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Unattainable Desire

By jamescooke1984 October 06, 2020 17 answers Last updated October 06, 2020

I am in love with a young man who has a girlfriend and is about to get married. By a stupid coincidence, she read the text messages I wrote to him. Now we are both confused - should we continue or throw everything in the trash. ?? And passion has it, desire too ... but reason says otherwise. Should I pull the manual or move forward?

Answers 17

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jeroenweimarphotography answered · October 06, 2020

   His marriage will be a mistake if he is in love with you. Nothing should stand between you if you love each other and there is a thrill! And why is it a "stupid coincidence" that his girlfriend read the text messages? Rather, it should have happened, obviously not for each other, think about it. Success!

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bonprix answered · October 06, 2020

   If you're a lot older than him ... leave him anyway while he's been with her he's been with you and you're still doing it. Rather, think about the fact that if he chooses you ... you will be the one to read the SMS.

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shairacox_ answered · October 06, 2020

   Fight for your love, if you are convinced that this is him ... after all, you are important, not his girlfriend, think first about yourself, about your happiness, because hardly anyone will think about you. Good luck.

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what_your_name answered · October 06, 2020

   It's good to be happy, but it's not good to do it at someone else's expense. Because that's how you will score an own goal - you will see.

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hafizrcti answered · October 06, 2020

   to 4: Yes, to think about your happiness, but to remember that happiness is not built on someone else's unhappiness !!!!!

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pizzalovesall answered · October 06, 2020

   UNFORTUNATELY, DEAR, WE CAN NO LONGER COMPETE WITH YOUNGER GIRLS. I DON'T THINK HE WILL DROP HIS YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL Girlfriend BECAUSE OF YOU. YOU SAY HE'S YOUNGER AND THAT'S WHY I THINK. I ALSO HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUNGER, BUT UNPRESSEDLY AGE MATTERS. BETTER LEAVE THEM TO HAVE A HEALTHY AND STABLE FAMILY, DO NOT ENTER A TERRITORY IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED, DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE!

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asslover10100 answered · October 06, 2020

   I will take advantage of the fact that the site allows people to express their opinions, whether the author likes it or not, and I will say that I am sick of people like you. I say "such" and I mean women who build their fucking happiness at the expense of other people's misfortune! Are the unmarried men over?

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aussie__1080 answered · October 06, 2020

   Wait, why are you all attacking her ?? It is very easy for a man to turn a woman's head to such an extent that she forgets both morality and dignity! Rather, he is to blame because he spun both at the same time. If he really loved his girlfriend, he wouldn't sleep with another! It's good that his girlfriend found out what kind of product he is! And as for the author, if she loved you so much, she would break up with her fiancée and be with you! Now, even if that happens, you may find yourself in her place in time. I don't know how much he has feelings for you. And if you intervened in their relationship without him taking you down first and seducing him, I don't want to judge you, but you should know that everything comes back. I hope the situation is not like that, because then you really have to feel bad. However, if this is true between you, I wish you happiness,

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minnismiles answered · October 06, 2020

   Yes, the other relationship may not have been successful, and the two may have been made for each other. Do to me what you think will make you happy in the end. But really.

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princessa20 answered · October 06, 2020

   Look what, leave that man, find a wise man, not disbelieving, at your age and most importantly be yours alone. Let him marry if he wants to. The fool is the one who read the text messages, if she marries him, I will accept that she really is a plug. If you fight him and you succeed and start the wreck, it will also end only so that you will be the fool. Once a man faints, he will always do it. It's the same with women.

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collegenundies answered · October 06, 2020

   The fact is that decent men in God are busy. There is a great shortage of educated, handsome and ambitious men! And for this case, it must be very hard for you, but if he really loved you and wanted you, then he would not marry another. But given the shortage of men, there may be no rules in this case, so listen to yourself and your reason.

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SabrinaKurt answered · October 06, 2020

   And I'm sick of women who ruin other people's relationships.

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Audrey_xx answered · October 06, 2020

   And I'm engaged ... and I'm just imagining some aunt like you to deal with my fiancé and ... I'll beat you both unfortunates !!!

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chelsea444 answered · October 07, 2020

   14. And I'm engaged ... and I'm just imagining some aunt like you to deal with my fiancé and ... I'll beat you both unfortunates !!! Hehe. I'm meek, girl! You seem to need psychiatric intervention.

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xXxCandy_93xXx answered · October 07, 2020

   Well, for people like you, only a fight fixes you, and then the girl to a psychologist to go ... you send them all to the psychiatric hospitals here, you are great specialists, haha.

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paulofkent answered · October 07, 2020

   There is a lot of laughter here ... I just don't know why you attack the woman, and don't look at yourself, what are you doing. Numbers 8, 13, 14. The woman should not drag this prince by force ........ he does it himself. You make your life difficult by falling into hysteria and jealousy to despair. Today is another tomorrow, and man does what he wants. He is to blame and there is no one else. Ah ... don't you wonder if you weren't ..... this "aunt" as you say without the woman saying how old she is. Before HE becomes your fiancé or whatever. So as long as you gave funny opinions so that people would not laugh at you .... To the author: And to you dear, I wish you luck and if the Lord in question deserves it, fight for him, if not let him continue his life with his deluded girlfriend.

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3bse_11 answered · October 07, 2020

   Hey 17, you're obviously some old old cow. I'm not a girl. How did you come to the conclusion that she did not drag him by force or manipulate him, when she knew that he would marry and did not retire alone?