Hello! I want to share with you something that makes me feel weird. People treat me pretty bad. Sometimes when they ask me something and I answer them quite normally in a normal tone, I hear from them either "don't call me, you can tell me more normally" or "you don't have to be mean". I don't understand any of this, everyone is looking at me with blood. We can only have a normal conversation when they want something from me, a favor or a pen, a pencil, and sometimes money. I never refused them and I was always kind. However, today I got into an argument with a classmate, who insulted me a lot with her comment "your hair does NOT MUSHER, you better dye it again, because I can't look at it". I also said directly "are you normal, what are these comments, look at yourself, but when I look, you obviously have no personal life". She became even more angry and said the following "because of this behavior you all hate". I felt very ashamed and offended because he said that in front of the whole class. I think about it all day and I feel terrible and sometimes I think that I am not perceived as a normal person, but as an alien being.
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As difficult as it is, it's good to learn that most are unfortunately pathetic complexes. You don't have to care, educate yourself to think about the important things in life.
I had a friend who, when she said something, everyone thought she was nagging ... I didn't mind, we were even very close, but some people were obviously bothered. I think people with a lot of confidence would be offended,
Do not pay attention to them. In their malice, many people say nonsense.
Use the tactics of consent and sarcasm :: - Your hair is very nasty and does not bite! "Thank you, miss, for the valuable information!" At least you won't get into such obvious conflicts. Because you, as a woman, get into conflicts to measure them ... your ego.
Don't pay attention to them at all. Complexes feed on oppressing you with petty insults or threats. Don't waste your time and air wondering at them or analyzing yourself, you are normal. Anger is everywhere, I will face it non-stop, enjoy the life of a non-populist and think only about your dreams and goals. Have fun and don't think about geeks :)