect two people, then things are totally hooked. Still, she has a physical attraction, sex is great, the relationship is six, the lady is respected and looked after, and if there is financial stability, eh, idyll. Do you know what women dream of such a man, even if they do not love him in that sense of butterflies in the stomach. This, of course, does not exclude what I have mentioned about the idiots and travelers.