I have been in a relationship with him for 8 months, 3 of which we live together. He keeps saying that he loves me, that he can't do without me. I don't know if I'm suggesting it, but I think he cheated on me with the girl who works for us. One night I sent him to close the store and when he came back he was startled, scared, and so on. I pardoned him and he stood without touching me (and other times he always reciprocated). I went down his godfather's cock and he smelled like sex, his penis was very shrunken. The next day when I went to the store I checked in the trash and found a very small piece of paper with semen (if I'm not mistaken). On the same day, he left to do a job that he had and would not delay, but came at the hour when the girl came to work - he with the car, and she walked from the same direction. AT THE SAME TIME. She even told me: didn't he see me coming (as if I had almost seen something else). I don't know what to think, please help me!
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What is there to deceive yourself, waiting for him to admit hmm .....
Don't pretend to suspect anything! Be warm and kind to him as before. But watch them closely and provoke them, to see if they will be betrayed, the truth never remains hidden. The chick, you can make her your "girlfriend" with someone else. sweet story, true mean, but it's nice to reinsure yourself. And to share some supposedly personal things with her, which of course are not necessarily true. Something like "I'm not going to drink coffee, my dear husband served me fragrant and hot in the morning, which is what I love," found the weaknesses. Tell him how much he loves you and that he gives you flowers, even if he has never done it, tell him that he is kind and does things for you. And if he asks you, what did you say to the worker "...." clear ".... but you don't hurry, ask him how he knows, and it is clear where you go from and snuggle into him and tell him, well, because she tells me about her, how nice he is and what things she does and so that I don't expose you .... If intrigue breaks out, fuck them both. Although they will hardly be very dear after such an intrigue! :) How cleverly I invented it, if it was for me I wouldn't have invented it so well :) Good luck! and know that men lie!
I suggest you bluff, tell him "I know everything, at least you have the courage to admit it" will be issued immediately.
Write what happened. Did you catch him ... or did you turn out to be suggesting.
Hello everyone. Thanks for the advice you gave me. In the end, nothing was understood. I couldn't stand it and told him I doubted them. HE was shaking, his whole heart was about to burst, but of course he didn't tell me why the lights had been turned off before the closing time or where this piece of paper might be. In the evening we both went to the store and we decided to ask her what time they closed and shut down (usually we close at 10 pm). HE WAS VERY DISTURBED. As we entered, she sensed that something was wrong and began to look at him timidly, as if to see if he had said something to me. SHE said completely different things. I asked her why it was turned off before 10 pm (I was bluffing about the lamps, I had no way of knowing that they were turned off) and she said that she didn't remember as much as he did. She also said she hasn't been to the bathroom since she worked for us, and for the lamps that they may have turned them off and continued to clean. IN THE END, NOTHING IS KNOWN, BUT THERE IS NOTHING HIDDEN FOREVER, SO SOON SOON OR LATER YOU WILL UNDERSTAND. I THINK IT HAPPENED BUT I HAVE NO EVIDENCE. He told me that nothing had happened between them and that one day I would find out the truth and if he really hadn't cheated he had sworn to leave me. THIS IS FROM ME AT LEAST NOW AND THANK YOU AGAIN FOR THE ADVICE AND COMPASSION YOU HAVE SHOWED ME! IF I CAN BE USEFUL WITH PLEASURE ... THIS IS FROM ME AT LEAST NOW AND THANK YOU AGAIN FOR THE ADVICE AND COMPASSION YOU HAVE SHOWED ME! IF I CAN BE USEFUL WITH PLEASURE ... THIS IS FROM ME AT LEAST NOW AND ONE MORE TIME THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE AND COMPASSION YOU SHOW ME! IF I CAN BE USEFUL WITH PLEASURE ...
Soap opera. Your childish work. If he can't fuck you one after the other, he is something unthinkable for me. Instead of grabbing him for that job and hardening him, you started to smell him. And now that he realizes he's cheating on you, what are you doing? I think the Turks, no matter how much we hate them, are doing their best. When they catch one, they only walk with it. She and my wife mutter, but when I satisfy her, I start muttering, especially in the morning when I want to hug her, and she yells at me: Leave me late for work. A big vote is read. And for whom? I wonder how you guard this store of yours, with such childish questions. Take a walk !?
Well, he's cheating on you if you ask me. After all, you are not small. You've seen what it's like. Decide what you're going to do next. what would you do if you weren't with him and opened the door ... Otherwise there's no way. If he loves you, he will be with you.
I wonder why you all write so illiterately ... It's written as a child - not a child. As for infidelity ... If your boyfriend is cheating on you with another girl, then he is fed up with you, there is nothing new to offer him and he is dependent on you for some other reason. In my opinion, it is useless to keep an eye on him, to monitor him and to fall into nervous crises of suspicion and doubt. In your place, I would part with him with meekness and kindness. There is a joke: "A cat will come for a cake", if he appreciates you, sooner or later he will pray for you. My advice is to break up.