Hi I'm a 22 year old boy! I want to share my grief briefly! Because I believe a lot in my zodiac sign just to emphasize that I am a scorpion! Anyway I will drive in essence! So far I have not had a serious relationship with a girl, I get some apathy, fear and worries about a relationship ...! I have many shortcomings that repel most women, such as being quite infantile in some situations, irritating and always right about myself ... But I still attract them, but it comes to passion and sex, and so far no one complained in this regard! The problem is that I have something like an inferiority complex from my childhood and I think I have a psychological problem and it means that I am afraid to show publicly that I have an intimate relationship with a girl! Something like embarrassment, fear of being slandered, insulted, insulted and humiliated! As a child I was very humiliated by my peers, underestimated that I was stuck, etc.! I had late puberty and since I entered the university, I started to struggle with it ... I'm weird, I don't know what I want! I depend too much on passion and sex and that prevents me from finding a girlfriend! This is one of the other factors besides infantilism. I AM JEALOUS, VERY STRONGLY TO DISEASE JEALOUSY! I'm just looking for pleasure! I feel lonely, moldy, because I'm uncomfortable showing my intimacy in public with a girl! I'm cold, I can't love, I suppress my emotions, I often cry at home alone, and I've always been asked, a lot of people, how they didn't see me cry once, even when I understood tragic news or a sad movie! It's as if I'm devoid of feelings, and I want them! It's hard for me to overcome this fear and suspicion of society, because I am very hypersensitive and vulnerable! A slight insult put in the "RIGHT PLACE" and I just lose my mind and my words and the girl may consider me a mold and a coward! I WILL BE THANKFUL FOR YOU TO GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO OVERCOME MY PROBLEMS ...
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Hello. I'm a girl, I'm a Capricorn and I was in the same position as you, I experienced the same things. Even when I met my ex-boyfriend, whom I loved endlessly, things didn't change because he couldn't understand me and wonder why I was like that. Unlike now ... the person I managed to be patient with enough and for a year there is no mention of the previous bad feelings. My advice is one - when you meet a girl you like, give her a chance to "cure" you, do not push her away, do not shut yourself in, because that way you will always turn in a circle and you will not recover. It is important who you will be with to solve your problem. It can happen after 1, 2, 3 relationships, but if you are internally convinced that you want it, it will happen. When you find your girl, believe me - you will change, first because of her, and then you will understand,
For starters - stop being influenced by nonsense like zodiac signs, etc ...
I support n1, but still, look for a psychologist, while you still realize that you have a problem. I want to say that it is possible after 2-3 unsuccessful relationships (probably for the reasons you mentioned) to reinforce these fears and worries of yours as a necessity, as part of your character.
As number 1, I am also a girl and I am a Capricorn. So ... I know what you're talking about. A storm of emotion hidden by walls of masquerades. You are always empty, you are still missing something, you are still burning, and you are cold as ice. Feeling and looking just like a schizophrenic. It's not about sex, it will satisfy your body for a day-week-month and then what ... your soul is lonely again, and your body will want yours again. You have to be happy first, then decide what you want and start looking for it, and if you find it, fight for it. You didn't come across the girl, I'll tell you that. Everyone brings out your different qualities. Find someone with whom you will be happy to take out only the positive ones, but she will be able to bear the negatives as well and your life will gain a new meaning.
Haha, and I do not respect other people's opinion, but only my own. I'm an ascendant scorpion, if someone does not share my opinion and views - a jerk in the ass. Regarding apathy and phobias - consult a psychologist. As for jealousy and problems in love - learn to give freedom to your partner. Put yourself in her shoes, everyone is afraid of suffocating and obsessive love, so work on this issue, which certainly pushes women away from you. If you do not learn to give freedom, believe me - no one will tolerate you. I couldn't be with a man for a long time who is a painfully jealous and constantly obsessive type ... I would think of him as ill and mentally ill. So, try to change.
A typical scorpion brother ... I know, because I'm a scorpion too, but a girl;)