Skip to content
Love and affairs

To Young Girls Walking With Jerks: Why Are You Doing It?

By mattypinkman September 28, 2020 50 answers Last updated September 28, 2020

To young girls walking with jerks: why are you doing it? My question is to young women from 18 to around 30, and I beg you not to take offense, because some of you know very well that what I am going to say about you is true. I am a man of 32, I will not reveal more information about myself. My question is to the girls in this age group, which I mentioned above, who go with men 2-3 or more times older than them, walk with them in public places, flaunt their "extravagance and openness", have an intimate relationship with them, marry them and even have children with them - why do you do that? Why do you get together with these jerks, ugly, fat, bald, short, dumb, with drooping bedside tables and, given that there are so many free young men, with good physique, smart, educated, good, looking for women like you, but then they only have the option of sleeping with the old bags, precisely because you chose the old sticks and left them no choice?

What's the reason you do that, tell yourself honestly, huh? Is there a perverse way to get it back to your ex? Is it a paternal complex from childhood, is it a subconscious desire to compensate for the absence of a father as children? Or is it pure gerontophilia? One thing is for sure: it's not about the money, because you're dragging geeks and bastards with you, otherwise only Donald Trump would be. Then why are you doing it? Is there any subconscious desire to compensate for the absence of a father as children? Or is it pure gerontophilia? One thing is for sure: it's not about the money, because you're dragging geeks and bastards with you, otherwise only Donald Trump would be. Then why are you doing it? Is there any subconscious desire to compensate for the absence of a father as children? Or is it pure gerontophilia? One thing is for sure: it's not about the money, because you're dragging geeks and bastards with you, otherwise only Donald Trump would be. Then why are you doing it?

Answers 50

1
emilio_farias answered · September 28, 2020

   I don't think it's a common thing, but I guess they feel some security in the older one. How rational this feeling is is another question.

2
gringomandingo11 answered · September 28, 2020

   I've never liked jerks, they even disgust me. Only men between the ages of 22 and 27-28 attract my attention. Older - definitely not! I am also disgusted by young people who walk with old corpses, have walked with them, or sympathize with them. This is the most disgusting and disgusting thing I can learn about a man, if he can be called one at all, when he falls in love with old, smelly, disheveled, disgusting whores. F, 22

3
katerin69 answered · September 28, 2020

   Look, friend, it's obvious - you envy older men who have young and beautiful boyfriends. I will advise you either to try to understand how they manage to get along with these beauties, or just to stop whining and insulting people.

4
jasminetasty answered · September 28, 2020

   Problems with the father. He may have been missing, for example. Because he radiates security, he knows what he wants, he has experience. For the same reason that young men date older women. Because some young men may be unmaintained, already balding, with beer bellies and complexes to the sky. There's nothing cool about a young man in his 30s who's run down, has a tummy and is already balding, but he's considered great, and he doesn't train or improve his vision. And there are many of them who are just bragging, without having a real assessment of themselves, and what they can improve.

5
laurachiatti82 answered · September 28, 2020

   I haven't been with an older person, but two of them took me down and I have a girlfriend who is in a similar relationship. I asked her the same question and I formed my own opinion, so I will share it with you. The attitude is different. Mature men have already learned how to impress, talk and treat women. If a woman their age can be stretched, then a 20-year-old is an easier target because they haven't lied to her very well. A man aged 40-50, if he can't impress a kid, has he learned anything about women at all? And they are very confident. For me, this borders on insolence and pressure, but I'm a little weirder and if I don't feel like it, I don't want to be touched or told nonsense. If I had a little lower self-esteem or a little more naive, I could have been in such a relationship twice. Or, if I felt attracted to men my father's age, which is abnormal for me and my mind rejects it in every way. My question is different. What does a mature man see in a young girl? What does he expect to receive? If it's just for sex, why doesn't he run away after he gets it? In general ... what can a 20-year-old give to a 45-year-old?

6
susan_dean answered · September 28, 2020

   For money ... Of course, while money is the main engine of all goods (health care, telephones, treats, vacations, etc.) there will be and sold the soul of a grandfather who wears a shiny suit, works in a government agency, or is an employer (that is, hires only young beauties with a difference of 30-40 years in age). And while this is the mentality of the majority of employers (most of them men) to hire by vision, and not by whether the person will do their job, Bulgaria will not recover economically and ... MORALLY !!!

7
marcelinhocariocaoficial answered · September 29, 2020

   5, I'm not quite an adult, but I only fall for younger, which creates a problem in terms of love and I went to a psychologist to find out why. So when a person grows / ages physically, he also grows emotionally. However, if at a certain age a lot is fixed in something, then his emotional development concerning this area stops right there. For example, at a certain age I felt lonely, our people fucked me, etc. and I had a great need to fall in love and have a man by my side, but love either did not come or came, but with disappointment. And from over-fixing, my emotional development in terms of sexual attraction (it's closely related to love) has stopped right there. And no, I'm not saying I'm infantile or anything, but there is a need to make up for that. I subconsciously associate girls of that age with filling this emotional void that has stood and stood for so many years. Well, I realized all this, but I still can't get over it. Maybe the only way to overcome it is to experience it, but if I experience it, society will suck me up. And so I have suffered the consequences for so many years. And maybe I will continue to tolerate them.

8
jeromecommandeur answered · September 29, 2020

   And why don't you look at your life? The years will fly by while you are wondering about someone else's life. Hey, the Bulgarian is jealous, he criticizes, something is still not profitable for him, when he has a boring life, he spits on the other. They can afford it, you are not the one to judge, there is a God !!

9
harlowthefrenchie answered · September 29, 2020

   Hey immature! Tomorrow you too will become a bald uncle. You will not understand when 7-9 years will pass and they will talk about you as you put it. Is your general culture so limited? If you liked this 25-year-old who was dating a 45-year-old "uncle" and didn't pay attention to you, does that mean you should insult her? !! If such a fringe deals with uncles, it is not a flower to smell. They have a strong attachment to their dad and seek security and protection. It is easier to take care of them than to struggle with work and food. When you're outraged, at least don't offend. Grandpa Tosho

10
kayboy7 answered · September 30, 2020

   Because the youngsters cannot offer them what they are looking for. Or maybe because first the young men, with good physique, smart, educated, good have started with grandmothers and young girls from nowhere, their choice is either to catch a young simple malnourished or old but valuable.

11
dhanushkraja answered · September 30, 2020

   And I have the same question: Why, after I'm 44 and totally ignore various pickles at the age of 20-25, they keep sticking to me, looking for me, etc. ?! Personally, I like women at least 37-38 years old, and I find it difficult to find a common language with the younger ones. Ok, I'm training and I've never given up. I have opportunities and maintain a pretty decent standard of living, but I have no interest in moving with girls who can be my daughters. However, there is always someone to let me have the stupid standard phrase: "For me, the age difference is not a problem. Is it a problem for you?" There is something totally wrong ....

12
_blackffox answered · September 30, 2020

   See what I will tell you .. Why don't you look at your life and problems? What is wrong with an old man loving and falling in love with a young girl? And vice versa? And why not an old woman in a young boy? Who goes with whom is a personal choice. We are not talking about money and personal gain here. We are talking about LOVE. I'm in such a relationship and I can tell you that the man next to me is the greatest man I know. Loving, kind, caring, human and countless other qualities that I will list for hours. He doesn't have an expensive car, nor is he a millionaire. That doesn't matter to me. I am interested in whether the person next to me is a HUMAN, his upbringing, whether he is intelligent, whether he is good, etc. To treat people well, not to be selfish or rude. Everyone chooses who to go and hang out with. You can learn a lot from older men or women, as long as you choose the right one, I'm not talking about sex, a life experience. Mine always helps me and gives me the right advice. And those "men" of the 21st century, who have recently become very conceited and liked, are not worth it. J.

13
polresdemak_ answered · October 01, 2020

   Because they are not complexes like you g25

14
thicknsmooth25 answered · October 01, 2020

   I've only had such a relationship once and I'll tell you why. I was 16 and he was 30. I was attracted by the fact that he was much more mature than my peers, that he looked at me as a woman, not a child. Another issue is that our relationship was quite short, but these were my reasons. And yes, I was in love! However, I think that every girl has her reasons to start such a relationship. One is looking for the father's image, which was missing in life and, another is looking for the material side of things, a third just wants to prove that it is "big", as it was in my case ... there are thousands of reasons. And you, instead of digging under the sheets of people and judging them for their choice, concentrate on your own qualities, with which you could be interesting and nice to women. Because whether you discuss them or not, there will always be 50-year-olds dating 20-year-olds, but that won't help you find a girlfriend. So work on yourself instead of grumbling that it wasn't fair that young girls preferred uncles to you. Well, obviously there is a reason.

15
arabactive answered · October 01, 2020

   To 3: Look, friend, you are totally mistaken that I envy adults, that they have young and beautiful boyfriends! I just don't understand why most young women run into old men who are ugly, simple, vicious and rude to them, and I don't understand the perverse logic of choosing men, which always pulls them to total opposites, and then grumbles about how men they were bad, how they were beaten, how they were raped, and at the same time they chose them, but they don't realize it. It is true that there are many young people who are neglected and with complexes to the heavens, but adults are a much higher percentage, you have to admit. They're just angry that they're old, wrinkled and crumbling, and no woman their age wants them, so they turn to young dolls, who are much more manipulative and susceptible to jewelry bribes,

16
laineybot answered · October 02, 2020

   Well, it is clear why they do it - for money! It may seem strange to you, but there are a lot of people out there who only think about how and whom to use. I have an acquaintance who I know that even her mother raised her this way - to find a rich carp, and then there were many men. I just don't agree that men are looking for such girls. I personally run with 200 of them. There have been cases where they have literally been offered to me without me showing any interest at all. I don't even want to know such people.

17
lovechloexoxo answered · October 02, 2020

   The author - and I wondered as number 8. If a person is happy with his life, if he has enough of his goods - material and spiritual, does not look at other people's relationships, they do not care. If he is devoted to his love, why should he care about other people's relationships? Watch your life, time is merciless to all of us.

18
missmonica_1971 answered · October 02, 2020

   So who to go with, since there are no young men left for young women? Just look at how many gerontophile topics there are. Young men en masse want the image of a mother to be praised and praised.

19
loongdick91 answered · October 03, 2020

   Author Today's 20-year-old men are older women than I am. To paint my beard, my eyebrows thinner than mine, stylish clothes from the mall, not to mention how much I hate a man's smooth arms and legs. They criticize women for what they do, and they will go to bed with someone for money and they do it, some have cosmetic procedures, and what turns out to be more natural than them. It's like being gay. Lazy, they don't want to study and work ... This is my personal reason for not being with a young man. From a woman's point of view, such a man, if he made me children, would not be able to take care of them.

20
emyliford answered · October 03, 2020

   It is good to clarify some things. For example, someone 40 and 20 years old is 2 times older. Does this fall into the "jerks" column? Because judging only by the numbers of the years, things are VERY stretchy. A woman of 20 may look like an aunt or at least 29-30 years old. A man of 40 may be no different than a 29-year-old. He may be bald and with a belly at 28 - but you see he is young. And most importantly - did you know that at 32 you are quite old for many 18-year-olds? Or do you not accept it and consider yourself very young, but get annoyed if someone at 40 wins the one you think is "just" like you? I understand a 20-year-old to catch up with someone at 55. And there are men aged 35-40 who look like full uncles - fat, bald and with the demeanor of big players.

21
casanova_chulodaddy answered · October 03, 2020

   People live in a society where same-sex couples are normal, so why should we even comment on relationships with a big age difference between partners? Sea learn to be tolerant of privacy and choice of your countrymen. Dear author, look in your bowl and try to find happiness in your life, because the people who always look around them are never happy.

22
chrissimpsonsartist answered · October 03, 2020

   21, stop with this nonsense. A 40-year-old man can't look like a 29-year-old, no matter how well-preserved he is. Yes, he can bring it to a picture, but live - never! The same is true for women.

23
shaaanxo answered · October 03, 2020

   A man does not grow old in the eyes of a woman when he has money. I've heard other excuses like he doesn't know how to behave, he knows how to touch me. Strange that it is up to one age then suddenly turn the pancake and no longer knows how to touch and how to behave. But it's all so relative, I don't think it matters, there is a train for every passenger, be it old or young. It's the same when you see a new car and call yourself, look at the guy who drives the throat, but I don't know who the throat is, the one in the Porsche or the one in the golf.

24
keepmeebabe answered · October 04, 2020

   All my partners so far have been older than me, and not a little. The reason for this is that I am interested in them. I'm mature for my age and a man my age just rarely has anything to impress me with, we fail to communicate properly, it's just not complete. I don't stigmatize my sets in general, but they are massively complete jerks and don't know how to behave with a woman, not to mention that they are deprived of life, love of life, have no hobbies, no interests, no desire for anything . They also have a habit of playing games, spinning numbers, which is funny when you're still trying to have a real relationship with someone.

25
loongdick91 answered · October 04, 2020

   22, please learn to write in your native language, then pray, call and give wisdom.

26
bts_spotifydata answered · October 04, 2020

   I have a problem like number 11, but I'm a woman of 31. I look at least 26 or so my acquaintances say so. Only 20-25 year old boys look at me, which disgusts me! I have a serious job, I train with a lot of weights, I am a supported woman! Men over 30 don't look at me at all or make obvious attempts to talk to me. I don't know where I'm wrong and what to do to stop bothering boys.

27
callmedominator7 answered · October 04, 2020

   I'm 21 and I only like younger guys than me. It has always been like this. I am physically attracted to it. However, all my girlfriends like older ones. One thing is security, or at least the feeling of it, because the more mature person undoubtedly has more experience, and if nothing else, at least he can manipulate someone younger. Another reason is money, which is again related to security - home, clothes, food, vacations, etc. The third thing that I have noticed, although it is up to a person, not only for years - the attitude. Indeed, a man in his 40s and 50s has certainly learned how to deal with a woman, knows what to say and when. But still, I prefer younger, it's always been that way. I've tried with people older than me, but I just don't feel anything.

28
xxl answered · October 04, 2020

   Hahaha, it's not easy to swallow that they prefer "bald jerks" to you .... you're obviously very bad, hahahaha ...

29
tinachansebasan answered · October 05, 2020

   Because the handsome and intelligent men in question almost always have too much choice ... and take advantage of it if you understand me. Too many other women revolve around them. This is inconvenient for jealous women. Personally, I would prefer someone I know to be more reliable.

30
iamhimanshikhurana answered · October 05, 2020

   I am exactly one of them. I'm in my early 20s, and he's approaching 40. We work in one place (which means I can't be with him for money) and as soon as I saw him I liked him. I waited more than half a year for him to take the first step. Do it anyway, then we had worries about the difference, about people's stories, about families, but that passes when there are feelings. He was my first. It is not said that when a man is 40 he must be a jerk with a belly, etc. And why are you so disappointed? I also don't believe in love, let alone with such differences, but obviously exactly what you "run away from" happens .. You will see when a little girl turns your head, you will wonder where you came from haha

31
natalie_roser answered · October 05, 2020

   Right now I'm watching a video called: "Women LACK Honor, Morals, AND Ethics .... (RED PILL)", here you can watch it too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v = UMN8OSEXtxw Explains that women generally lack honor, morality and ethics. They are driven by profit and greed. It is wrong to think that they have any moral qualities that deter them when they benefit. For them, morality has value only if it is accompanied by public condemnation, that is, if other people think badly of their actions and thus look down on them, otherwise morality and right action is something absolutely incomprehensible and inexplicable to them. The only driving factor is the benefit and personal benefit. It is inconceivable and absolutely inexplicable for them how someone can sacrifice their personal interest in the name of a greater cause or in the name of doing the right thing. The other day I was arguing on Facebook about how disgusted I was with the story of a Bulgarian woman who would marry a Negro, the son of Michael Jordan. Most women could not see anything wrong and accused me of racism. Do you know how many muffins I've blocked? When I explained to them that such connections created crossbreeds without history, culture and identity, and that this was the goal of Merkel and other liberals who filled Europe with Negroes and Islamists, they became vicious and mocking. Do you know why? Because they have no sense of national pride, sense of honor, sense of identity, they are just greedy animals who are only interested in themselves, their own pleasure and to settle their own asses no matter who and how. Therefore, for millennia, they have not had the right to vote and participate in politics and governance. They can't understand that being in a public position is not a matter of prestige and benefit but a matter of responsibility for the well-being of the people who have trusted you. They are absolutely incapable of sacrificing for the interests of others except in one case - when it comes to their own child. I say all this to make you understand that the search for logical and moral behavior by these beings is ridiculous, they do not have the moral qualities and intellect to elevate them beyond their own direct interests, such a thing is absolutely foreign and incomprehensible to them. The closest thing to morality for them is the fear of public condemnation, and the closest thing to morality that they demand of others, especially men, is when the actions of others harm their direct interest or image. This is entirely their worldview.

32
helloitsmeeduh answered · October 05, 2020

   At 23 - I know a man who is 30 years old and they still want his ID card. For this reason, he can't catch a woman older than 20, because he himself looks like that. And it is not congested, on the contrary it is very beautiful.

33
sonyahailey answered · October 06, 2020

   I guess either virgin or your sexual experience extends to sex with a prostitute for BGN 50. Haha .. now out of fun - everyone has a taste. And don't forget that in years to come you will be 50 .. and what will you hang yourself? Of course, you will also want to see sex! Do not envy people and your luck will come out someday.

34
dwyanewade answered · October 06, 2020

   And I think it's "daddy issues." Compensation for the lack of proper treatment by the father figure. It's the same with men who like milf.

35
yalinonline answered · October 06, 2020

   Interestingly, I compare the titles of the topics and what I see - "I like mature ladies", "Why older women fall in love", "Western European fashion", this is when it comes to young men who marry women of maternal age. and their grandmothers and "To the young girls walking with jerks: why are you doing it?". So 40-50 year old women are ladies, mature, with invaluable experience, prettier than young girls, and men of the same age are ugly, ugly, fat, bald, short, dull, with drooping bedside tables? And I think how right Einstein is - human stupidity is more boundless than the universe ...

36
puntadelcielooficial answered · October 06, 2020

   In fact, it's no secret that most men who are active in fitness and cardio are still in pretty good shape after their 30s. For example, in the next block there is a doctor who has been running continuously for 20 years and looks very good for a 50-year-old. she and his wife are seven or eight years younger than him. However, not all women go in for sports, they show it after the age of 30. Many men are younger than they are, which is why a man of 30 chooses, and for a woman after 30 it is more difficult. And specifically on the topic in response to the title. Young girls like mature men because of their skills and attitude. This is completely understandable. Otherwise, I think that a girl of 20 should look for a boy of 25 at most.

37
tinkandpan_420 answered · October 06, 2020

   I am a girl of 21 and for me age does not matter, but the fact that I go out with men 10-15 years older than me. First, the picks between 21-28 very rarely know what they want and think that they can, as they say, "kick me and leave", also have no attitude and do not know how to behave, while a man of 30 or at least those with who I was (I don't put everything under a common denominator because there are always exceptions) knows how to behave with a woman and has a relationship. As far as the financial part, none of the older men I was with was someone to feed me and give me money, so I can't say that I was with them for any benefit.

38
skylarstecker answered · October 06, 2020

   I feel respect and respect, protection, calmness ... Of course, it depends on the person, because I know men aged 50 and over who behave immaturely, and young people under 30 who have many qualities.

39
reverendbillygraham answered · October 07, 2020

   The author, number 2 and the others with this mentality - I wish you to live to 45 when you will be old people and old bags. Good luck :)

40
suavecitapomade answered · October 07, 2020

   I'll tell you why it happens. Many of the young boys are passive and wait for the girl to just find and take them down. Older people are more confident and know how to take down younger girls.

41
juliettebrown answered · October 07, 2020

   It's all just about the money. :)

42
lindabluee answered · October 07, 2020

   The 20-25 year old girl is at the peak of her sexual attractiveness. You will not get younger and better after 25. Accordingly, at this age there is the greatest choice. Why would she choose a 40-year-old man when there can be (almost) anyone? Because the 40-year-old offers her something (or things) that the 20-year-old can't offer her. It's so simple. Read about Sexual Market Place. Women exchange their sexuality, beauty and the opportunity to carry a baby for the man's resources - money, social status, his abilities. It has always been so and always will be. A man in his 40s may not be a young man, but he can have children. More importantly, however, he has already gained life experience, is more likely to be financially secure than the 20-year-old, and has settled down, there is no drama with him, he is not easily impressed. Stoicism attracts women. If at this age there are still no children, then it is very likely he wants, respectively we can call him family-oriented. Understand that women are not as impressed as you men are by tight bodies and young faces. Not that we're not impressed, but that's not key; the key is what the man can provide. Do not seek morality where it does not exist: human sexuality is immoral. The male sexual strategy is to scatter his semen in as many places as possible, the female - to find the best father for their children. F22 human sexuality is immoral. The male sexual strategy is to scatter his semen in as many places as possible, the female - to find the best father for their children. F22 human sexuality is immoral. The male sexual strategy is to scatter his semen in as many places as possible, the female - to find the best father for their children. F22

43
ricardorocha94 answered · October 07, 2020

   I am 45, married with two grown children. My wife is seven years younger than me. Everyone thinks I'm at least 10 years younger. I started training hard two years ago and I go to the gym almost every day after work. My hair is fine - I'm not balding yet and I have some white hair. I eat only healthy food. There is little left to make a body like the models - all tiles and relief! I have a pretty good car, I dress stylishly, with branded clothes. I wear various branded watches, glasses and other accessories. I only use branded perfumes. In a word, when it came out, every detail is refined. Well, what can I tell you - over the years there have always been women who like me, but in the last few months I think of at least 5 girls / women who frankly like me and expect me to do something. Only one of these 5 women knows how old I am (she is a colleague), as she is 30 and married (she is in love with me :)), and the others I guess are about 23-25! How will these little ones react if they find out how old I am :) Ahhh, it can't be;)

44
anna_samantha answered · October 07, 2020

   Up to 2 You like a man, you fall in love with a beam, he was 30 .........;)

45
piersmorgan answered · October 08, 2020

   42 hits right in the top ten! From a young girl who has dated both boys and men.

46
lexilunar answered · October 08, 2020

   Number 33, absolutely true. It's good that we are fooling around (clearly when), otherwise who would pay attention to them. Slow, cumbersome, except for children have almost no contribution. 99.9: 1 is the contribution in favor of the male class.

47
tentangtiwi answered · October 08, 2020

   29, is hardly worse than an autistic person writing "hahahahahahaha" hysterically in his comments.

48
louisa answered · October 08, 2020

   Number 2, what are you going to do when you peel off and become "smelly, disheveled and disgusting"? You're going to draw your knife, I guess, once you have this intolerance of older people, or do you think you'll be forever young? You're pathetic.

49
max1990imus answered · October 08, 2020

   Because they are interesting men with diverse life experiences and they have been my fetish since I was a child. Alpha, w. 30

50
choradiyamehul answered · October 08, 2020

   42 and 47 - They are passive because they expect you to show interest and attitude, not just wait for them, in addition, many women and girls are outright simpletons and rude people showing an unforgivable attitude towards a man who has shown a clear interest in some . Accordingly, instead of moving your ass and not being so passive yourself, you prefer to accuse the boys of passivity and wait for someone to act no matter what.