I am a girl, 19. I dreamed of a boy of 3 years, I do not live in Bulgaria. When I came back and he was free I had a boyfriend, when I was looking for him he was not free, and if I had the opportunity to be with him, I knew he had no feelings and I gave up. I didn't want to be with someone who would probably show off to everyone later that I was with him and wouldn't give me anything more than sex. But he also said: "what more do you want from me, because you are not even in Bulgaria. You come for a while, then you fly out and you are constantly surrounded by many men" and he was right. But even if I had a boyfriend, I always jumped for joy if he wrote to me, or just seeing his name on Facebook and staring at the screen as if Matt Pokora was there. You know ... until you see what you've always wanted, it will pick you up for the rest of your life and make you ask yourself questions like: what would happen if .. And so .. the moment came, the hour came, etc. I was naked in his bed, the boy did a lot of work, but I couldn't finish. And in fact, I've never been able to vaginally, but he was surprised and asked me, "Isn't it over at least once" Clit ends much easier, but it turned out that if the boy was very good at sex, then the blowjob turned out to be a tragedy. I couldn't finish the first time. I didn't want to simulate an orgasm, and he was sitting there wondering what was wrong with me. At the 20th minute he said: "I have to rest, my tongue is already numb". We stopped, gave him a blowjob, told me it would end, but for the first time my boyfriend said it 30 seconds before the end, and I didn't want it in my mouth, maybe in time I would want to, but now it gives me no pleasure, on the contrary. I started beating his check, but he caught himself ... in the end, if he had to finish on his own, it was awkward. In the end, he was last in my hands and finished on me, kissed me, but he may have been disappointed, considering how our classmates talk about royal whistles. In the morning he wanted sex again, he started, put his fingers in, etc. but I stopped, I didn't want it. So, maybe the boy won't call me again because I'm not taken out of a porn movie, or maybe I don't have the necessary experience, etc ... I don't know if it should be a consolation that at least I had it after 3 years of searching, but I'm sick !!! but he may have been disappointed, considering how our classmates also talk about royal whistles. In the morning he wanted sex again, he started, put his fingers in, etc. but I stopped, I didn't want it. So, maybe the boy won't call me again because I'm not taken out of a porn movie, or maybe I don't have the necessary experience, etc ... I don't know if it should be a consolation that at least I had it after 3 years of searching, but I'm sick !!! but he may have been disappointed, considering how our classmates also talk about royal whistles. In the morning he wanted sex again, he started, put his fingers in, etc. but I stopped, I didn't want it. So, maybe the boy won't call me again because I'm not taken out of a porn movie, or maybe I don't have the necessary experience, etc ... I don't know if it should be a consolation that at least I had it after 3 years of searching, but I'm sick !!!
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You are young. Yes, I have your problems.
From the author: Well ... my problems in life are much more serious and are not even for sharing on the Internet, but I decided to share this and see other opinions. Should I be ashamed of something? I'm sorry I couldn't relax, for the first time I was shaking with anxiety and he might have expected more .. and now probably other people know about tonight .. Thanks in advance for the comments :)
You just don't know what vaginal ejaculation is ... and probably 80% of women don't know. The clitoral orgasm is very much much more intense. The vaginal one is not even concentrated at a specific moment like the clitoral one ... So when you fuck for 1 time, of course you won't finish..I didn't end with my boyfriend for 1 year for the first few months..then you learn how to stimulate and the clitoris in a certain way..it helps you, you talk about it ... Sex is something that is perfected. In my opinion, the synchronicity between two people is achieved with a lot of practice, communication and most of all love. Then sex is really great :) Good luck ... whatever your problem actually is, because I don't see one: D
You have to try again
A newly formed couple needs to go to bed at least 3-4 times to "become the weld" - the two to get used to each other, to get to know their bodies and reactions, to relax ... If the partners are less experienced in sex, then the required number of beds is even greater! What do you think you did once? Did you tell him what you like and what you don't? Did you show him what would give you pleasure, what would relax you, predispose you? Did you ask him what would please him the most, without thinking about your own feelings and nonsense like "will you be able to swallow or not" (no one has been poisoned by this ...)? Even though you talk to your classmates about "royal whistles" and "ninja turtles," even though you touch, rub, poke, and think you're having sex, hardly any of you even know what real sex really is ... This is a state in which you almost lose consciousness, your mind shuts down, you merge and you are one with your partner, energies, vibrations, emotions are exchanged. There are tears of ecstasy, there are moans that push and come out of you ... And orgasm is a complete outburst in the whirlpool of emotions, in the loss of consciousness and in the departure from the body ... What whistles, what poses, what 5 levs ? It's like dividing music into notes and beats, or dance - into steps and elementary movements. Everything must be an all-consuming and all-shaking single whole - simultaneous giving and receiving, exploding and gathering ... If you don't lose your identity, if you don't fly far away - then there was no sex, just rubbing two epidermis. Look for the boy if he doesn't look for you. Be nice to him. Tell him you love him and you will be very happy if he wants to try again. Guide him, guide him, show him what you want, and ask him to show you what he likes best. Every two people can find a common language if they wish!
I think you had high expectations and couldn't really relax and show what you're capable of. Or maybe you just don't get along with this boy. Regarding the subsequent comments: "I think the synchronicity between two people is achieved with a lot of practice" - I can only say that if you fit in with one person in sex, you do not need time, it just works.