Hello! I am a 22 year old boy and I have been wondering for a long time where I could share my story and I found this site. There has always been a problem with me, which is that I am mainly interested in committed women, and those who have no one and would like to be with me, just do not pay the same attention to me. This has not happened with one, two or feather girls, but I can say that with dozens. I've thought a lot about this and I can't answer why this is happening to me. I don't know if the reason is in me and that's why I can't find a serious relationship ... I started to avoid those who are committed and like me, because then it hurts from unshared feelings. My story may be a little strange, but I'd be happy if someone went through it and knows how I feel to share their opinion.
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From a psychological point of view, you are attractive to committed girls because you are likely to come across those who, for example, are not ashamed of who knows how much, and seek diversity with another boy, as some committed men seek diversity with another girl. People prefer to call it infidelity, but they haven't cheated on their boys with you, so let's call it post-infidelity. On the other hand, you may not have searched enough, karma, god knows. Just a chance, you didn't come across the right one. You will fall. You just have to like someone unattached and not leave her. Make it your own. Don't give up. Little by little, with perseverance, to make your way to her heart, and to make her like you. success =]
Interesting story. I have the same problem. Normal women don't pay much attention to me. But this is done by underage girls who have some strange problem. And they get too attached to me.
It is usually associated with going to the gym. In the female case with going to the gym - and losing weight. In the male case with going to the gym - try not to smoke, please know that some people like it so that they don't eat, but I gave them up and I feel better. Anyway, the idea in this case is to prove to the girls that you are the type of boy who only outwardly cannot be distinguished - that he will only stand with her. Of course, if you prove to her character that you can be monogamous, she will give herself to you, otherwise you will remain familiar or you will not look at each other as you pass each other on the street. So buy fashionable clothes and at least a little fitness should be visible. Then, after changing outwardly, try to talk to this "committed girlfriend" and look at their faces - 2 options, the first is that you will find yourself engaged or they will introduce you to unattached. Good luck
This is because there is no single literate woman. A friend shouts, "I only deal with the busy because the free ones have something wrong." And I yell at him: "Wait a minute, you mean that the employees tie you up, even though they have a serious friend and you think this is a literate woman?" .... followed by a strange face and silence ....
From the Author: I don't have any problems with my appearance, because I haven't left the halls for 10 years, my nice body and way of dressing is not a complex for me, because I always combine both of them well. I didn't write this at the beginning, because I had come to the opinion that most girls fall for people who haven't undressed and physically at school. I don't like to point out to people what I can and do. A week ago I was on a date with a girl again and she was curious what I was doing in principle. I told her that I was about to graduate from a prestigious university, that I knew four languages, and that in my 22 years I had managed to do some things where some people, even 30, could have achieved the same thing. When she heard this from me, she looked at me blankly and wondered what she could say.
Author, I understood from your comment what your problem is and I gave you advice, but due to reasons that are absolutely unclear to me, once again a moderator has decided that it is not necessary to give you advice. I have neither written illiterately nor insulted, but ...
Try to lower your self-esteem a little, or at least make it look like that. Not that you don't have self-confidence, but yours is too much. Respect yourself, ask for respect. But now it's as if you're telling them I'm the greatest. Yes, but girls want to know that they are important to you, that they can count on you. It doesn't seem that way from pointing out how great you are. Here's what happened now: The girl showed interest - and you started to stand out, and so you pointed out that she felt not at your level or thought of you as another braggart and no wonder there was no meeting. In very rare cases there will be a similar one. Rather, she said she accepted a second date just to get rid of you. In general, all the girl needs to know is the name of the university in which city he is located and that you will graduate soon. The rest of the information is just a minus. Instead of ? you explain how great you are. After you told her about the university, you had to ask her something. The conversation should be mostly about her. And it's even better for her to talk. People love most of all themselves, but this also applies to our halves.
Author, I'm sorry, but believe me, no woman cares how many languages you speak. She wants some casual and more cheerful conversation to relax with. Such conversations about languages, ambitions and the like will strain her even more. And you won't look a better partner in her eyes, believe me. You will look as if you are convinced that when you speak in tongues, she must lie to you. Moreover, for her, languages can have no value. Just because they're important to you is no guarantee that they're important to her. Such conversations may be welcome at a job interview, but not at a meeting, much less at first. Change your approach.
Author, I also speak 4 languages besides Bulgarian and I can do more crookedly and I will explain to you why I prefer not to brag about this activity to anyone. As with others: 1. Languages, and especially when it comes to a larger number, are not learned for their own prestige, but for the people who belong to the community that speaks it 2. Not all people have an interest in foreign languages 3 Yet many people today travel and teach them, and it often happens that if you know their mother tongue and tell them that you know some of your languages, they will insist on practicing their foreign languages with you. most people don't like someone to be much better than them, and if you go to them and say, for example, "I'm Pesho, I have 4 high schools, I know 10 languages", they will think 2 things: a. I'm not at your level and I can't talk to you b. You are just an egocentric seeking approval. I know other people who speak many more languages than we do and have studied more education and are alone because they think that way. Some go to the other extreme and become very modest, but this is more a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. I know other people who speak many more languages than we do and have studied more education and are alone because they think that way. Some go to the other extreme and become very modest, but this is more a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. I know other people who speak many more languages than we do and have studied more education and are alone because they think that way. Some go to the other extreme and become very modest, but this is more a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. who speak many more languages than we do and have studied more education and are alone because they think that way. Some go to the other extreme and become very modest, but this is more a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I've learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. who speak many more languages than we do and have studied more education and are alone because they think that way. Some go to the other extreme and become very modest, but this is more a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. but it is rather a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. but it is rather a demonstration of low self-esteem. So these skills are not the key to a woman's heart! 5. From the little experience I have and from what I have learned about relationships here and there, I know that relationships are not about being happy and having status, but about making the other person happy. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour. Lately I see cases when a man takes his beloved on vacation in Europe and then she dumps him. How men who know a lot are left alone. Many years ago there was a song by an American singer who asked his partner how she could cheat on him while he was on tour.