M, 30, Sofia. I soon started working in a new place. I have no complaints about colleagues and work so far, my grief is different. A very beautiful girl works on my floor. But when I say beautiful, it means pure, natural beauty, without 5 kilos of make-up on the face, provocative rags like dressing, etc. I really like it. The bad thing is that it is in another department, it divides us 1 door and 1 wall. I don't know anything about her, I see her for 5 seconds when she comes in the morning and says good morning to her colleagues and possibly to one of the breaks. She is always with her colleagues on these vacations. I just don't have access, I don't have a job in their department, it will show from a plane, if I go there, that's the process of working with us. I can't get it out of my head for a second week now. With great difficulty I learned the name, on social networks among the piles of photos I did not see a boyfriend / husband in the photo. Colleagues, whom I trust - and they know nothing about it. Those who know, I can't ask them, because they are watchmen and I don't want them to gargle with me. What to do.. In moments of "reassurance" I tell myself that there is no way such a girl does not have a boyfriend and I harass and film in vain, and that there is no need to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, let me tell you, don't think about things :) that there is no way such a girl can't have a boyfriend and I harass and film in vain, and that I don't have to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, let me tell you, don't think about things :) that there's no way such a girl can't have a boyfriend and I'm harassing and filming in vain, and that I don't have to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, to say the least, don't think about things :)
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I am a man of 25. I will give you advice, and how much you will perceive it is your job. As a man, you have a duty to pursue and pursue your goals. When you want something really much, you have to do everything you can to achieve it. In this case, you liked the super cool babe. Ok, but digging on the internet will not do anything. If you want to stand out among everyone in the office, and among the many other men who took her down, you just go to her and tell her directly who you are and what you want. You go to her and say, "Hello, I work in the next department and I see you every day, I couldn't help but meet you because you like it very much. At least you work in the same place and the chance will work for you." The conversation is extremely long, then he just offered to see you, if he refused, take at least some coordinates, if she refuses again, leave her for a while and don't bother her, but you will see what a huge difference her attitude towards you will be. And the fact that she will refuse you the first time does not mean that after 1 month you will not go out, if she is free of course and if you are aggressive enough and confident. And don't think so much about what you're going to tell her, just when you see her next time, don't wait more than 3 seconds, but go and talk to her. What can happen but cut you off? And while you're talking to her, you don't know if an equally cool colleague who hasn't noticed her before and has been impressed by your determination won't be looking away. Precisely the fact that there are always a lot of people should make you talk to her, not sharpen her, like 90% of the chikidjii who do. Don't think he doesn't know who's watching her and staring at her. She is aware of anyone who has an appetite for her, but the question is who will stand out. Women are smart and cunning. If she cuts you off, though, you'll notice how filled you are with a very cool adrenaline rush from talking to her. Congratulations and good luck!
Ehhh, how well you described her :) I really like it when men notice a woman's class and are not attracted to the things that nowadays have become the "standard" for assessing a woman's beauty - like curls, ass, puffy lips , provocative clothing, etc. Look, as a 33-year-old woman, I would tell you that if you like her, you should show it to her. Brave men are rare now, women have clearly become the active party, and you men are sitting and waiting. Do something to get noticed. Something to remember you, if she is beautiful and has many suitors, it is important to stand out in front of others. Some gesture of chivalry, some compliment. Didn't you write if you knew her personally? If he doesn't make you meet :) You'll always find a way, I'm sure of it. Good luck and don't film too much - women like to be liked.
Find her, meet her, see if the story will start and invite her for coffee :) Sounds easy, doesn't it? !!
Once you've found her on the Internet, just write, but don't start with how beautiful she is and compliments, but come up with something, see if it suits you. Write several times and invite her to see you.
Press your rags, for starters. You liked her. If she liked you too, there will be occasions and opportunities to "find out" - a company party, meeting or project. Women of our generation are good at this. And since we are in Bulgaria, just in case, how are you with the main quality criteria in our lands: apartment, car, career, prospects, income, etc. Do not forget the secondary ones: abdominal muscles, biceps, primary sexual characteristics and possible education. Why am I telling you? It's just that the warned man is armed. The reason? I'm new and I've been doing it for a month, for example. If you can't wait, go through social networks. Or find an occasion to treat your colleagues with a little treat. This will be a good occasion to introduce yourself to the "neighbors".
Don't film yourself - as you said - women as much as you want. But as many men as you want, you will hardly choose a scoundrel who does not have the courage for anything
Judging by the problem you have, I guess you're not the busiest type in the world. At least that's my case. Like you, I work in an office in a large building with many offices and I see dozens of pretty girls every day. Like you, I like one that is as sweet as candy, without makeup and without rags. My heart skipped a beat when I saw her. Unfortunately, the practice has shown that people who for 2 weeks wonder if and how to initiate dating are not very popular among women. So don't wait for the right moment - it won't come. You go to her at the first opportunity and start talking. You should not worry about the fact that she is not alone at the moment or that someone else will find out about your intentions. Women ask a man for self-confidence, and nothing whispers self-confidence like that you don't care what others think. Colleagues were watchmakers - my mayanta, you care what she thinks, not what Pesho thinks about accounting, right? Don't make my mistakes. Finding it on Facebook and gathering almost information and waiting to be alone is of no use to you. I know painfully what it's like to like a girl and give courage, but without courage nothing happens. Congratulations and good luck!
Fight brother, and boyfriend to find a way. Time and presure!
So what's the problem? At 30, he still doesn't know how to talk to a woman. When you see her next time, just say hello. Nothing who knows what will not happen. I also have terrible colleagues in the office, they are not in my room, but I really liked one. I talked to her a few days later, it's not scary. I even went out with her, but nothing happened. You lose nothing, it is normal for a man to like a woman. If you think that she will think something who knows what if you talk to her, you are very simple: D Even when you talk to her you will stand out from everyone else who just stares at her and fantasizes. Women love determined men, you just go and talk to her directly, after 1-2 days you invite her somewhere. If you are nice, he will accept, if you are not - nothing terrible will happen, it is normal and no one will laugh or anything. I doubt it very much, it's even possible that another colleague will like you, because you are confident and do what you want. If there are a lot of women out there, your stock will go up a lot, even if it cuts you off - well, if you're a dude. Be a man, go and just meet confidently.
Author: thanks for the comments. Slight clarification, people. IT'S NOT AN OFFICE. Anyway ... It's just another department, with other activities, radically different from ours. I'm neither simple nor tied up :) Even my mouth rumbles more than it should, but it's one thing if it was with us in my sector and there is a reason to talk constantly, hence the gossip and so on. it's another fuck. You describe options and schemes well, but obviously I haven't described to you exactly how things are. Anyway, it will show.
You are a man, she is a woman you like. Be active, invite her to lunch. That's the way it is. As you complicate and enter into schemes, tactics and strategies, someone else will steal it, and you will be left with a finger - you know where.
Well, come on ... let's find some reason and when you see her - just talk to her ... Or write on a social network. Do not give up. There really is a difference between an office and a DEPARTMENT. I work in the department. If you say that there are many women, then even if the attempt at contact has a negative effect, what is it? Take action. F 26
Well, I am a woman and the direct approach - he comes to me and invites me for coffee / lunch, etc., he has always bothered me, even if I initially liked the young man, he can become disliked and frighten me by such a direct approach. To the author: don't you have an inner feeling if she has noticed you and has sympathy for you? If so, then you can gradually act ... Look, gradually at some word in a common company and only then - if it is susceptible to the "dump" - writing on social networks or an invitation to lunch. But it must be done in a super natural way, otherwise you will come out as intrusive.
Author: With patience everything is achieved. Luck helps the brave. Pasha loves the brave. Patience is a virtue, wait. Beauty cannot be forced. And so on. If I listen to each one, I can't get anywhere :) I don't give money to believe me, but it's really not as easy as you think. I have nothing to do in their department. Our vacations are different - mine is over - their soil. To pretend to extinguish my face for 2 minutes in the ashtray or to tie my shoes for 5 minutes, just to wait for her to appear - first it's pathetic and obvious from a kilometer, second - at most to get angry with the bosses. This is the sad thing - there is a discrepancy everywhere, that's why I'm angry. Either it is not written or I will wait for my chance patiently. Again, I don't know anything about her personal life, and I don't film so much anymore that it will turn out to be a serious friend and I'm there. I know to in so much, but as it is doomed from the beginning, why waste nerves and time? Thank you all.