Hello, everyone. For many years I am writing to tell you my bitter experience from the badoo dating site. I am 25 years old Last year I decided to register in badoo for a serious relationship. After a month of digging on the site, I received a message from a man who impressed me. He introduced himself as 31 years old .. 88 sets .. And that he was looking for a serious relationship .. in March last year we started writing. We met in April. We liked each other a lot and he offered me a serious relationship. I immediately agreed. He is 196 cm tall. With a perfect body, but nothing special in his face. Basically, I look at a man's character first, then the body. He impressed me as a good and decent man. After a few weeks we had sex. He turned out to be a gifted lover, kind, gentle and considerate. I fell in love a lot. What bothered me was that he keeps getting into badoo. It was naughty for me to ask him (after all we were in the beginning) why he doesn't delete his profile when he already has a relationship with me and claims that he loves me ... I decided to write to him from a fake profile to find out what he writes to women. Well, I wrote to him, he immediately replied that he was single and looking for a serious relationship .. I offered him a meeting and he agreed without thinking .. And he was supposed to go with me .. I was very sick and stopped answering him from the fake profile. I decided to personally ask him Why he keeps getting into badoo and if he doesn't take me seriously he should just tell me so he doesn't waste my time. I don't like adventures. I want a family, I'm still 25 now. By the way, I didn't tell him anything about the fake profile so as not to offend him. After I asked him about badoo, he said that I was too jealous and that he didn't sleep for badoo and he would immediately delete it to show me that he was serious. delete it .. but my doubts remained. Once while we were watching youtube together, a message popped up on his phone from Ina ... I pretended not to have seen anything and we continued to watch the video on youtube. After he hurried to the store he forgot his phone and I decided that now was the time to find out who Ina was .. I opened his phone and read thousands of messages from her explanations in love he had written that he loves her called her my love . But last month he had stopped answering her ... she had written to him "why don't you answer me if you're okay with what's going on with you". Apparently because of me he stopped answering her ... The next day I admitted to him that I had seen the messages and asked him for an explanation. He explained to me that he had met her on the Internet before we met, but they had never seen each other, only written to each other. No meeting was held. And he slept to answer for me. He told me not to worry and immediately deleted the number. Okay so far. Anyway, I still had some doubts in him that he was lying to me about some things .. I had the feeling that he was not sincere .. After a few months we decided to separate because of my doubts (which later turned out to be valid) that he was not serious. and hides things from his life. He called me again after a month, that he missed me a lot and did not forget me .. And that he only loves me and I am the woman of his life .. we met again .. later I found out that he returned to badoo and wrote with women, that he is single and looking for a serious relationship .. I was very angry and asked him why he is in badoo again since I am supposed to be the woman of his life. He told me not to overdo it and that I didn't understand anything. He said he came back to badoo after we broke up, because that's where he met me and that pushed him to go back there ... And that we weren't together during that time when he went back there. Well, he deleted his badoo again ... But he kept finding lies on his part. I asked him what he was hiding, he said that I was crazy and if I didn't believe him I was looking for another more serious one .. for my birthday he didn't give me a flower even that offended me a lot as a woman .. we decided to separate again to take a break the relationship .. a month ago I was again looking for explanations in love again the same job. We met at their place all weekend, I spent with him oaths of love, blah blah ... He said he lied to me about his age. He showed me his ID card 82 set. I asked him why he hid his age and what was the point of doing it .. He said that because he looked younger and someone did not believe him when he said that it is 82 sets and for that everywhere it is presented for 88. I forgave him .. anyway I already loved him and it didn't matter to me his age. I decided to forget about it. But the other day I saw badoo messages on his phone while he was in the bathroom. I picked up the phone and read all the messages directly and looked at what type of women it was written on ... I was shocked. There was at least one normal one. Everyone he wrote to was either ugly or fat. I was disgusted honestly. Not that I'm bragging, but I'm a beautiful woman, blond with blue eyes and a nice body and I have a bust .. I can't believe how he can write to these women at all, since I'm so much prettier than them .. I have no words really. He had written to everyone that he was single and offered a serious relationship. When I came out of the bathroom I didn't tell him anything, I was already tired of his lies and I understood this badoo, that he will never abandon the site .. he always goes back there after turning his back. We had separated on the morning of November 30 .. and on the same day at 2 pm he registered again in badoo .. for a few hours he forgot me .. frivolously on his part I wrote to him from a fake profile again the same .. single said it was a year and a half, etc. I offered him a meeting in the evening, he immediately agreed .. And during this time he had not written to me all day. I wrote to him and told him if he wanted to see me tonight he said no .. he was already preparing for the meeting with the fake profile .. I angrily told him not to bother to go out, that no one would be waiting for him .. that in fact this it was me .. I decided to admit to him anyway I no longer trusted him and I didn't care about his reaction. He was furious, I asked him why he was doing it. And isn't it in connection with me why he pretends to be single for the women on the site .. what am I for him .. a sex toy only I told him how he could have sex with me all weekend to swear love to me and that he wanted a family and children with me, and the next day to go on a date with another and lie to her that there was no woman in his life for a year and a half. . I told him that this was a great insult and humiliation for me .. He never considered me a serious relationship so .. I said that even if he swears his numbers will not pass and I have lost confidence in him and this is the end .. not to bother to swear and apologize. He didn't answer and stopped writing. I wrote to him, I was hurt a lot .. And to this day he is silent .. why doesn't he fight for me? I'm so disappointed ... And it hurts. I keep watching in badoo there he is online without caring how much he hurt me and I suffer. A man without a heart. He obviously played with me and didn't love anyone. Now he is still lurking for a new victim in badoo. Today I wrote to him again from a fake profile and he answered immediately. (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any
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I've met a lot of men from dating sites before. Most of the meetings were one-off, but several led to a relationship. One also lied to me that he was younger than he really was. In these sites, as in life, there are many fraudsters and freaks, as well as worldly people. It is not the site's fault that this one turned out to be an insensitive manipulator. I met my husband on the site aha and we have been together for 5 years and we have a child. One should not stigmatize sites, they are the only way for many people to find their soul mate. However, great care must be taken as to whom one trusts. It's best to dump that jerk, stop watching him do it, and focus your time and effort on finding a normal man.
Never go back to this man. You have already seen for yourself what it is.
I don't understand, are you so stupid or are you in love? When you caught him the first time, why weren't you kidding him? "There are other fish in the sea, my girl," not all of them are, but a large percentage of them are in touch and continue to come in from time to time. You are still young, it was a lesson for you that you should not have high hopes, nor to engage as a "straw drowning man". His tactics are clear that by lying about his serious intentions he finds "sacrifices" for longer use. Those who write to him are not to blame, do not blame them, but him! In this way you caress the male ego, that if you see all the women bond with him and "fall at his feet", such people do not change, the sooner you realize what a man is, the better it will be for you.
I am serious and I keep my word. I'm looking for the same as you and I always come across such frivolous ... If you really look for the real thing, I'm ready to take responsibility immediately.
I did not read the whole scripture in full detail, but it is clear that the man wrote to himself, with whom he tied and he is a womanizer. When you understood it and continued with it, you are angry with yourself. Ignore him and don't dig through his profiles, it's humiliating for you. I do not deal with internet acquaintances, my husband and I met at the university. Look for friends in real life.
FROM THE AUTHOR I continued to chat with him from the fake profile, from which I present myself as divorced with 3 children. And in order for me to like him obviously, he started talking about how disappointed he was with women and that he had been married for 6 years, but got divorced ... his wife had had an abortion and that broke his heart ... a bang. He never told me he was married. And I don't believe it's true. A complete liar. Apparently he decides what lies to tell her about the woman. If she is divorced and disappointed in men, he also presents himself as divorced and disappointed. Now I have blocked it and I do not intend to deal with it anymore. It was enough for me to make sure that he lied to me and lied to all the women on the site so that he could sleep with them.
Well, the man is just looking for women for sex. He lies, anoints enough to be tied to him once or twice and then give the next one. Don't deal with them at all. Just turn your back and he immediately cheated on you.
As soon as you caught him doing it from the fake profile, you had to write to him directly from him to fuck him, admit to him that it was you and block him from everywhere. This is what a self-loving person would do. I didn't even read the rest
I am a man and I have an account on this site for a year and a half. I have never lied about anything. I wrote to cool women (quite foreign), but because of the erratic chat and distances. I didn't get to a meeting. I'm surprised that he processed you so quickly that he fixed you. Not that it can't happen to you without the site. It's disgusting for the fat ones, and you're dirty already. Most of the women I wrote to were disappointed with other users. And 2 offered me sex almost directly. Of course I don't expect it to happen and who knows what but who knows. You seem to have had too high hopes, but I still find it strange that a false love works such miracles. Apparently the mass of women really like to hear what they expect.
Well, such sites generally have the idea of quick dumps and accordingly the people there have such a mentality that what else can you expect? However, I see in your character a predisposition to fall for fraudsters and it is not because you are naive. You have preliminary and high expectations of men and you have formed a preliminary idea of what a man should be like. This is not real. True and honest men will not meet your claims and even if they answer in very rare cases, they will have high claims to you that you will not be able to cover and may not want you and even if so such a pretentious attitude as if picking clothes from the mall will repel them. There are scammers left who will take on the role of pretending to meet your expectations. That's right, after you sifted through the sieve the real people with your claims,
I just didn't understand what kept you with him for so long, after you smelled what he really is ??? ... His big x * y and his height? He was serious. In what? To score it for you? You look easy on the side. If you don't want to be fucked again, look for a person with morals and values and give yourself a little more time to get to know him.
You will not meet a normal man on the sites. Half are married or engaged. The other half are looking for easy sex bachelors. There is also a small percentage of women who are angry. Several have written to me only to insult me, apparently totally upset by one. Another was nagging and insulting instead of hello, and when I questioned him it was because the women didn't like him. So instead of hello, he started to get annoyed. Married and engaged are visible from afar. They start twisting, stretching delicacies that you can't see or write now, it wasn't convenient, etc. There are also those who hang for literally years on such a site and are always looking for the woman of their dreams. Translated easy sex. I had registered out of curiosity, and I found it funny how my eyes and my hair were praised, and I didn't have a picture. Some married people openly state it and complain about their wives and how unhappy they live. It's a waste of time. It's for fun, but not for anything else. I haven't met anyone, they didn't trust me, they spurred a lot, the whole communication is very greasy somehow. But I laughed a lot with some images.
Author, you are also fake because you enter the badoo dating site with a fake profile. He at least enters the site with the same profile. He could also have logged in with a fake profile, but he didn't, and you log in with different profiles every time you check it. I wouldn't be surprised if you also have several links on this site with fake profiles. Once you have done it with him, it is normal to do it constantly until you find the prince on the white horse. Otherwise, it is very easy to blame only him and you to pretend to be an innocent saint. Stop your pretensions.
Horror! Well, why didn't you leave him right away? It is clear what he was, other times he does not think that such men will change because of you and your unique qualities. I also suffered from such delusions once, at the age of 22-23 one of them broke my heart, but it worked well for me - I am no longer so naive and I know what to expect from a man. You may be suffering now, but it's actually for your own good. What if you were married and had a child by him? It would be much worse, believe me.
He was a complete liar and rubbish, so I'll give you an idea of what you can do to give him a lesson (if you care about wasting time with him, well - in your place on the first shoot I would end). You can create 5-10 different fake profiles from which to communicate with him, arouse his interest and then schedule an appointment. Just don't go and let him go for a walk. Then you stop answering, until finally, from only one of the profiles (after he has already had at least 4-5 failed meetings in which the "woman", ie you, did not appear), to write to him, that it is a lesson to him and that after all his lies he will never know whether he will come across a real or a fake profile. Then you really (finally) stop dealing with this liar and start doing something more meaningful with your life :)
FROM THE AUTHOR TO NUMBER 13 I was sincere and serious about him. On our first meeting, I deleted my badoo account because I fell in love and wanted a serious relationship. He said the same thing, I believed him. I'm not one of those women who plays with men. Ever since I met him, I've only been with him. I have not arranged meetings with others, nor have I chatted with men. I was 100% true to him. That's why I'm so disappointed. And I made my fake profile especially for him to write to him and catch him as he is, I haven't chatted with men from a fake profile
To the author Miss "High Self-Esteem" I want to ask you something You almost consider yourself so great and irreplaceable beauty to qualify the other women with disgusting nicknames like "fat", "ugly" and so on, do you ask the question is how low are you to endure the whole galaxy of performances that this manipulative gentleman has caused you? !? Not only are you quite short, but your mind is as big as a chicken. And don't worry - such beautiful chickens as God gave you, easily replaceable prey, nothing more. And with you there is the moment that even if you see a beautiful woman, you will still be ugly. Your problem is that you have taken the center of the world - you are not, you will never become :) Success, you will need the next one, who will play you
Number 17 You obviously recognize yourself and you're one of the fat ones